bella: my truth jocylen jennefer adriana they bully me all day they say a have big lips a am ugly stupid -

bella: in my scool poeple just bother me like mario joyeln jennefer angel anthony but they dont stop -

Amethyst: I pledge to try my hardest to better myself and stop hurting everyone who gets close to me. I pledge to show kindness while still being completely honest. I pledge to stop taking every blessing I get for granted. - Lewisburg

Amethyst: I am very sorry for how I treated you. I always took your support and friendship for granted. I've never been the "best firend" I should've. I fear you are gone now, but I still want to say sorry because you are such a wonderful, beautiful person inside and out... So you deserve at least that. - Miranda

Amethyst: My truth is that I have been a bully, but I stopped. A year later, I started being bullied. My friends started leaving, but I made some new ones. My truth is that it benefits neither side, and I know it from experience. I have never been the "prettiest" girl or anything like that, but I'm MYSELF. Most my life, people have alienated me. People came and people went, and they always made me feel like there was something WRONG with me. The truth is I'm SICK of it. I never once acted like somebody I wasn't (I hardly even wear makeup), but now I KNOW that it's 100% okay to be how I am. I can still have my days, but I always try to make ammends in the end. The truth is, I am me. -

Clare: I am sorry to anyone that I have ever unententionally hurt, I always try my best to be as nice as possible, but I never know what anyone's thinking that I should've done. - Her Name

mary jade thompson: im going to be kind to everyone, including my self. -

Paula: I want to apologize to my friend Jojo for calling her fat - Jojo

Paula: I Pledge to be kind to others even though they are mean to me. - Miami

Natalie: i am sorry that i bullied you ryan, i was trying to be cool.... i fell really bad ): (easy to type... i am still scared to tell him in person) - Ryan

Natalie: I pledge to unite in kindness in an effort to end female bullying! I will not be the bully, i will help those who have been/are being bullied! - Orangeville

Natalie.D (bad at spelling): i am in grade 6. I was feeling really fat and ugly one day and both my mom and i were in a bad mood. She (my mom) accidently, in a way called me fat and said that if i stopped eating crapp (junk food) i would get skinny! I coulden't help not eating crapp! i felt even worse about myself!!! So i decided to stop eating. Not just crapp but everything because i coulden't live with my weight! My sister eventuly found out and tried to get me to start eating. She said that my weight was healthy for my age. she told me i was just commparing myself to all of the girls i know (they are all skinny!) i did not want to hurt myself any more but still wanted to be as skinny as barbie. when i told her this she picked up her computer and showed me a picture of a regular woman with lines on her indicating what she would look like as a barbie. and If Barbie were a real woman, her head would be the same circumference as her waist, meaning she’d have room for only half a liver and a few inches of intestines, (as opposed to the usual 26 feet). The result: chronic diarrhea and death from malabsorption & malnutrition. To look like Barbie proportionally, a healthy woman would need to add 61 cm to her height, subtract 15 cm from her waist, add 13 cm to her chest, and 8 cm to her neck length. Because Barbie’s neck is twice as long as the average human’s, it would be impossible for her to hold up her head. Her legs are 50 percent longer than her arms, (the average woman’s legs are only 20 percent longer than her arms). She’d also have to walk on all fours (her feet are so disproportionately small, her chest would pull her forward onto her toes). she showed me that i was not fat and that i should not be sad about my weight. Besides! i might not be the skinnyest in my class but i am the fastest! >_ -

Maggie: I pledge to be kind to everyone, even if they aren't kind to me. I know it is difficult sometimes, but nobody's perfect, so I will always try. I don't know everybody's stories but I pledge to be patient - Glen Ridge

Savannah: I take the kind pledge, and i pledge to unite in kindness in an effort to end female bullying. This is very close and dear to my heart, as Tyra Banks has been my rolemodel forever and she devotes her life towards young girls. I will be making this club at my school and hope i truly make a difference (: - Bloomfield, NJ

aliya nejara: HI,I have my own story it all started in a daycare every time in the morning i got up at 6 am did my routine and went off to my doctor every morning and scince i didnt eat my mom would buy me a dounot and usualy i came to my daycare in the morning and my teacher ask don; you want to eat your dounot and i said no because my fiends said i am a loser and they hit me and when we played my friends came and protected me -

Rebecca Harder: I pledge to do my best in talking out my fear and anxiety rather than getting flustered and blowing up at people I love. I pledge to deal with fights sooner rather than later. I pledge to try to be the better woman whenever I can. I pledge to give others encouraging words when they need them and to always give out free hugs. I pledge to try to listen without judgement, and to give advise that helps, not hurts. I pledge to follow the "Golden Rule". I understand that I am human and that I am allowed to make mistakes, but I pledge to try to be the best person that I can be. - Austin, TX

Rebecca Harder: Dear Mom, I am sorry that we have had horrible fights. I am sorry that I have walked out on you. I am sorry that I don't always tell you when I am stuck. I am sorry that I am not as well adjusted as I should be. I just want to be your perfect little girl, to make you proud, to show you that I can meet all your expectations. I just get so bogged down in the pressure of life/school/etc. that I am afraid to show you any sign of weakness. I don't want you to think of me as a failure, even when I have made mistakes that I wish I could share with you. I am sorry that we have both said stuff that we didn't mean, but was very hurtful anyway. I am sorry if I every caused you panic, or shame, or pain. I know that we are both in a good spot right now with each other, but I would like to be at the point where we can both share our fears and faults with total confidence in being heard and accepted. I am sorry if I am still a little upset with you about the substance of some of our fights, but I want a clean slate. I want you to be able to truly trust me again, and I want to be able to feel like I can tell you everything, even if some of it might make you worry. I love you. - Nuria Lopez

Rebecca Harder: I am 22 years old. I haven't been in high school for about 4 years now, but I still remember the gossip and the drama, and drama still happens to me and my friends, as it probably always will. I've tried to be drama free and let things go, or I have tried to give people benefit of the doubt, but sometimes things/life/school/etc. get really rough and I have lashed out at people that I really care about. It's just hard to hold in all the fear and anxiety and pressure sometimes. I try to be kind all the time, but the truth is, I am not very kind to myself at all. I put myself down all the time, over-criticize every mistake, kick myself for not being perfect. I have OCD and depression, and I have contemplated suicide many times. I have also done some cutting. I just want to say, try to be kind to others, but also try to be kind to yourself, and don't be afraid to talk/vent to someone when life seems to be too much. -

Paige: Sorry for all the mean things I said. I am so sad I could sing the Dora the explorer theme song. - Kera hicks

Paige Cartwright : 1 day a girl kicked me out of her girls only club. Just because i talked to a boy! I was too scard 2 tell her she was so mean it was scary! Really she never Relished I never cared about her -

Arielle Cohen: I take this pledge quite seriously. Females through out the world need to realize there behavior. We have all done it either by choice or by accident. No matter why or how we need to change it. By taking this pledge, I promise to be conscience of my behavior and apologize immediately to any girl that I commit a girl-on-girl "crime". - Los Angeles

Arielle Cohen : There is not one particular girl I want to apologize to. I think there have been times that I have been mean to a girl and I do not know why. I want to make an effort to be open and kind to any girls I am meeting for the first time. I also want to take this time to apologize for any time I have talked about a girl behind her back, it is not right and no one deserves that kind of the treatment. By saying this apology to any girl I have treated this way I want them to know that I am using this apology to correct my behavior from this day forward. - Any girl I've been mean to

Arielle Cohen: I would never say any girl was out right mean or vicious to me like many girls have experienced. It was more behind my back. I also feel that when you are girl starting at a new school its hard to make friends. Grils are territorial and do not like opening open to new girls that enter into that world. I don't understand why, especially after I joined a sorority. Every sorority I went to during recruitment opened up to me and they had never met me before. Why couldn't girls in high school do the same? -

feather: i sad becaues my bothers -

Britany: To my ex-Sisters: I am sorry that I embarrassed you. I am sorry that I was blinded and unsure of myself. I am sorry that I didn't believe that you could love me for who I really was and thus pretended to be someone else. I am sorry that I wasn't honest. I am sorry for blaming you when so much of the problem was my fault. You are all beautiful women. I honestly hope that you are all just as happy today as I am. - Phi Sig Sisters

Britany: A few days ago, I attended the screening of the Finding Kind documentary in Westminster, Maryland and I was truly moved. I only attended the screening because it was for an assignment for one of my classes at McDaniel College; honestly, I wasn't even sure what the documentary was about. I never expected to be confronted with a story that I have locked away deep within my heart for the past two years. Currently, I am a senior at McDaniel College. Two years ago I was an innocent little sophomore starting my fall semester and really wanting to make some new friends as I was coping with a recent break up. I was living on a "sorority floor" in a dorm and had gotten to know some of the girls from the sorority over the first month or so of the semester. There was another girl on the floor that was not officially a "sister" yet; we decided to go through our campus' "sorority recruitment" process, in hopes of joining the sorority that we were already living with. [In case you're unfamiliar with the "recruitment" process, here's a little background: in order to pledge for a sorority, our campus asks that you get to know all of the sororities on campus before choosing which one you think suits you best. There are three days of "rounds". They start early in the evening and basically the way it works is all of the "potentials" who signed up for recruitment are divided into small groups and they go around and visit each of the sororities. Each round has a different theme and the finale event is "Bid Day" which is when you either get invited ("offered a bid") to a sorority or you do not.] As it turns out, the friend that I had signed up for recruitment with and I were not in the same group. Instead, I was with a bunch of girls that I knew of—heard of, seen around, knew about—for the entire recruitment process. The reason why I knew of them was not just because we were a small campus; it was also because they were the "popular" girls in our class. They always knew where the parties where, everyone knew their names, they were just the girls to watch for our class. Much to my surprise, throughout the recruitment process I had become quite close with those girls. I couldn't believe that girls like that actually liked a girl like me. I had never felt so good about myself. I became really confident and excited; that new-found personality only grew when I was offered a bid into the "Popular Sorority". This sorority was NOT the sorority that I had originally planned on joining because I didn't think there was any way I would ever get offered a bid, but surely enough I did. Additionally I was offered a bid from the sorority that I was living with. Overwhelmed and even blinded by the "Phi Sig Sparkle" I chose to pledge with the sorority that I never thought I stood a chance with: Phi Sigma Sigma. I didn't consider the fact that my friend whom I had signed up for recruitment with (Megan) was not pledging Phi Sig; she decided to join the sorority that we were living with.That was when she and I went our separate ways and my life changed…forever. Bid Day was such a blur. When they called my name and announced me as a Phi Sig. for the first time I was ecstatic. I ran down to the 40 beautiful girls who seemed so incredibly excited about having me be a part of their life. I had never felt so accepted. Along with me were those girls that I went through recruitment with, those "popular" girls that I couldn't believe liked me. We rushed down to the gazebo like a herd of wild animals surrounded by our new Sisters screaming their songs at the top of their lungs. As we entered the gazebo, the "pledges" crowded close together in the center and all of the Sisters stood on the benches and piled in to the jam-packed McDaniel landmark. Suddenly the content of their songs shifted from the sweet little "I am stuck on Phi Sig, 'cuz Phi Sig's stuck on me" to incredibly vulgar, demeaning, explicit songs like "So fuck me, fuck me, fuck me, who the fuck are me? We are Phi Sigma Sigma, the best sorority!" Unsure of how to react I looked at my fellow pledges. Sure, they looked overwhelmed, but in a good way. I felt down right uncomfortable. I didn't talk like that and I wondered would I really be singing those same songs in just a few weeks? That day that I joined Phi Sig was the day that my entire life began to change. Things that I used to feel so strongly against, I began partaking in quite regularly. Case in point, alcohol consumption. All throughout high school and even freshman year I was able to abstain from alcohol, for the most part. I had definitely never been intoxicated and I even criticized my dad quite regularly for drinking so much. To this day, I don't know how exactly I got so out of control. I became obsessed with the idea of fitting in. I wanted everyone to believe that Phi Sig was where I belonged. I drank more and more as the months went on. I was the girl that became the "embarrassment" at parties. Yet, that small group of girls that I pledged with stuck by my side. They would make excuses for me and always be ready to party with me again the next night. Before I knew it, I was spending a significant amount of time drinking alone, in the morning, during class, even in the shower. I went from drinking beer and mixed drinks to drinking hard liquor straight. Vodka in a water bottle seemed to fool everyone—professors, police, and my Sisters. No one knew this secret that I was harboring. No one knew that my immense need to be one of them had reached new levels: I had become an alcoholic. A real, scary, deteriorating alcoholic. At the end of my sophomore year, there was one fateful night that seemed to be the turning point for everyone. In one of my drunken rages, I lost it. To this day, I do not know the details of what happened because I was beyond the point of a blackout. All I know is the next day, no one would talk to me, look at me, or even listen to me. Over the summer and the following fall I had become incredibly depressed. Even though I was finally living with my sorority, I spent most of my time alone, in my room, drinking my troubles away. In October, I took a leave of absence. My depression had gotten to the point where I couldn't get out of bed, go to class, go to work, or function at all. My parents and my doctor told me that I needed to take some time off (despite the fact that they didn't even know about my drinking problem). During my recovery period, I experienced terrible withdrawal. The depression got worse. I left rather abruptly from school—didn't say bye to anyone—and the thing that was killing me the most was that no one had reached out to me. They saw that my room was completely abandoned, empty, and yet no one cared enough to ask me if I was okay. I felt so alone. I realized that I was living in a fantasy world the entire time that I was a Phi Sig. Could it really be possible that I was missing something? Were we really not the greatest of friends in the first place? It seemed like they felt this way about me all along, before our big fight, and now they finally had an excuse to act on their feelings. After an entire month had passed without hearing from a single person from school, I made a terrible decision. I decided that I would rather not live at all than have to live alone. In mid-November of 2010, I overdosed. I swallowed about 60 Lithium tablets—one of the most toxic prescription medications on the market. I was rushed to the hospital where I couldn't stop throwing up. I was dizzy and falling in and out of consciousness. In order to save my life, I had a tube inserted through my nose and down my throat that sucked all of the toxic fluid out of my stomach and was exchanged for a cleansing fluid that was going to restore my body, I was in the Intensive Care Unit for three days. Each day I had to have dialysis because I had done such terrible damage to my kidneys. I spent two weeks in the psychiatric unit (including Thanksgiving) where I recovered from everything. Upon discharge, I still hadn't heard from anyone in my sorority. They didn't even know that I had literally just dodged death because of everything that had happened between us. Yet, I would go on Facebook and see pictures of them at parties and formals and going on like life had never been better. About a month later I received a phone call from our sorority president asking me if I knew if I was going to be returning back to McDaniel the following semester or not. Unsure if I was ready or not, my doctor was not yet ready to make that decision. Unable to give a definite answer, the president gave me two options: 1.) I pay "dues" (the national fee for being in the sorority) and if I return it's paid, and if not, I get no refund or 2.) I don't pay and if I return I would not be allowed to so affiliated with the sorority. Suddenly everything seemed so clear. I realized that for the duration of this conversation, she didn't ask ONCE "By the way, how are you?". No. She didn't care. She cared about paying my dues. And it became so obvious that everyone else probably felt the same. From a distance, it looked like I had fallen off the face of the earth and no one cared. At that exact moment of clarity, I disaffiliated from the sorority. Upon returning the following semester no one knew how to treat me. Most of them ignored my existence entirely, and those who didn't right away, have grown to completely ignore me. When they're not ignoring me, they're whispering, laughing, gossiping, about what happened to the lost Phi Sig. Two years later I have never been happier, healthier, or more successful. I keep busy and don't let interactions with my ex-sisters get the best of me. I have really grown up in a short amount of time. I have seen the ugly side of Girl World and I almost died because of it. Though my entire experience was incredibly painful and even life threatening, I don't regret it at all. I have learned so much about myself and about people in general because of my experience. That was a time of true confusion for me. I had no idea who I was and I was so fixated on being who I thought everyone wanted me to be. Now, I am able to look in the mirror and be happy and proud of who I am. I have so much dignity just by knowing that I am no longer part of the group of girls who walk around campus calling themselves whores and sluts. I have learned that I am better than that. I can only hope that they can see that they are too. -

Mickey: I'm not sorry for what I did do, but for what I didn't. I didn't stand up for either of you when that group was making fun of you behind your back. From now on, I will. -

kaomi macphee: it all started when i came to school in grade 3 dare was 2 dere names were sopha and wiloi sopha. the girls wed talk a bata me and tell to most girls and boys at school. the next day most of the girls and boys wode cell me boney i nide so bad to live mi tone kap. -

Chloe: I'm sorry that you felt the need to leave school. I know we disagreed and you felt really lonely, and to be honest, I still don't understand why you acted the way you did, but I forgive you for being mean to me. I know we're not going to be friends like that again, but I just want to be the better person and apologize. - Emily

Lissie: I was harassed on the school bus to such a degree that I refused to ride the school bus. My mom had to drive me to school every day because I would have a panic attack if I had to ride the bus. -

Meagan: I'm sorry for everything I've said that hurt you. - The Ones I Know

Meagan: I am so sorry for turning on you. All the things I've said and done...I know it didn't help you. I sincerely apologize. - Kara

Meagan: I pledge to think before I speak and act. - Washington, DC

Meagan: I've always been the new girl in school. Being a child of divorced parents and accustomed to arguing and fighting, I didn't really know how to be nice or gentle or how to make friends. In elementary school I got by just being this bossy girl, but inside I hated what I was doing to my friends. I just didn't have anywhere to turn and I didn't know what to do. I went through a lot at home, so it kind of forced me to become very mature at a young age and keep things bottled up; to express myself in ways that weren't always the best. I moved on from that, eventually, but when I transferred to public school, I was so lost. People talked about me, laughed at me, and assumed things about me that ruined my reputation. I had some friends, but I ate lunch alone and came home crying because the things people were saying destroyed me inside. I've been able to recover and cope very well since that year, but now I find myself very insecure. I look in the mirror and hate what I see. Every other girl seems prettier or better than me, and I start to hate everything about myself. There still isn't anyone I can go to, so I try to deal with it internally. I just wish that all the rumors and drama weren't making everything worse. -

Jenny: I'm sorry for getting mad at you. It wasn't right. - Nia

Emily Wachter: Dear old me, I no longer feel alone, sad, mad, stressed out, or nervous. I no longer feel the need to harm myself. Instead, I will write, draw, and make music. I have learned that I’m not alone and there are many people out there like me. I have learned that I don’t need to change or depend on guys for everything. Goodbye to my life of pain and sorrow. To everyone who has ever hurt me, physically or mentally, even though it hurt me at the time, you have made me a strong and a mature person. Goodbye anger. I now know when I get angry to walk away and count to ten and then confront whoever or whatever I have a problem with. Goodbye depression. You will no longer make me feel sad, angry, worried, or fearful. You no longer hold me back. You no longer have my confidence. You no longer keep me away from God and Christ. You no longer keep me up at night. You no longer have control over any aspect of my life. Goodbye depression and anger; you’re gone. Sincerely, New me -

Amy: Lanna, I'm sorry. I thought you saw that I was there for you. I'm sorry you feel mocked or belittled. Pain is real, and it's nothing to make fun of- that was never my intention, my intention was love. - Lanna

Sydney: i am really sorry for talking shit behind your back. ive been so jelous of you because you smart and pretty, and can get any guy you want. you can be really nice and mean too. i would like to be friends some time. - Torie

Sydney: I am so sorry for being rude to you, calling you a slut, bitch, two face, and other names behind your back. it was so wrong of me. i shouldnt judge people like that. - Jessica

Sydney: I have been bullied by other girls on how i am fat, how i wear my shirts to low, how big my nose is, how ugly i am. i go home and try to stay strong, but it hurts a lot. i wish girls werent so mean to eachother, and i wanna be able to walk down the halls at school without people talking about me. -

Louisa: In 5th grade I was bullied. In my class, I had two of my best friends and we would do everything together, always. One day though, they went to the office to get something for our teacher and I decided to look through one of their desks because she had a big bag in it. I looked in the plastic bag and I saw tons and tons of sticky notes. I started to read them and i soon realized that they were all about me. How stupid I was, how ugly I looked one day, how my hair is always frizzy. I couldn't take it, I just started bawling in the middle of class and ran to the bathroom. These two girls were my best friends and I just felt so betrayed and alone. The rest of the year in that class they isolated me, I was never good enough for them. It made me feel like it was my fault too. They blamed me for the notes they wrote. Its been about 4 years since this incident and I am friends with the girls. We're not as close as we were but we are on speaking terms. They have apologized and it is better.. My message to girls who are being bullied is to stay strong because it all eventually comes to an end. -

Khristine: In Middle school i was always picked on. In the 7th grade i was picked on by these group of girls who made fun of how I dressed and my weight. In the 8th grade is when it this girl drew the line on bullying. i didn't know her at all. She just started throwing stuff at me in lunch and always taunted me if i ever stood up to her. She went to far when she threw milk at me. I decided to throw it back at her. She didn't like it so her and the whole table got up with her and all walked up to my face saying stuff like what you gonna do or i know you didn't just do that! There was no point for them all to get like that and i didn't know them all. I want to just hit her in the face but there was this school policy that if you started a fight you didn't graduate so luckily the bell rang and i ran out of there holding in my tears. I didn't realize i had ran past my best friends. I just ran and ran to my next class. I had the best of friends that year so if it had not been for them that day keeping me calm and saying that to just ignore the girl that she's not important for me to mess with i would have been miserable the rest of the school year. I'm glad i told my parents. The girl never messed with me the rest of the school year. i feel joyful for having the best friends anyone could ever have. without them where would i be right now? The Kind Campaign is the best. I just wish they were hear when i needed them. Right now you guys are helping me survive my Junior Year! -

Delaney: I pledge to do whatever it takes, to stop this crime. Yes thats what it is, it's a crime. A sad, sad crime. - Warren

Beth: When I was younger, I was bullied. I hated it. Most of kids bullied me because I was in Special Education or because I was a new kid at school. I never understood why they would pick on me, but it hurt. The best thing I had with me, was the truth. Those bullies may have been bullied themselves. -

cassie: I pledge to unite in kindness in an effort to end female bullying. - sapulpa

cassie: im sorry that i ever called you names - Her Name

cassie: i was bullied on a daily bases for being overweight and not as smart or smarter than the other kids people even said that i made up my back being hurt ( i slipped at a bowling alley) they said i just wanted attention and i was going through some hard times cause my dad just died -

Aleksa: my frends be mean they changed abot 10 days my reall frend protects me now she moved school. -

Lexie Williams: . i am a person with like to kill people with kindness. my mother always though me that.and i saw you campaign on monster high, thats when i got inspired to make my blog "One of a Kind: Lexie style". i tryed to spread messages how you should like you for you and dont get married to quickly or something like that. well what i am trying to say is would you please come to my school. Highland High school is it. when someone is being mean to mean i usury have nothing to say. and when i see a girl picking on ather girl you go try to be the goodguy but you end up the bad guy. i think your words are awesome. thats why you should come to my school to spread that "cool is kind" and it is. -

Lexie Williams: i was wondering if you should come to Cowiche Washington. i am a person with like to kill people with kindness. my mother always though me that.and i saw you campaign on monster high, thats when i got inspired to make my blog "One of a Kind: Lexie style". i tryed to spread messages how you should like you for you and dont get married to quickly or something like that. well what i am trying to say is would you please come to my school. Highland High school is it. when someone is being mean to mean i usury have nothing to say. and when i see a girl picking on ather girl you go try to be the goodguy but you end up the bad guy. i think your words are awesome. thats why you should come to my school to spread that "cool is kind" and it is. - Tieton

amanda: i have had many friends and they all think of me differently but i dont know if i should be my self because im afraid of what they will think of me because i love vampires and wish i could be one but i have been made fun of for being me what should i do -

Lauren Peters: when i was 9 in third grade i was bullied by a girl named Tiana and she would chase me everyday and her friends would pull my arms and call me names like stupid,ugly,and a nerd -

Lauren: wen i was in third grade i was bullied by a girl named tiana she chased me until i ran out of breath and her friends would pull my arms and say i was ugly,stupid,and that i was a nerd. -

Ellie: There were a few of girls older than my friends and i. They would comment rude things on our pictures and say ew rude things like that. FInally I started blocking them, they would go on there other friends accounts and say things or if i was tagged in a picture, they didnt even know me. -

Isabella: I'm sorry I called you Fat. - Sue

Isabella: When I moved and had to go to a new school, I was bullied for being new and short. I had no friends because the Popular girl wasn't friends with me. -

Nankmary: I Havent Been Fully Bullied. But I Have Been Bullied And Cyber Bullied People Called me fat Ugly And a show Off. I Dont know What To Do And I Dont Want The Pressure To Get To me on The Talent Show Iv'e Been Bullied By 5 People! I Dont Know What To Do! i want Kind Campaign To Come to My school and Talk! :( -

omayris: Lots of people bully me just because I have acne.They always come and tell me things like,"Why do you have alot of acne?" or "You have alot of pimples." But what hurts the most is when people say,"Have you tried proactiv?" It really hurts to hear those I try to act like I am not hurt but inside it truely hurts. -

omayris: i am sorry to all my friends i get jealous of or have arguments with oh and also i am sorry for threatning -

camica: i'll pledge to be a nicer friend and be kind. - leizhel

camica: i'm sorry that i you don't have a boyfriend in your family. - leizhel

Courtney: I pledge to not gossip about any girl and to remember to be kind to everyone no matter how different from me they may be. - Chicago, IL

Courtney: I apologize for not being the greatest friend. I know I did some not so kind things in high school, but I just want you to know that I never meant to hurt you. I hope one day you can forgive me because that person was not me. - Brittney

Courtney: I was bullied mostly in middle school, always being on the outside and never in the "in crowd". I tried my hardest to not let it affect me and stay strong, but it was not easy. I have always felt as if I have never had that one good friend until high school. I lost that friend to suicide putting me in a place where I felt even more alone. For the rest of high school I never found that friend again and I went through so many friends. I finally found one good friend again in College and pulling through everything in middle school and high school got me to where I am and I am very grateful now. -

Cassidy Young: I am sooooooooooooo sorry for talking behind people's backs and spreading rumors - Seattle, WA

Cassidy Young: The truth is that when I was in 5th grade I got bullied by this one group of girls and one day one of then was being wrude and came up to me and took my shirt and pushed me into the mud and ruined my jacket and broke my glasses I will probably never forget this moment then she walked away and started laughing and high giving the other girls in the group... Now she tries to be nice to me well I will never forget that - Seattle, WA

Cassidy Young: I pledge to try not to talk behind people's backs for the rest of the year - Seattle, WA

alana: I feel like nobody likes me -

priscilla: hi kind campaignh i'm priscilla i'm 8 i live in aruba at my school i have friends who think i'm cool but the mean girls push me around call me fat,nerd,smarty pants , lhame and other stuff what can i do help me please i need some help -

emily greenslade: well on youtube i had that problem it really hurt and i didin't sleep at all that night it was awful and i never really got over it so yah and i wan't to be a true role modle of the kind campine :D -

Julia : I pledge not to treat people the way I have been treated. I will do all that I can to see that schools react to protect children from bullying - Elmira

Julia: I have been bullied this entire school year. Three girls in my school have succeeded in turning most of the school against me and two of my friends. I have had someone dump a jumbo pixie stick in my book-bag. The sticky sugar was all over my books and homework assignments. These girls also used an English assignment to write nasty stories about me and my friends. When we had dances at school the bullies instructed the boys in our school not to dance with me and my friends. The girls accuse me and my friends of things we didn't do. Finally, I brought a diary to school and one of the bullies brought it home and showed her mother. I didn't write anything threatening in the book, but the bullies tried to get me kicked out of school. They went as far as calling the police on me. I have been asked to get counseling for depression. I have been out of school for one week. I am not suspended, but the school principal is getting a lot of pressure from the bullies parents not to have me return. When my parents asked the school when I can return to school the principal suggested that I not return to school. I have done nothing wrong, but I am being treated very meanly. I told my mom I was never depressed, but since I have been targeted by these girls I feel awful. -

Avery: These two girls constantly made fun of me, and called me rude names. To my face, they were nice, but behind my back, they'd spread rumors and try to destroy me. When I had surgery, it was crucial for me not to get hit, and these girls threw basketballs at my operated area on purpose, pretending it was an accident. Eventually, I had enough. I confronted them and told them how I didn't appreciate what they were doing. I told them to cut it out, because I wasn't afraid and I didn't care what they said. Sure, we aren't friends..but I stood up for myself, and now they do not dare bother me anymore. -

Alona: ican find kind if i can do my thing -

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sam: i pledge to never again tell or spread a lie, rumour, or secret about anyone, and to treat all girls as sisters. - Ottawa

Cami: I'm sorry for telling all your secrets to the school after we stopped being friends. Sorry for calling you a cross-eyed slut. Even though no one like you anyways and talked shit already I didnt have to instigate and make it worse. I was just mad that we weren't friend anymore after all the time I had spent standing up for you. and now that we're adults and completely moved on with our lives I hear you're struggling with addiction. I'm sorry we messed you up that bad. - Rachel

Jackie Marshall: I pledge to be kinder to my family and friends. - Buffalo NY

Megan: In the 4th and 5th grade I was literally the biggest bitch to people because I finally became popular, if that makes sense. During the time, being popular was so important and it was everything a girl at my school would want to be. I started just being so mean to people I didn't even realize how bad things got. I just wish I could take back those years and say sorry to everyone whose feelings I hurt. -

Amanda DeVaul: I lie to all of my friends about my weight because i dont want them to laugh at me -

Katie M.: I am so so so so so sorry for calling you names and talking about you behind your back. I know your story and I should support you and not put you down. I will always be here for you and I love you with all of my heart. But sometimes I just get super jealous because you are really pretty and skinny and all the boys look at you even though you don't notice...and whenever you are hurting, I hurt. And that's how it has always been since the sixth grade. I LOVE YOU TAYLOR - Taylor W<3

Katie M.: Hi my name is Katie. I am 14 years old and this is my story... In the 7th grade my dad had a motorcycle crash. He was hit by a truck and he almost died. I cried and I did something really stupid. I had always known people who cut themselves and I saw people on tv that did it. I thought it might help me. I cut the upper part of my right arm. No one knew about it, and it kind of helped me focus on something else that really hurt me. You know, physical pain rather than internal pain. I didn't cut again until the beginning of 8th grade. My two best friends randomly turned on me. They gained up on me and were texting me really rude thing. I cried for hours. At lunch they started whispering about me and it really hurt. I can't remember exactly what I was thinking but I immediately grabbed my pizza box in front of me and ripped a piece off and began slicing my right wrist up. Then I ran into the bathroom and made myself throw up. I started to really judge myself and I thought I was really fat, so I stopped eating, and I lost about 30 pounds over 1 month. I was really unhealthily skinny and it was gross. It made me feel way worse knowing that I was so underweight, so I started eating again and the girls and I worked it all out. Around January, my best friend got upset over a guy. She knew some girls from my school that cut. And so she decided she would too. She shredded her wrists up and I cried for her. Everyone blamed it on me because the guy liked me and not her, so I cut. I cut my right wrist up really badly and I carved, "LUV", "P", and "T" into my arm. (LUV because I was having relationship problems, P because that was the first letter of my boyfriends name, and T because Taylor was the girl that cut herself really badly and she even tried to commit suicide but I called her mom before she did anything) Eventually my mom found out and she was really upset. She told me I needed to stop and I needed to get help. But the thing was, I couldn't just stop. I liked cutting. It helped me be calm and to be honest, it didn't hurt at all. I got a therapist and I lie to her face and my moms. I have cut again because of drama and because of my mom and dad. At one point, I had this boy, who I was dating, call me a bitch, slut, and whore. I was so hurt because I thought he loved me and I thought that he was supposed to be the person that made me feel good about myself. But all he did was hurt me. Now he won't even talk to me. I cut again because of it. And it bled out every where; on my sheets, on my clothes, and on a rag. My cuts are all over my body; 1 on my left thigh, 2 on my left calve, 6 and a heart on my right thigh, 1 on my right hip, 3 on my left hip, 5 on my right wrist, 1 on my right bicep, 30 on my left wrist, 7 on my left arm, and 4 on my left bicep. You do the math... It's a lot and I can't wear shorts or short sleeves without being afraid of being judged. I am scared of everyone now and I can't trust anyone except my very best friend in the whole entire world, Hannah. Sometimes I think that she is the only person in the world that actually cares about me... I am slowly getting better and I'm cutting less and less. Many people are praying for me and it really helps me with my fight to completely stop cutting. -

Natalie Peterson: The truth is, I hang out with more guys than girls because girls CAN be catty and mean. I was the quiet and shy girl from Elementary school to High school. But I'm really not quiet. I love being kind to others, and I wish girls could see that I would love to be their friends and have girl talk and hang out. But I also wish that girls didn't feel like they have to be rude and catty to others. We are all trying to survive and we all need friends. -

Rie: I apologize to my BFF for not being as close to her as I should have sometimes. From now til forever I will be more truthful to you! - Nimie

Riya M.: I have a friend, who I thought she was my friend, but secretly she was bullying my best friend. She had revenge plans. I never noticed, but my best friend was really hurt. I apologized for it and stood up for me when I needed help. -

Katherine: My story began in elementary school when I became the "punching bag" in 2nd grade. Somehow I managed to piss off the school bully (a female, by the way) whom everyone, boys and girls, were afraid of. Needless to say, for 7 years I was constantly picked on, called names (I was chubby for a few years - never mind that the bully was also chubby - no one picked on her) pushed in the hallways, tripped, and became the social outcast. When new kids moved to the school, I tried to befriend them, since I had no other friends. We would hang out for a while, and then the rumors started about my social status in the school and I was alone again. It was devastated and lonely the majority of my young life. By the time junior high came around, I had a (very) small group of friends and eventually grew into my weight but the tormenting continued. If I wasn't picked on about the weight, it was about my nose, my clothes, my chest, my hair, that I'm stupid, that I was ugly that I had glasses, etc, etc. It wasn't until I moved across the country and started over in high school that things changed - while I wasn't in the "popular" crowd, I had a group of friends, dated some (including the captain of the football team), and aside from the occasional snide comment and bitchiness that seems to happen between "friends", was much happier. However, I feel that my early experiences negatively influenced my life. I have issues maintaining friendships with women (I do not and have not had a best friend since 8th grade) and my self confidence, from years of negative reinforcement in my early years, is shot. By the way, all of this began 37 years ago. I now have a daughter in 4th grade and I can see the transformation in the kids - one day they're the sweet young girls and next, they are stabbing each other in the back. I only hope that my daughter is resilient enough to handle what comes her way. I applaud your efforts and hope that once and for all, this changes how women and girls treat each other. -

Madeline: When I was in fourth grade, there were two different groups of girls and my best friend that bullied me. They wouldn't leave me alone, they just kept mocking me and telling me I was weird. My best friend ignored me, she wouldn't even talk to me. When I asked her why she said, "Cuz you are a nerd, and I don't want people to think I am a nerd, too. Plus you hang out with Abby." Abby was the other girl who was bullied more than anyone, but she stood up for me, and I still and very thankful she did that, even though it didn't help much, I still felt like I had at least one friend who still cared. -

Maxine Devaux: I have been harassed about my weight and clothing since 5th grade. I have attempted suicide twice and have been fighting cutting for almost a year. Even though I may not feel it, I still know that there is hope somewhere, thanks to this campaign. -

Leslie: I am sorry for what I have done to, well, just anyone. I am sorry if I have talked behind your back, lied to you, or been just plain mean. I hope you all can forgive me. - Everyone

Leslie: I am sorry if in any way I have made you feel small or insignificant. I truly did not mean to. All this time I have always thought you were bullying me for no reason. I see now that it may have been something I have done. I hope you can forgive me for what I have done and hope we can be friends again. If you read this, go up to me at the bus stop and tell me. Please. - Yani

Leslie: I have been bullied all my life. Not only by other people, but by life itself. I've never had many friends. A lot of people either think I'm annoying, judge me, or just reject me from the status quo. The first memory I have of being bullied was when my brother said it would have been better if I was never born, and he meant it. For a while, I would believe it. I hid in my room every day for a week and pretended I was never here. I got bullied in Kindergarten and 1st grade, the girls would make up any excuse to stay away from me and the guys thought I had cooties. All I had were 2 guy friends (one my crush) and 1 girl friend. Then someone told my crush I liked him. 1st grade and 2 friends. 2nd grade I had 2 guy friends who were like brothers to me. People started spreading rumours I was dating one, but were still friends. 3rd grade I made my 2 best friends (girls) of 5 years who are like sisters to me. Then one of my guy friends started treating me lower than dirt and dated my best friend and broke her heart. He even threatened to beat me up. That was the same year that I found that my pre-k crush and best friend was murdered. Yeah, murdered. It absolutely broke my heart. 4th grade was when the girl trouble started. I made another good friend who rode my bus. Then all of a sudden she starts lying to me and saying the worst things behind my back. Also that year I had a good guy friend (which I was hesitant about after last year) and once again the rumours start. Because one day my backpack slid to the back of the bus and yet another group of mean girls open my backpack, steal my diary, and read it. They see the initials of my 1st grade crush and mistake them for my guy friends, then make fun of me whenever I hang with him. 5th grade: my "sister" is home-schooled, but I get and I get 3 more good friends (girls). Really doesns't matter cuz nothing could replace her, but still. I did get really close with them though. Same year I find that I have a curve in my spine (therapy :-() and have ADHD, but I can't have meds for it. 6th grade: rolling backpack = people kicking you and calling you a b***h every 2 sec, 8th graders bullying you with the art of awkwardness, and all the drama. Also, I got 2 of the good friends made the year before taken away. 7th grade (this year) is not so bad. All of there's years I've had girls calling me fat, ugly ,annoying, and just about every mean thing you can think of. And at the time, it hurts. Girls started bullying me in kindergrden . If you ask me, this needs to stop. All it does is make people feel horrible. It's been happening to me for 13 years. I've been bullied a lot, so it doesn't effect me much. But for the girls that need that human companionship,that love, it can drive them to depression, anorexia, alcohol, drugs, prostitution, or even suicide. All of these things can destroy lives. This needs to be stopped. -

Leslie: I pledge not to talk about anyone behind their backs. No matter how mean they might be or what they've done. I will think about what I say before I say it. I will reflect on my day and apologize right away when I do something wrong or mean. -

Erin: There is a girl who dislikes me, and always has. She used to pretend to be my friend, but to tell my boyfriends or friends things about me that weren't true. I have slowly lessened my contact with her, and no longer talk to her at all. However, our school is doing a Kind Campaign fashion show with the help of Glamour and Glow, and I signed up. Today I realized that the girl who used to say nasty things to me and spread rumors about me is signed up. I really hope she learns something from this experience. But, I just don't see her taking anything from it. I just hope she doesn't hate anyone else as much as she hates me. -

Dave: HI My name is Dave. I discovered your website after just reading a Barbara Kay article titled "When Girls Ruin Girls." I was in middle school in 8th grade, around 1985 here in California. There was a pack of girls who hung out together, long-time friends from elementary school. Some of the were nice, but some of them were snobby and rude. A girl I'll call "Sarah" was the rudest, while another girl I'll call "Jennifer" was much nicer, and seemed to be just clinging to the pack of girls for approval. One day in class, "Sarah" started insulting "Jennifer", indirectly, talking trash. Then we heard other pack girls joining in with her. They kept whispering to each other, insulting Jennifer. But Jennifer...was one of their friends. But these girls kept talking about her. They would insult her then accuse her of being disloyal to the pack and talk trash on her. First it was whispers, but as class went on they talked louder and louder. So the whole class could hear it, including Jennifer. I looked over at her and she had her head down and her hands on her face. I thought the girls would notice and feel bad, but instead, the more she felt shamed, the bigger smiles and smirks these girls got on their faces. The teacher was a woman, she was one of those "hip" teachers who considered herself to fit in with the "cool" girls. She was writing on the chalkboard, pretending not to hear the girls. Well suddenly Jennifer jumped up out of her seat, and just stood their for a second, her face looking like it was going explode into emotion, but just stayed blank for a few seconds, then some tears came down and she started to run out of the classroom. The teacher got mad and said, "Excuse me! Where are you going?!". Jennifer stopped and turned around, her face was red and cheeks wet from tears, she said: "Can I leave, please?" Teacher said, "No of course not, sit back down". Teacher could see the tears, but showed no concern for her. So Jennifer ran out of the room. The teacher chased her, yelling at her. Then the girl pack who had been attacking Jennifer all looked smug and full of satisfaction. My desk was next to the door and I could hear Jennifer and the teacher talking, Jennifer was crying and explaining what happened, but the teacher was offering her no sympathy, demanding she come back to class, but Jennifer ran off and went home. The teacher then came back in and had a parade with it all. She spend the next 15 minutes talking about Jennifer and insulting her. Mocking her pretending to be her, jumping up and saying, "Oh I'm special and above others, can I just get up and leave please?" The pack girls absolutely loved it, laughing out loud and saying to the teacher, "Oh God I LOVE you!!!", and the teacher noticeably liking this attention. I'm 40 years old now but I never forgot Jennifer because the things that happened to her ended up teaching me important life lessons. Most importantly, the lesson of empathy. Compassion. Considering the feelings of others. Jennifer came back to school of course, but she was different after that. She was once excitable and fun and happy. Now she was quiet, never said much, and didn't smile much anymore. It was hard to get her to engage in conversation. Later as I got older, now 40, I would realize this was because Jennifer learned to stop trusting people. In her 13 year old view, if I was nice to her, maybe later I would stab her in the back and break her spirit. She wasn't willing to take the chance. I hope she overcame those things and has found happiness in her life. And while I'd like to strangle the girls who bullied her, I hope they became full grown women of integrity and dignity. As for you folks, I think it's awesome you have taken the time, and put forth the effort, to spread knowledge on the subject of female bullying. It has reached people, and will reach more. And as it does, it will help some of them break the cycle and stop bullying or abusing someone else. Or help non-bullied people to stand up for bullied people. Keep up the good work, it's appreciated, and Thank You for the opportunity to share this story, people need to be reminded they're not alone in their pains. Dave -

alerynn: i wish everyone would stop being mean - cheboygan

caro: I pledge to unite in kindness in an effort to end female bullying - atlanta

Caro: i want to say srry to a boy who was being mean to my friend and i said fu to him and i really want to say srry to him but I'm scared 2 -

alerynn: i wish everyone would stop being mean - cheboygan

alerynn: i said sorry to my sister but it could not help she cept doeing it i could not stop - bray

alerynn: my sister is always mean its like shes controling me she makes me fight back to her i just cant stop -

grace: Kaitlin, I am sooooooooo sorry for in 3rd grade when i talked bad about you. I know it has been 5 years but i still regret it - kaitlin

Sarah: I am sorry if my actions as a teenager were hateful, disrespectful, and mean towards other females. Being a teenager can be difficult and having other females by your side is important. And yet, it's often when we push them away out of competition, fear, jealousy, comparison, boys, everything. To every girl I have ever hurt or acted in such a negative way, I am sorry. - Anyone

Sarah: I am sorry I took away the guy you liked when you told me you liked him. I was an awful friend. - Ashley

Sarah: I am sorry for telling your ex-boyfriend words and stories you confided in me, stories about you and him, feelings about you and him. I am sorry our friendship suffered because of my actions and I wish you the best in your life now and in the future. - Mackie

Sarah : I am sorry for telling your ex-boyfriend words and stories you confided in me, stories about you and him, feelings about you and him. I am sorry our friendship suffered because of my actions and I wish you the best in your life now and in the future. -

Brittney : I pledge to be a better friend to everyone, and not talk behind anybodys back. I pledge to be nicer to everyone, including myself. - Ca

Brittey: I am sorry for everything I've done to anyone, everything I said to anyone was not nice of me. and I apolgize for all my mistakes I have made. I love everyone - Everyone I know

Chasidy Ogden: i pledge to try hard and be nice and give chances because no onewants to be treated like trash from my own experiances - Loma Linda

Your Name: Dear,Rhiannon Westlake,;0 I am so sorry for when i called you fat,ugly and much other names i hope you can forgive me - Her Name

frankie: i am sorry for being a creep - sarah beard

frankie vargas: People should be nice .I want be part of the kind campaign -

dylan: im sorry to those that i have cussed at. i always hurt her and i dont want her life to be worse. - dakota

Emily: Sometimes, true apologies cannot be short and sweet, especially when it comes to how durastic the situation that issued an apology may be. And that is why my apology is in the form of a story. I am aware that I am one voice out of many. Everyone has something to apologize for, I'm sure, wether they would want to face that or completely disreguard it. I for one am choosing to face my mistake in the form of this certain apology. I'm guessing some of you reading this, if anyone at all, may be wondering why I'm sending the apology through the interet wether than saying it to the girl's face. That is because I am 17 years old, and the girl who I want to send the apology to has moved away.... She changed her email, deleted her Facebook, Twitter, and even changed her cell phone number because of me. Her name was Caroline, and she was my best friend ever since preschool, until the eigth grade when our friendship hit rock-bottom. One of the things I'm surprised about is how much a boy can alter a girl. (I now know that being in a good relationship means being able to be yourself, something that I didn't know at the time of this event) Caroline was dating Derek, and Derek had always, always been my crush.... Caroline knew that. She'd always listen to me ramble about how wonderful he was for hours upon hours. But me? I never gave her the time of day to say how she really felt about Derek. She liked him too, and had liked him just as long as me... But Caroline had never had the courage to tell me. Maybe, she was wrong for going out with him after she had known how long I had liked him for.... But I was so much more wrong to her in return in so many ways. Caroline and I... We were both the most "popular" girls at my middle school at the time. (The word popular is nothing but a misleading word to me now) The moment Caroline broke the news to me that she was dating Derek.... I flipped out. Literally. I remember going completely crazy with anger, suddenly assulting Caroline and trying to yank out her hair while she screamed apologies at me. The next day at school, Caroline showed up with a patch of hair messing from her head and a black eye. My actions were wrong, and terrible. I was terrible and wrong too. I made Caroline's life as worse as I possibly could.... I spread rumors, and constantly referred to her as a slut as well as other vicious profanities. Caroline, the girl who had been my best friend.... the girl who had always stuck side by side with me... I turned on her. Poof. She was no longer my friend all because some guy had stepped into the picture. Surprisingly, Caroline and Derek dated all the way until Sophmore year.... Why did they break up? Because of me. I had lowered Caroline's level of popularity until she was practically nonexistant. Derek was ashamed of being seen with her, so he dumped her. Caroline had always thought Derek was PERFECT. She was completely devasted and resonated with her problems by not only abusing the use of drugs, but by abusing herself with knives. Derek was the only friend and person she had to confide in at school, and I had destroyed that. I suppose I should have felt selfishly satisfied.... But instead I felt weak. I later learned that Caroline's parents had made her move to a new high school, and ever since she had been receiving therapy. I was always happy though that she never went to the point of suicide, no matter how often she had brought the subject up. Now, several years later, not even these words here will be able to convey how I feel. The fact that I almost drove someone to suicide, alcohol abuse, and self-abuse will live with me forever. It will forever remain my deepest secret, and my deepest guilt. I wish Caroline the best... that she's dating someone who will love her and never leave her, that she's the happy and intellegent girl I remember from my childhood, and that Caroline is living the best life she possibly can. Caroline, I am sorry for the trouble I have caused you. I will never forget my actions, as well as how wonderful of a friend you were before I caused you all these tradgeties. I know you may never read this because there is no way I can get in contact with you.... But I am sorry, so sorry, for my actions. I will never be able to forgive myself. But I also thank you.... You never told anyone my name, you never even mentioned to anyone that I was the one bullying you. You gave me smiles and trust, but I turned those smiles and trust into angry eyes and hatred. If we ever meet again in the future.... Hopefully you, Caroline, and others will know that I have been changed, and that I never again will be the spiteful, envious person that I once was. - Caroline

Anna: My friend and I were fighting over how we couldn't wear the same bathing suit to a pool night for kids. And we just kept fighting over little things, but in the end we were best friends. -

Anna: I pledge to be kind to everyone no matter what. And to include people everywhere, and to stick up for anyone being bullied. And even if my friends are talking about someone, I will stick up for them. - Baltimore

Vanessa: I'm sorry that i was lying about stuff that i ever told you. -

Maria Eve Perez Jacalne: She's a good friend but somtimes she lies and i tell her not to but she says '' ok '' but i still feel mad at her. :( - Olivia Michale

Maria Eve Perez Jacalne: Somtimes i get mad at my friends and make them cry.I feel like a monster and a bully,i do like them.They are family. -

Your Name: I pledge to try to not give girls this 'look' I sometimes give my friends and people I don't like when I think they are being annoying. I will truly try to stop. - City

Roxanna: I'm sorry for being mean to you last year, not letting you in. I'm sorry for all the times we fought. I'm sorry for all the times I was jealous of you. You're a true friend and I'm glad everything is good between us now. - Esther

Megan: I PLEDGE TO NEVER EVER EVER EVER HURT ANYONE, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, OR EMOTIONALLY. I KNOW HOW IT FEELS, AND I WOULDN'T WANT ANYONE TO FEEL LIKE I DID AND STILL DO. - Plano

Megan: I am sorry for ever gossiping about you or EVER hurting you. You are my bestie, my soul, and I would never be the same without you. - Carley

Megan: I am in the 5th grade. I am constantly bullied about my full cheeks and lips and a thick nose. people call me ''Angelina Jolie Gone Wrong"," Onion Nose", and "Chipmunk cheeks". Its a constant everyday problem. I still haven't gotten control of it. To make matters worse I have trouble standing up for myself and respecting MY needs as opposed to other people's. I hope that one day (soon) I can fix this problem, with me and others. -

Neah: You probably didn't even know about this but I'm really sorry I talked about you behind your back and said some mean things about you - Deena

Neah: Nobody really ever bullied me but I always felt that I was wearing the wrong clothes or had the wrong friends and the popular girls always looked at me weird and I felt bad. -

akaylah: i pledge to talk about this thing to girls and one day they will understand that they need to stop. i will even tell the girls how bully to stop and they too will understand that it is wrong what they aew doing i hope - fort myrs

akaylah: I am sorry for all the phiting in the middle of class. - emilee,lilly

akaylsh vazquez: I am sorry for the things that i said about other people. -

Sloane Zerda: I pledge to not talk negative about somenody's looks, traits or personality. - Renton-Issaquah, WA

luce carty: some friends of mine always gang up on me just cuz im different, im a lot weirder than most people as i belive in the supernatural... they make me feel like a outsider and i really do try to act normal but i cant help thinking that i shouldnt pretend to be something im not. they make me feel upset and lonely! i wish they would understand it isnt a crime to be different -

lucinda: sometimes i say things which my friends dont like and they go against me, i feel sometimes they gang up on me just because im.... weird. i know i embarass thme sometimes but i just wish they stopped making me feel like a outsider. ill try to fit in more and to make a apology to my friends for being a bit annoying sometimes and ill make a pledge to change somehow -

Elle: I am so sorry for calling you a biotch. The moment after I said it, I felt guilty and terrible. The reason I called you that was because I was jealous that you had much more friends than I have and probably will ever have. You are kind and in our school, a kind person is very hard to find and I respect you for that. - Claire

Keila-Shae: I pledge to unite in kindness in an effort to end female bullying. - Auburn

Keila: Dear Leila I,m sorry for leaving behind... I,m sorry for not being the best friend i can be. I'm sorry for all the things i ever said or thought about you...................... - Leila

Jen: A group of my friends threw a sleepover party, to which they did not invite me, and voted about whether or not they wanted to remain friends with me. It's so immature that it sounds like a story from middle school or even younger--we're seniors in high school and it happened this year. -

Taylor M.: This is really hard for me but im writing this because molly & lauren came to my school on wednesday & you two just inspired me to be nicer. & i think im kinda mean to people because when I was little in elementary , I always got called fat & ugly & other names. & thats why I barely even eat now, I dont even eat at school, only sometimes i will take a bite of my friends food. & everyday now me & my mom fight . LIke EVERY SINGLE DAY, . So i cry everyday & cry, I have anger problems & my mom is by-polar so it sometimes gets out of hands. & everyday at school I just pretend to be fine, but Im really not. & its hard. & my dad & mom say im a mean person, & i have been working on being nicer. & today I wrote people apoligie letters. & my parents expect me to do a lot of chores & to get good grades & its just too much... -

Taylor M. : Im sorry I kissed Cameron when you really liked/loved him. If i could go back in time i would change that because I used to be so close to you, & we have gone through a lot together & i meen A L O T . I just want to be close to you as before. & i will never do that again. I wubb you - Orion Y.

Te'a : I pledge to always look at the inside of other girls and not judge who they are by what i see on the outside.. I am always going to treat people the way i want to me treated!! :) - Washingtion

Kathy: I pledge to be respectful to every person I meet, whether I like them or not. Thanks for that, Mrs. Popich (my 3rd and 4th grade teacher :) - Auburn

Rachel: I'm in a group of girls who I call my friends, but I don't feel like they are. I'm always the one who just stands there, on the sidelines, hoping there will be someone who I can connect to, but there isn't. I feel all alone. Completely alone. -

Annette B.F.: I pledge to not say anything bad about anyone that could upset them and/or make them feel unwelcome around me. - Sammamish,WA

Annette B.F.: I'm sorry for leaving you by yourself when ou needed someone to rely on. I am so sorry that I couldn't man up (or women up ;)) and stay with you when you reached out to me. I am also so sorry that I left a mess behind when I had to leave you and Amelie. I hope you know that you are so beautiful, smart, and so forgiving and I absolutly love you with all of my heart. Thank you for everything you have done for me. - Gwyn

Annette B.F.: In sixth grade, I thought I had the most nicest friend in the world. She would always meet me in the hallways before school and just hangout and talk about what we did last night when we weren't texting each other. People always thought we were a weird pair because I was 5'5 and she was 4'10. i had long brunette hair and she had shortish blonde hair. I has and still am a TOTAL tomboy and she is the defention of a girly-girl. One day she wanted me to be more like her. I asked her "Why? Don't you like me for how I am? I mean thats what friends do right?" She said "Yeah, but people are giving you looks when you are with me and I don't like how they look at me like that too. So we are going to make you girly. You are going to dress more like me and act more like me." I said "um..NO. I like who I am and if you don't like it then I'm sorry." At that moment I felt my stomach drop to the floor because right after I said that she said "Fine. Then I can't be with you anymore. I'll find a new best friend who isn't secretly a dude and who is mature enough to listen to someone's adivse." I remember I thought that everyone was staring at me that morning because I just broke up with who I thought was my best friend. Later she found a new friend, who is now one of my closest friends that I have ever made. The girl who bullied me who drag her new friend around like a dog and whisper stuff about me behind my back about how I'm such a whore and thats why I wear pants, because I'm forced to cover up and how I'm a bitch for being mad at her. It took me a lot of courage to say to her. "I don't appreciate you stabbing me in the back like that. It was not ok and stop spreading rumors about me." To this day she still treats me like dirt but then I think about the one friend I gained out of the situation and how I learned what a true friend is. If Gwyn F, Ashleigh M, Meredith T, Dani S, or Aoife M is reading this, you taught me what it means to be a friend.. If Amelie D is reading this, I just wished you would accept me for who I was and still am. -

Your Name: I pledge to not judge people and gossip. - Sammamish

Kailey: When I was in elementary school, you were only popular if you wore uggs and abercrombie. There was this big group of girls who never hung out with the rest of us, and it was as if everyone wanted to be them, except me. Then, one day, one of the most popular girls started hanging out with one of my best friends. she was kind of mean, so i stopped hanging out with my friend with that girl around. After a while, they stopped hanging out. Surprisingly, She started hanging out with ME! we had a lot of fun. I even went to her birthday party with all of her popular friends. But then she told me something shocking; she said that my friend said i was mean and a ploopy. That was HUGE. it was elementary school, when the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series was popular. mean was one thing, but PLOOPY? I couldn't believe it. So i stopped hanging out with my other friend. eventually, she came up to me at recess and asked me why i said that she was really dumb. I told her i never said that... and i know how much that would offend her, because she wasn't the best in school, or the smartest person i know. We told each other that this girl had told us that we were saying bad things about each other, and we figured out that she was driving us apart. even worse, she was doing it ON PURPOSE. we apologized for believing her, and we hugged. We just decided to slowly grow apart from her, and we hoped she didn't notice because we didn't want to cause a scene. I am glad to say that i haven't had much bully experience other than that. -

Annie: I pledge to stop myself and my friends from saying mean, hurtful things about other girls. I promise to just talk to my mom when I need to rant about another girl and to try my hardest to be kind to every girl, no matter how weird they seem to be, because everyone has their own story. - Seattle, WA

melissa felix: well hi ands u guys went to our skool and it waz cascade middle skool and wanted to say tat i am oin to ave a mavies well i am oin to tat movies and i want one of my best firends to o but se can not and i want to invite my oter bff ad i feel really bad wat shoudld i do ???? -

Serena Gonzalez: I pledge to be caring and nice to everyone no matter their apperance or size - Auburn WA

Laney: I pledge to not judge people by their cover, and to think before I say anything. I pledge to be someone people can respect, and look up to. I also want to have the KINDness to respect the people I don't really like. - Maple Valley, WA

Laney L.: I guess I was always the type of person that stood out in the crowd, and people noticed. Bullying hadn't really been an issue in Elementary school. Until 5th grade that is. Then I started getting into history, preferably ancient times. My new weird passion got people buzzing with new energy. It wasn't until 6th grade that bullying became a problem for me. Boys and girls alike would taunt me or tease me, it was always an emotional war, even with the guys. I started feeling down all the time, and avoiding people almost anywhere. Even my own parents. I felt trapped because once I was out of school I knew I'd have to go back the next day. I didn't want to wake up in the morning, but I never did anything about it. I kept all of these feelings inside. They were like a virus slowly infecting me. I started hating the town I lived in, the people around me, and mostly me. I never told anyone. I was especially bullied in P.E. I was conscience of my body. I was thin, but never fit. So I changed in the corner. During P.E. I had a lot of athletic people in my class, which made me feel even worse. I would sometimes have meltdowns and hide in the locker room. But they always came back and coaxed me back outside. I was starting to understand why cutting was so attractive to people. But I never did. I was too scared. There was this one horrible day where people were yelling at me and shoving me, when on the bus I started contemplating whether suicide would be better than this life. But by the end of the year I got an award for my grades, which boosted me up a bit, gave me a scrap of confidence that other people had stolen. Summertime, and it was amazing, no one to put me down! 7th grade came along, and I felt much better. I had this Best Friend of mine, but she would always hang out with this other I hated. We already knew we didn't like each other, and that left everything pretty hostile. But I put up with it since 4th grade for my best friend. Suddenly one day she wouldn't really talk to me, and I panicked. My mom said that's natural with old friends, but I had this dread buried in the pit of my stomach. I would wait for her at our talking place every day, but she never came. Then I found out she was hanging in the library with another group of friends, with the other I did not like. That's when I started scrambling to try and get her back. I tried talking to her, her friends, and even her mom to see if something was going on. I got pretty sad again. I basically had no one else.I tried going to the counselor, but they did nothing. I remember feeling so confused and hurt on why my best friend would do such a thing. One of the other girls said to me online "Nobody wants you hear" That crushed me. Then they started avoiding me and giving me glares. They even moved to another lunch table, giggling and laughing loud enough so I could hear them perfectly. The girl I didn't like called me a "bitch". I told my parents about everything, and that made everything so much better. I was able to tell them everything and for the first time in a long time, cry it all out. They helped me so much, I felt better and better. I was more confident and sure of myself. I won Student of the month, and more awards for academics. Everything was finally behind me, and I could move forward. Now I'm in eighth grade and this year is so much better. I built myself confidence, because I learned nobody can be strong for you. I now do what I love, I'm in two school clubs, and even have a boyfriend. I made this year great because I had the determination to go out there and show myself off. I found out that relying in the past does no good to you now. I moved forward, and a long way it has gotten me! Everything truly does get better. -

Jhaydee Francisco : i've been bullyed a lot i feel in sicure about everything i would come home to my room crying i feel like i'm not worthy of living cuz of the picking on me like they would call me ugly of fat all because i have egzema am i that difrent to them -

Jhaydee Francisco: i pledge not to hate a person no matter what or how they hurt me - Auburn WA

Jhaydee Francisco : to:keila-shea Jones im sorry that i couldn't help you when i needed you most im sorry for ever calling you a name im sorry for all the things that i've done wrong to you -

~ Mariah<33: Truth Is, I've Been Mean To A Lot Of People... I Stand Up For Friends, My Friends Are My World... Without Them.. No One WOuld Have My Back... So Please Be4 You Get To Know me, DOn't Judge Me, You DOn't Know My BAck ground, My World,Or WHat Has Happen To Me... -

Alexcia: I have talked behind my friends back to my other friends, and then talked behind their back to the other friend. I should have never done that. I have also secretly gone out with my best friends crush. I'm sorry. And I will never do that again. -

Jane: I am really sorry for continuing that fight. Can we please be friends again? We should have never said those things and I am so sorry that i kept that conversatioin going by saying mean things. - Alexcia

Alexcia: I am really sorry for starting that fight, throwing words around. I'm sorry that we both had started saying things that we hate about each other. That did nothing, it brought us nowhere but not friends. I hope you can forgive me? - Jane

Alexcia: I pledge to try to be nice to all of the girls at my school, even if they aren't my most favorite people. Just one nice comment can make someones day, or just one person standing up for you can change your look on things. I pledge to be nice and more helpful - Seattle

LIB: It's highly unlikely that you'll even read this, which is probably why I'm fine with writing it. I'm sorry for lying to you in first grade, or whatever that was, and getting defensive about it later, and I'm sorry for anything I have ever done to make you not like me. I don't know why we don't do stuff together much anymore, but can that please stop? - EDC

Noelle: I'm not really sure you would call it bullying. But still, last year in 6th grade, I was the nice, independent, shy girl. And most people ignored me, scooting away from me right when I sat down next to them. Nobody wanted to be my friend. And majority of my friends from elementary school had either ditched me for the popular clique or just decided that I wasn't good enough for them. The only remaining best friends of mine were two girls named Devyn and Elle. The problem was that they didn't have ANY lunches with me, so I would just be sitting by myself at lunch, reading a book and eating a sandwich. People obviously took this as a hint and immediately judged that I was a loser and biotch, so they ignored me for what seemed like eternity. All of my "friends" would ditch me, leaving me feel like such an outcast and loner that I was even afraid to go to school and walk the hallways. Near the third trimester, I was alone, none of my friends would talk to me, deciding that they were "too busy" with their new friends to spend time with me. This angered me but it made me so sad that I felt like a worthless, pathetic human being. A few days later, I tried to kill myself. I kept trying to persuade myself that no one cared for me in this life. I kept staring at the scissors, imagining myself take my own life with it. Soon, my mom found out what was happening and begged me to stop and enjoy life. This broke my heart. She was so oblivious to what was happening to me that I felt like if I let her know what had happened, all of my sadness would be stuck to her, making her carrying the heavy burden. I'm 13, and my name is Noelle. I almost took my life away because people who I thought were my friends ditched me and thought that popularity meant more than a trustworthy, loving, and caring friend. My life may seem terrible to some, and to others, this may seem like nothing. And I'm positive that others had had worse. -

Kailey Owen: I am so sorry for scratching you in third grade. I am also sorry for hating you in third and fourth grade. I am SO glad we're best friends now! I love you! - Ella Evans

heidi kunzler: i pledge to not let anyone bring me down and to never bully. - issaquah

heidi: i have been bullied since 3rd grade. everyone always made me feel like i wasnt important to anyone and i felt alone. i had no friends until 5 grade when i moved to a different state. i was deeply depressed and felt like nothing, my friends tried to change that and almost got me going again. i finally started telling bullies "you know what? i am my own person and nothing will bring me down anymore. you've done it once and trust me, it wont happen again." -

Brey: I pledge, To smile at everyone, because you do not know when it is saving a persons life. I've herd stories, about people committing suicide and they said they wouldn't if a single person smiled at them. And no one ever would. To not judge a person just by what you hear and see because not all the time is it true. You don't where they have been or what they are going through, you can make a difference. You can even save a life. It's cool to be kind. - Washington

Jaclyn: I Started liking a boy that my friend ,who was like family liked.Well Behind her back i hung out with him and Ended up kissing him, we ended up dating after all the drama. I know it was hard on her and it hurt her, she tried to put it behind her but Are friendship has not been the same since. I still feel guilty to this day, and turns out this guy turned out not to be the guy i thought he would be. - Kiara <3

Maisie Luis: I have made fun of people my entire life, im the type of girl to see someone and automatically start judge. Or i see some and right away hate them. I cal people names and bring them down. I watched the kind campaign movie to day. And will forever and always regret how mean i was. I wanna be deifferent. I wanna be kind. -

Taylor M: When i was in first grade, i had really messed up teeth, and they were way too big for my mouth. I was teased every day, and i started acting "sick" just so i could go home and get away from it all. It continued into second grade, and the following summer i moved away from that school and the only two girls who hadn't made fun of me. When i got to my new school, i was still shunned by everyone, even though i got braces. I moved again at the beginning of fourth grade, and was still shunned and bullied not only because of my teeth but because i had already knew every thing we were being taught and was passing everyone up in their grades. My homework kept getting stolen right off my desk, and people didn't care when i went looking for it. I finally got my braces off that year, and that problem finally went away. I was still bullied only because i was smarter than everyone else. I moved up to Washington in the summer between fourth and fifth grade, and i finally stood up for myself and my friends. I became best friends instantly with a girl named Hannah, and soon had made friends with everyone in my grade. i was in all the extracurricular activities, and people came to me with their bullying problems. In sixth grade Hannah and i met Betina and Jaida, and the four of us became sisters. Jaida had been part of the popular group, and so when she came to hang out with us a few girls decided they didn't like it. they started spreading rumors about her, and i was the one who stood up to them and made sure people knew the rumors weren't true. Now I'm in seventh grade, and Hannah and Betina have both moved away. I'm really scared for Jaida, because she has decided shes overweight even though she is very very tiny. i have been giving her at least some of my lunch and have been buying lunch for her, but she refuses to eat and what she does eat she runs so much that it doesn't help at all. She looks at all these underweight girls and thinks that shes ugly and fat, and doesn't listen to any reason. Now she is moving at the end of the year, and is moving on the opposite side of the country than Hannah Betina and i. those same girls give me dirty looks on a regular basis, and when i walk by they stop what they were talking abut and whisper, and i often hear my name being used. they act sweet and nice to me, but their eyes pretty much scream "i hate you". It hurts really bad, but i never let it show because people see me as the girl who they can come to with anything. Last night i went to a finding kid assembly though, and halfway through i started sobbing. Luckily the other girls i went with just hugged me and cried with me, even though they had no idea why i was crying. Even though i have my share of mean girls, i have the greatest friends ever. -

Elizabeth: I first started getting bullied in kindergarten. A fifth grade girl would always push me around when ever she saw me. I tried to tell an adult but no one helped me. In second grade I met a girl who in third grade tried to take away all my friends she kept trying until sixth grade. She did this to me because i conforted a girl she make cry every recess who she called her friend.   Forth and fifth grade I was bullied by another girl physically and emotionally and I didn't stand up to her because I was scared of her. All through this time and even until now ive been called ugly fat bitch stupid loner and many more. I didn't become depressed though. I started to become friends with others who needed someone. I helped them find their voice and just was there for them. This summer I moved across Washington and left all my friends. I have been made fun of and am now the new girl who has 3 friends.  -

Olivia R.: I am soooo, soooooooo sorry. Lat year I stuck my nose in a place that I shouldn't have and I know that I really hurt you and I'm sorry for that. It wasn't my place to take a side in that fight and I'm glad that we're friends again. - Payton C.

In Debt to Tiffany: I wake up I don't eat breakfast Just push my food around my plate, restless, feeding the dog what should be mine as my parents watch and wonder why I'm not chewing. School awaits, that horrible place, of what I was and want to be, but can't seem to achieve. Lunch arrives my stomach pleads with me, but there's my other half yelling and angry. I cannot eat. I cannot eat. It hurts either way. I push my plate away. School continues I'm too cold to think. There's a chill inside deep in my bones. My friend Tiffany, she confronts me, with an afternoon snack. My stomach rumbles my mouth waters and guilt thunders at me. I do not eat. I nibble at my dinner the food in front of me nothing but a calorie count. Bedtime comes I catch my face in the mirror. My eyes are sunken into my head, ugly and inhuman, like something dead. Skin stretched over bones my heart breaks a new I'm all alone. My hair is stringy not like it used to be. I'm ugly. I hear my parents through the wall as they debate what to do about my weight they talk of doctors and their cold tools They discuss therapy; a brain autopsy. I try to sleep but I'm too hungry so I go running until I'm tired. Morning comes black smudges under my eyes. Breakfast comes I eat four bites. My head screams at me, calls me fat asks do I really want to go back to a smelly fat lump in the corner? What I want is that evil conscience gone, that half dead face, these cold bones, this body. Gone. School passes by We're handed back a test. I failed. Why, oh why? Do I, have to be this way? PE is agony, the other girls, they see, poor ugly, bony me. My conscience and my skeleton. In science we learn of the universe. Anorexia Nervosa that word is scrawled on a paper, thrown at me. Anorexia Nervosa It sounds like a constellation, or maybe, I'm confused with Andromeda. I wish I was her she was the daughter of the most beautiful lady and was so pretty, a guy fell in love at his first sight. That, we learned in humanities. I spend lunch in the library hiding from the food, and Tiffany. I look up Andromeda and loose myself in the life so much better than mine. After lunch is sixth I skip with a note from the counselor. They give me a lecture I listen to what they say, through the screams of the other half of me. Poor grades they say, every teacher's worried. And my health, well for that I'm stuck here, every lunch. They want to control my weight, but don't they know it's the one thing I control. My grades I have lost my life has left the one thing remaining is my power to make that scale needle go steadily down. I'm strong enough to take charge of that one element in my life when every other thing about me has taken its own flight. My parents arrive, with the counselor and the principle. Their stern voices grate against my tired, ugly ears. Unhealthy weight. I do not eat. I'm ugly. I want the voices to stop, on my ears, and in my head. "Is this what you tell me?" The evil conscience says "Do you really want to loose me? Then you'll be a sweaty, fat, pig, eating everything." My parents take me home, in a car of worried silence. Nothing but me, and that menace, who's trapped beneath my skull. They ask if I'm hungry, If I'm fine, if I need--- I'm fine. This is the lie I say. I'm fine. This is not what I want. I cry, silently. why me? I eat a little dinner, hearing nothing but her. "You don't deserve this." "You're a hideous glutton, eating so much." "You make me sick." "You, nauseating...thing." I'm fine. Painful hours roll by same as always. People wave hi, to each other, not to me. At this rate, Tiffany, she's the only friend I have who hasn't deserted me. She tells me I have a problem. She calls it Anorexia. I am numb. I am fine. I am not Anorexic. We learned about eating disorders in 5th grade way back then, I never thought, I'd be one of them. I do not want it Maybe if I deny it it'll go away. I listen wordlessly and wish I could be not here, not me. The bell rings. We are in the girl's bathroom I hear the others going to class But, apparently, I am more important than that, to Tiffany. Tears roll down my sunken cheeks, Hateful words swim through my head. And I say the words I haven't said in far too long. "I'm hungry." -

Syndy: I'm 48 years old and still remember how much being bullied in 8th grade hurt. I was the new kid in school and made a great girlfriend, who was new also. We did everything together, then one day the cool girls started hanging out with her and she tried out for cheerleader. Instead of just making new friends and gracefully leaving me behind, she told them all sorts of things about me and the group of 4 of them tormented me for years. They never tired of it. I tried laughing it off and walking away. I didn't give them a reaction. They didn't give up. I had a new best friend who just stood by me and never mentioned it. She never talked back to them or stood up for me outwardly, but she did stay my friend. Our 30 year highschool reunion was this year and I didn't go because those same 4 girls were the organizers. Can't believe after all I have achieved and accomplished in my life that this still stings. -

Audrey: She would always be my friend when I was the only one there. But only when I was the only one there. Every time her popular friends would come she would just walk away from me and make fun of me. I loved her when she was alone with me, but not when her friends were. -

Nina: Anorexic. Bitch. Slut. Ugly. Whore. Wannabe. I've been called all those names. I'm 13. No one should go through that at 13 but I guess there's a time and place for everything. I felt gross, and when I looked in the mirror all i saw was an anorexic bitch. The girls who hurt me drove me insane. I couldn't escape them. They were at school and when they weren't physically around they were on Facebook and twitter. I thought I let it go but at my finding kind class I cried in front of all the girls at my school, and they did too. I found that the most secure people were sorry for things they've said and done. We were finally unified and one class didn't cut it. We all needed to share more. Every tear was meant for something that hurt inside and what shocked me is how much people hurt. -

Kellyn: Ok, well I haven't been affected by girl to girl, but more like mother to girl. My mother is down right evil. I still love her, but what she is doing to me is wrong. Her favorite form of "punishment" for me, is to slap me across the face several times, then pull me up to standing by my hair. And why I cry do to the pain, not the physical pain, but the mental, she just gets worse. And that was at the beginning. Now, it's worse. It seems that if I even give one wrong look, she goes nuts. If I get a 59% and not a 60% (60% is passing, 59% is failing) she'll get an email report, and then goes nuts on me. Any place I try to make a "safety" zone, it gets ripped to shreds. Not by her though, but by others. So, I have no place left to try to hide, to heal, so I get her full "assaults." the only way I was able to "release" the stress that She had placed on me, was to put it onto somebody else. But that led to more problems, which led back to more fighting. I get no help from my other family members. My father is out at sea, my step dad can help, but chooses not to, instead he hurts even more (I can hear him calling me stupid, and a lot of other things down the hall) My mother's mother, is worse then she is, my step-dad's mother hates my mother, my Father's mother has 3 grand-kids, so she doesn't really care. My friends don't know, since I can't bring my self to say this to them. The only person who can help is the adults at school who I'm friends with, but I don't think they really want to get involved with "family" matters. So, I'm left standing on my own, against her. I have all these things I want to say to her, all this pain I want her to feel, But I know that if I should do it, it would just rebound onto me, even worse. I still love my mother, and I don't want to leave her, but I just want to tell her to stop, with out getting hurt. Which, that really isn't an option anymore. I know I will get hurt, one way, or another. If I do nothing, I'll get hurt, if I stand up, I'll get hurt even worse. Help? -

myself: Im sorry for thinking suicide was an answer for people bulling me - myself

Kathryn: Because of being a target of someones hatered, i never got to find out who i am really except all my flaws that people point out. it started when i was 7 years old. I was in the second grade and i had no friends. i was nice to everyone. But no one liked me or accepted me. Two girls were knowen as 'the popular people' and they absolutley hated me. the would corner me at recess and beat me up both verbaly and physically. i told the princlipal nd the teachers. sure, they talked to the girls and tried to figure out what would happen but the two girls told them that i was bulling them and that they were just standing up for themselves. so then i got into trouble and everyday they would beat me up day over day. i was afraid to tell my parents. It was an awful feeling to not have some one that believed me and stuck with the same pain day over day.And i never knew how to stand up for myself because i was always the shy girl and never knew how to speak my feelings. i went into deppresion from that point on and i was the age of 7. i was tooo young for that. this lasted for years. in the fourth grade, she was in my class again. i attepted to talk to other girls and try to make friends but after i would talk to them, the 'bully' would go up and corner them and after that they wouldnt even look at me. i was suffering from anorexia and became very skinny and unwanted. everyone knew and made fun of me for that. i missed a total of 25% of the school year faking sick because i didnt want to face that pain. in the fifth grade, i got over my eating disorder and got better. but still i was being bullied. people didnt accept me for my apperence and how ugly i was. my mom hated to see me like this and so we switched schools. but even there, the pain didnt stop there. people in the locker rooms would say to me, "you are too skinny!" i had friends but no one knew ME. no one would listen to what i was put through. i would look at other girls and say i wish i could find a pair of pants that fit me and i picked at myself and pointed out my own flaws and yuo dont know how much i have been through and how much i suffered. there was this guy i liked and one of the 'popular' girls decided that she should go out with him just to get on my nerves.they would call me constently and rub in my face that they were going out. i was isolated in my room and felt so alone and hurt. i cried and i laid in bed just hoping a friend would be there for me but they text me telling me, "i hate u!" and "Y do u always have to do that?" and tell me all my flaws when no one understands that im hurting. it seems as though its eaiser to say mean stuff on the internet then to peoples faces because thats where it kills me the most. and the story gets worse, one night my 'friend' texted me and said that she was friends with the person that bullied me and were hanging out on friday and then i got a call from the 'popular' girl and she was saying all this mean stuff to mean and then, my friend was chating with me and says that they hate everything about me and that im ugly, too skinny and that everything would be way better with out me here. that made me break down i was crying for like 2 hours straight and finally i had enough of living. so i tried cutting myself. luckily i didnt lose too much blood and im still alive today. i am such a good friend to others but they all just go fake on me. i never knew what it was like to be treated good and have someone there for me. i was so thankful when 'The Kind Campaign' came to my school and i reliezed im not alone and a ton of people are treated this way. i just wish that i had a better life then i do right now. schools try to do an 'anti-bulling system' but just putting posters on the wall that say 'don't bully' doesnt do anything and i wish people can just hear my story instead of judging me by my appearence. -

Lauren Couch: For reasons that I don't know, I never seem to be able to make friends, true friends. I really wish that would change as time passes. -

Gabrielle Ferdeaneto: I called my friend Shalyn a butthead and then she threw a book at me and it hurt really bad -

Allie A.: I pledge to be a nicer freind and to not gossip about my "friends". - Laguna Beach

Nikki G.: I am sorry for whenever I am jealous of you, or if i have ever spread rumors about you. - Allie A.

Allie A.: I am sorry for sending you those mean texts. I know that we already made up but I still want to say sorry. Thank you for being a great friend. - Nikki G.

Stephanie: I pledge to value girls and women for who they are, not for the clothes they wear, what they look like or mistakes they have made. I will teach my son to value women in the same way. I will do what is right; treat people kindly and stand up to bullying and harassment. - Aurora, IL

Karen : I wasn't what you would call fully "bullied". However, I was affected when I was 11 years old. I had a very "close" friend that would also hangout with my arch enemy. I didn't like it...at all, but I dealt with it for my friends sake. But my friend started spending more time with my enemy and it bugged me, I felt I was losing my friend. Being a girl, I did get mad at her over text and told her how I felt that my rival wasn't a good influence on her. My friend tossed me like old news after that. She was hanging around with my enemies crew and could care less about me. Her new friends would give me looks and would say little side comments to me that would send me home crying everday. I didn't want to go to school. I even had thoughts about running away. How I wished I could take back what I said. I got stronger though because I had a true friend stand by me the whole time. That summer, I was going into middle school and I got a stomache ache just thinking about it. I was seperating from my closest friend, my dad was going overseas, and just everything about middle school scared me. About a week before school started, I got these "anonumus" text messages telling me how "dumb", "stupid", "bossy", and what a "bitch" I was. I figured out later that it was my old friend saying all that to me. I was hurt, but it also told me that I have better things than her. I had true friends and family that stuck by my side and didnt call me a "bitch" or "dumb". When school started everything got better. We forgot all about the incident becuase we had more to worry about with school work. Were not as good of friends as we were, but now we smile and talk to eachother unlike after our fight. My main message is to tell girls who are getting bullied that it all gets better, belive me. -

Aly: I'm sorry for being such a jerk to you. Sisters shouldn't treat sisters that way. I should treat you with respect and love. You are just such an amazing girl, and you don't deserve what I've done to you. I love you, Abbi!! - Abbi

Aly: I pledge to not put anyone down with my words or actions and to stand up for those who are being bullied. - Gig Harbor

Aly Robbins: Fifth grade was awful to me! I was the new girl in school, and I knew that everyone hated me from the start. There was one girl in particular though, who instilled such fear in me that I didn't even want to go to school some days. She lead her group of girls around, hating on me and giggling about me behind my back. I had just been silly one day... I didn't do anything too bad! I heard them. They knew it. I think they wanted me to hear them. Another girl, Steph, she became my friend. We had fun together. Everyone hated also because she hung out with me, but she didn't care. That is until she became friends with the mean girl. Steph turned on me one day, and she also became a source of fear to me. They all hated me. I was broken. I wanted my parents to take me out of school. It didn't stop in middle school either. Steph continued to be my friend one week and start hating on me the next, dragging others with her. It wasn't until 8th grade that she decided to become my friend for good... and we have been BEST friends ever since! I am in 10th grade now. -

Olivia: I did not get bulled in till i got to 4th grade because that is when i got glasses. All the girls were making fun of me and i did not know why. I was very sad all the time and for a 10 year old that is not good i would be in my room all the time. But not the way the kids my age would play in my room i would go in my room and block the door then grab something very sharp then iI would cute my self deep.One time I took string and I raped it so tight around my neck i almost killed my self but then I thot of my moms face if she and fond me and then i cryd and i said no thats stupid my family loves me to much. Now that i look back I cant belive I was like that.When i was in 6th grade people called me fat ugley bitch and i could not take it. The boys i hated me. I was way jeles of my best friend Alyssa beacuse she was the one that always look at her and not me so next year i renbled, i smocked and i kissed boys .....and i ahd fun.But now I see the hate in girls and in me. This is going to sould stupid but when i got my boy friend Roby I am so happy that a biy finly sow me for who I am. To all the girls thatread this love your self first and try your very best not to hate the bully(s) to much because then might have a bad life at home or in ther past. -

Alyssa: My parents always ask me why I hang out with boys more than girls. I never really had an answer til I saw your documentary, I realized that You are right girls are mean the only real friends that I have that are girls are two people, Olivia, and Felicia...the rest are boys, my parents don't understand...When I first moved to where I am now I didn't know anybody; a girl across my street seemed nice til later on in the year I found out that she will turn on you for popularity and just to get what she wants, including the guy. I felt unloved by friends and family I didn't have a good relationship with my mom at the time so I could never talk to her so i never her told her the stuff that went on in my life, But when people really started to be mean, untruthful, unjust, and unkind, I let it go and almost hung myself, I couldn't take the pain, it was an emotional tole that was tearing my life apart, but my best friends, Felicia, and Olivia lifted me from my weights of my destruction and lead me to know that I will have friends and that I do, But the pain from the past always drags me down.... -

Anna: I am so sorry for being mean to you in 5th grade. I was just jealous of you and Mckenna I felt like you were taking my friend away. I am so sorry for treating you that way.You probably forgot about it, but I didnt. I am so sorry. - Cece

Brianna: My best friend is also my worst enemy. I love her, she's the only person who's stuck by me through everything. But she's the kind of person that has the power to make or destroy your whole day by just a few words. She constantly makes subtle comments about what I'm eating, what I'm wearing, everything. And it tears down my confidence because she is literally perfect. -

Erin: Well there was this girl at my old school and she tell me that my face was scrude up and that my eye brows were ugly and she was my best friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so I plucked my eye brows and made them really pretty in my oppinion but they were all scrude up!!!!!! Then when I started Middle school I thought things were going to be different. I tried to hang out with the "COOL GROUP" but they all hated me. There was this girl named Jadie the sweetest friend any one could ever have but I thought I was toooo cool for her but she was the best friend anyone could ever have but I treated her like TRASH!!!!!! I COULD NEVER DO ANYTHING THAT WOULD BE ENOUGH TO SHOW HOW MUCH IM SOOOOO SORRY FOR THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -

Erin: Im sorry for being mean and thinking that you were toooo wierd to be friends with me. I never should have treated you that way because to tell you the truth I think I kinda treated you like trash I feel soo bad. Your better than all those popular girls because even though I treated you badly you never ever did anything like that to me. I'm sooooooooooooooooooo sorry!!!!! - Jadie

Laura: I spend a lot of time online blogging, which has connected me with many girls all over the world. Even though I have never met any of them, I love them all and consider them true friends. Every once in a while, someone who I may have never talked to, or I may be great friends with, admit that they are suicidal and depressed. We always tell them that they deserve better, that we love them and they are worth so much. But one girl said, "I appreciate all of your kind words, but sadly, those who I know in real life, outside the internet, do not agree. I am not worth anything to them or to my family, and I love you all, but you are on the other side of the world, and I am alone here." She took her own life that night, and I am afraid that sending kind messages and love across the internet isn't enough all the time. I want to shake the people from her school, her family, and her bullies, make them realize that they have lost something with that girl. That the world has lost something. -

Remelou: Well, this girl in our school tells me to fuck off her life just because I'm the 1st in the class. And she said a lot of bad things to me. -

Your Name: I pledge to be more kind to people. - City

Kelly: I pledge to try as hard as I can to get my KindClub up and running at my school. Even if my principal doesn't approve it, I will try to create something out of school. Thanks Lauren and Molly for your incredible inspiration! - Mobile, Al

Stacy: Being a mother of daughters is a huge responsibility in today's climate. I pledge to continue to do my best to raise nice girls...it's a damn hard job. Thanks for all you have done to get the ball rolling... - Denver

Stacy: I am the mother of two daughters--aged 16 and 17. Over the years I have seen plenty of incidences where they have been on both ends of girl-on-girl crimes. But what led me to your website was the latest incident with my 16-year-old which didn't just involve another girl but her mother too. If mothers are teaching and encouraging girl-on-girl crime by allowing their daughters to be exclusive, catty, and nasty then we are in for a long haul. I applaud your efforts...it starts with ONE girl (or ONE mother) to stand up for change. I'd love to see this change in my lifetime...thank you for raising the bar... -

Megan: I pledge to be nicer to all the people I know, even the mean ones and to stand up for anyone I see being bullied or harrassed. - Mobile, AL

Megan: I'm sooooo sorry about suzanne & me calling you all those mean names... You started dating like every guy that asked you out and you wore this really short red dress with converse and trey started a rumour that you let every guy feel you up and you sucked every guys dick in the girls bathroom... You moved because everyone wasnt nice to you and your mom because your dad committed suicide and I just felt so bad because part of me was like thank god and another part of me was saying this is your fault you were apart of why she moved... So I'm super sorry and i hope we can be friends again. - Samantha

Megan: 2 of my friends and I were best friends like the 3 muskateers. Friend 1, she started dating the guy friend 2 secretly liked, and they got in this huge fight and made me pick sides and I said that I wasn't going to pick sides and that if they were really friends they would make up and stuff and they got mad at ME and started calling me a bitch and a slut and that i was only friends with them to become popular because I was too ugly to become popular. It was soo sad... I was embarressed to go to school somedays and other days I would be so glad to go because i remembered the friends i had... One of my friends apologized and we are best friends now but the other friend still hates me... -

Anonymous : her life isn't great her mother a drug addict , Father careless and violent. So to sum it up her life isn't to great but i've always been the best friend i ever could possible to her just her. She thinks i am her slave she doesn't want me doing anything else but following her around and doing nothing more than solving her problems and telling her how great she is. When we are in an argument she decides when its over,she decides what i say, who i can be friends with and and what i do. I don't want to be her friend but obviously i don't decide that either. When we are in an argument she just goes off and tells anyone she can think of every secret i have ever told her so what would it be like if i wasn't her friend at all? If i had any choice at all should i be her friend if i know exactly what she will do if I'm not her friend? -

caitlin: i pledge to not lie to m friends because if i dont i will end up friendlis and never get anywhere in life - mobile

caitlin: I am sorry for not sticking up for you when u get bullyed. i am also sorry for making fun of you - elizabeth

caitlin: I lie to all my friends about my wieght because i don want to be made fun of yet i go and make fun of others. -

Maddie: A girl at my camp had aspergers. All the other girls and guys made fun of her behind her back and wouldn't talk or sit next to her. When they did talk to her, they said sarcastic comments which secretly made fun of her but she had no idea. I should have done something...but I didn't. And I regret every second of it. -

Jenny: I've been bullied by a group of girls since 4th grade because of my race and this year I've decided to stick up for myself but I did that in a horrible way. Now there is more tension between us then ever before. -

A nobody thats going to start being someone: I have always felt ugly or below others but the thing is it really does not matter. I used to look in the mirror and think why do i have to look like this... but i have decided i am going to change. i am going to love myself and love others! Life is to short to hate... I dont want to wast one more second feeling bad for myself. I am officially proud of every flaw and love myself. Perfect is overraided. I am going to start reaching out to others who i feel might be having a hard time, Thanks to yall i am changing for the good. Please Pray that i will be able to stay strong... it will be hard but it will be AWESOME when i suceed! Thanks girls! i cannot thank yall enough! i love yall and you have probably saved more lives than you can count with what yall are doing. God Bless -

Blair: One day out of nowhere my closest freinds turned on me and made my life miserable. -

Jensen: I pledge to be calmer and try not as hard to get attention - Mobile

Jensen: I'm sorry for being weird and annoying. I'll try to cam down. I'm sorry for trying to have a little attention. I'm sorry if I spazed out. - All my friends

Jensen: One time this girl and "my best friend" wrote a note to me that was 2 pgs long front and back and it had all the things they thought were wrong with me. another time the same girls and some other girls made up this girl (who was really me) just so they could talk about me in front of my face. and this girl its like every time i get a best friend she takes her from me. no joke. and she is very immature and i know i can be annoying but i'd rather be annoying than be mean. we had finding kind preview at our school the other day and im almost positive it didnt affect her in any way. i know yall say everyone has a story to why they r so mean but shes not bullied at home or anything shes spoiled rotten and it really ticks me off cuz i have to work hard to get what i want but she just gets evrything handed right to her. -

sharon: Im sorry for calling you a stupid wierdo i hope we can be friends -

Teddy-San: All my life I have been trying to be a good and nice girl,but only a few people from my school like me. I am constantly by myself and I get hit,screamed at,teased at,and etc. i hope someone does not get it like I still do. -

Sara: I'm sorry I called you fat and i forgive you for calling me a lesbian - I don\'t remember

Sara: I'm sorry I talked about you behind your back and then never said I'm sorry - Daphne

Sara: I'm sorry I stole your lover. - Nellie

Francis: My daughter was called Fat this past week. She is 8years old. I saw first hand how strong she is when she told me. I could also feel how she lost a small piece of her that day. I could only hold her and tell her that girls can be mean and in time things can and will be better. -

Noel: I pledge to be kind to everyone and always stay on the bright side. - Pittsburgh

Nicole: I sent my friend Paith mean questions on formspring because i was envious that I feel she has been taking all my friends. -

sarah: one day when i was going to school on the bus this boy micheal was saying mean things to me. he said things like: YOU SMELL! or your ulgy you have no friends. i went home that day crying because of him. he constantlay annoying me every day. he wont give me a break! -

Darion Ramos: My pledge will forever be to stand up for those you don't have a voice. Someone is bound to hear me. - Henderson

Kristina: To anyone whom i have seen being bullied at school and done nothing. I am truly sorry. - (anyone)

char: i will listen and not try to always have the answer even though i really am trying to help - alameda

char: i am sorry if i'm a know it all. my parents left me to take care of myself cause they were both sick and i had no siblings so i learned alot being alone at a young age and then they died when i was 18 & 21 years old so now i've been on my own for a long time and have grown so much. i try to help my friends who are having a bad time but i think it sounds like im a know it all but im not and i have more problems then all of them combined - kelly and my friends

char: dierdre, javier and judy, you were my close friends and one day i came home and you stopped talking to me, moved out and never spoke to me again. That was 20 years ago and i still think about it everyday and wish i knew what i did to you to make you so angry at me. maybe i should know but i dont and i wish one day someone will tell me so i can understand -

Sydney: I'm sorry I talked behind your back, called you names, and weren't always my nicest. I didn't act like the best friend that I should be. Truth is, I'm just really jealous of you. You're tan, blonde, you have all the friends, you have the boyfriend and all the guy friends, you're a cheerleader, you look awesome all the time with no effort, and everybody loves you. - Ann Bradley

Georgia: I've had an eating disorder for 3 years now, I'm anorextic, For 2 years I have kept it secret. I had to go Doctors appointments all the time for pills,sometimes I have to force feed my self. It started when I was in infants school, I wasn't bullied because I was anorextic but I was very tall, my dad is 6ft so my height is one of my genes. I used get pushed and tripped over and friendless. The bullies then used pick on me and call me names because they thought if the pick on tall kids the small ones would back down. I felt really hurt then I decided tell a teacher and she helped me feel unique. When I went up junior school, I really trusted my best friend and decided to tell her I was anorexitic, she swore to keep it a secret, She kept it a secret until the end of year 4, beggining of year 5 she blurted it out to her new best friend charmaine just because she thought she could blurt it out cuz were in different classes. Every since then she and other girls ave being call me names like skinny winny and started just being a bully. I ignored the names and thought about the lessons my primary teacher tought me to feel unique until the point I started satying behind classes, get punched in my stomack so It cause me more pain and then crying. I told my headteacher and told them stay away from me and we have a stamp system where if you be good you get a stamp but if you lose more than 3 sttamps you lose you treat and they lose 3 months worths of stamps. Now I still get teased by them and other girls but I found friends that understand what I am going through, they made me feel more proud and happy in myself, I still get tablets that help me eat and lose the pain. Thanks to the kind campaign, I have been reading how to deal with these problems like mine and they have really help me become a better person. -

Maya: i am so sorry that the thought ever crossed my mind about not wanting to be your friend anymore. you are the best friend i could ask for and one of the most amazing people i know. you are smart, kind and beautiful, inside and out. thank you for always being there for me, and i want you to know i will always be here for you too. - Maia

Chloe: When I was in seventh grade two people I thought were my really good friends told me they didn't want to be my friend for three reasons but I can't remember them exept one: that they didn't like how I talked loudly. I then cried for the next 10 minuets and walk to my next class with people asking if I was ok , i said I was fine when all I wanted to do was go home. Once in class this girl who was one of "those" girls who was mean to me asked if I was ok. In that moment my take on her changed. She's not as mean as I thought. -

allie: im sorry bestfriend for hurting you so much i love you so much - olivia

allie: In about fourth grade i started devolpeing way faster than everyone else i was very very tall and just bigger than everyone and i really stuck out in the crowd, everyday for about 3 months.One day before we got off school for break all i can rember is all the mean girls saying "you must be glad were on break so you can just go home and eat and eat and eat." that hurt and whenever we got back to school they had made up the cruel cruel name the whale. one day we were drawing and they drew a picture on the white board for the whole class to see that had a very large circle labeled with my name and abunch of sayings like i cant see my toes and why am i so huge. also they would always just look me up and down and laugh.Also they drew a notecard of me and just laughed about it, i took up the whole note card. its been 4 years but i still canot get over it, everyday i look in the mirroir and wonder why they said that, because it follows me around everywhere i go. its why im so self concious. i still know the mean girls i sit next to one of them in english i cant look at her the same. fourth grade was the worst year of my life and i truley wanted to die. -

Allie Fulcher :): Iv'e been hurt before too, like other girls around America. Today at my school- Salmon Bay k-8 in Seattle Washington- (I'm in 6th grade this year) we watched the film and my friends from homeroom sat there together as the video began. I didn't think it would touch my heart as much as it did. But watching all those people crying, speaking about death wishs, telling a hard story made me cry. Because it was true all of it. That hurt. Knowing we hurt people as an first instinct, hurt. It reminded me of how cruel people - especially girls can be. I'm in a BIG group of friends and we fight alot! In our little group we have a queen bee her followers and everyone else. WE FIGHT OVER THE DUMBEST THINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :( this is a poem about it: Grumble Grumble Fight Fight Gee... I hope I look alright! and we make such a big deal out of media issues and gossip I think it's sad! A constant thing that happens to me is being back sassed it's an insult that sounds nice- only it's not it can be obviously mean or subtle this is what one of my best friends said to me a couple weeks ago on the soccer feild when I messed up on my kick "Oh come on Allie, at least you TRYED that's what counts very funny only I didn't fail or anything- it still went pretty far! I hate the tone of vioce she used on me! HOW DARE SHE?! and the other day on of my friends said, because I'm special ed and I have a special ed class "Oh RIGHT your in homework club NICE!" Actually alot of my friends have commented on me being special ed. It's sooooo funny only NOT to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Back to the video that we watched- When it was over me and my friends did a group hug and went back to class. Later, when we were doing apoloage cards one of my friends who I'd been fighting will gave me one and I gave her one back and we made up!:) You guys work magic and I hope we can all join together to stop bullying! Luv Allie, :) -

Your Name: Because we cdon't want to be bullied anymore, Eagle Ranch Kind Campaign pledges tp be kind to other people. - City

anonymous: people sometimes call me a bitch, slut, whore, and airhead.( this is the popular group) blahhh.......im fine now tho.... i have great friends! -

Maddie: Hi! i have been bullied before and its NOT fun...luckily now i have a great group of friends! i was bullied in fourth grade by carrissa...she was very mean and tried to take my best friend:( good thing is now she is at a prep school...we just watched the kind documentary and it made a great impact...everyone is now friends!!! thanks so much lauren and molly! u guys r great! love love love! -

Meghan H.: Dear all the popular people at my school.. including Sam, Amber, Gina... I am sorry for ever talking about you behind your backs... even though i was talking about all the mean things you have done. - Sam Amber Gina

Meghan Hanlon: My name is Meghan... Here is my story. It all started in 6th grade when this girl named Sam. Were werent that close until she started to get bullied by all of her freinds. First, I was the only one who really stood up for her. Then my freinds helped her out. We were all becomming so close... when it happened. One january day, all the popular girls that hated sam invited her back into the group, totally excluding me and my friends. I felt crushed ... She apologized... i sadly forgave her, even tho it wasnt a true apology. 7th grade was Ok... but at the end of the year she called me a terrible actress and put all of my friends down and started rumors about all us. Now its 8th grade and she and the popular group have basically ostrasized me from their entire group. We just watched the movie and they all hugged me while i cried and said sorry... but i dont know if they were being true or not... since they lied b4... idk what to do -

Antonia Fuller: I pledge to be above everything my friends say about other girls, because everyon ehsould have a chance to be them and express themselves however they want. I pledge to let everyone have a clear right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of kindness. - Los Angeles, CA

Blake: I Pledge not to be so quick to judge people i don't know, to give them a chance before i say anything about them. i pledge to bit my tongue when i want to say something behind someones back. - RIdgewood

Claire Randolph : I've spent 10 years with an eating disorder. A couple years after it first developed, I was at my lowest weight. One of the girls in my old school purposely called me fat, "Little Debbie Cakes", and many other derogatory names. As my illness progressed and it became more noticeable, she then began telling everyone about my illness (something which she knew nothing about the truth of). I used to wish that she'd get fat, become friendless, and even develop disordered eating habits. … Years later, I dropped out of my highschool, went into homeschooling and graduated eary. I'm in college now, and at a close friend's wedding, I was a bridesmaid with this girl that had spent so many years making my life hell. The night of the bachelorette party, all of us girls met up to get together. Everything I had wished on her had become true. I overheard her talking to our friend getting married that she suffers from binge eating disorder (her bridesmaid dress no longer fit compared to a month ago), as a means to cope with the death of her father when she was a child…. My father passed away the year I graduated highschool. While you see no error in how you treated me and so many other girls in gradeschool, I'm sorry that all of the horrible things I wished on you came true. You and I are have more things in common than I'd ever care to voice aloud. I hope you find your way out of this dark tunnel. There's light on the other end. I'm sorry we never talked to one another. I feel like maybe we could've helped each other out, if things had even been just the slightest bit different. -

Amoya: One day we were at school in an assembly and I was shouting good job to the people who got awards and this girl starts talking to another girl about me and I said to my friend what's er problem and she just turned around and talked more and more about me and inside I felt really hurt and betrayed because we were friends and now I feel like she's my enemy.When girls go behind your back and start talking about you just say "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me!" -

Julie: I pledge to be kind and to say something nice to at least three people everyday. -

Savanna: No one deserves to be treated poorly. Many girls at my school are, and that's not a good thing. Being put down and bullied doesn't feel good. Everyone deserves to be treated kindly. Just because people look different, doesn't mean its a bad thing. We should stand up for each other, not put each other down. I know how it feels. We do this to each other. We have all been victims. -

Savanna: I pledge to treat other with kindness and respect. To treat others how I want to be treated. - Stow

Cleo Hadel: I pledge to live with who I am love who I am care about how I treat MYSELF how I would treat others and be kind to myself and others. -

Sh: I'm sorry i called you stupid, ugly and fat. I thought since you were calling me the same it would be okay, i'd feel fine. I feel so guilty, it's even worse that you're my own sister. You're only nine and I've been so horrible to you it's unbelievable. I've never told you that I love you. I'm sorry because I do love you, so much. - Sa

Faith: I pledge to always be kind and treat others the way I want to be treated. :) - Middleton

Lexi m.: Im so sorry. i never wanted to hurt u. ever. kno we aren't friends but just want to let u kno i was stupid. an idiot. i wish i could take it back. thats my only wish. i hope some day i can tell u in person. - Anna B.

Paige H.: I pledge to accept my differences and find the beutey in myself, also to never hold something against someone just because of a mistake. - Laguna Niguel

Student at Niguel Hills: I go to Niguel Hills Middle School and I got bullied by one kid, and today, when the video was on people stood up for me and I stood up for myself, and that one person apologized, thank you so so much, I don't get bullied but I stood up for the people that did. I also saw a lot of girls hugging and apologizing. I know you guys used to go to my school and I think that you know the atmosphere, it is so great that people stand up for you. Keep up the good work. -

ANHE: I am sad because I and my clasmate were fighting each other. -

Nicole Maniez: As a woman in my thirties who has a daughter and works with youth, it breaks my heart to remember the confusion and struggle of growing up. Having been on both sides of mean, today I work to create space for girls and women to explore their membership in sisterhood and community... what it means to raise up yourself and others. Together we stand stronger. Let us forgive each other and ourselves. Let us support each others brilliance. -

R: I know you're not going to read this, but i'm sorry I stopped talking to you. I don't have a reason, and it's idiotic, but I don't. I didn't mean to stop being friends with you, being friends isn't like being in a relationship, you don't just break it off. I'm an awful person for what I did, but I'm glad you'll still ask me what period is next in school. Atleast you still talk to me. - A

kasey: I pledge that i will do my best to not talk about people behind there backs and to be the kindness person i can be! - baltimore

kasey: im sorry for my actions to other gurls like me there is no reason to be so mean if you have nothing good to say dont say it or keep it to yourself and im sorry for the rumors i have spread - ariana

kasey : im white my name is kasey and every day people look at me like im a slut or ugly people at my school even though its catholic people shouldnt say things because im not pretty or i dress inopropitate on tag day and it puts me down but then i hold my head high and to this point i feel like i have no feeling because of what people have done to me -

Sophia: I am so sorry for telling Carley about your family. You trusted me and I broke that, I am not going to get in specifics because that would only tell more people. But you know what I am talking about and I really hope you will forgive me. It was the biggest mistake of my life and made me lose you as a friend. - Emma

Jennie Jensen: I take the Kind Pledge and will always treat other people like I want to be treated. I will put others needs before my own and help those who need it. So that we will one day live i peace. - Gislev, Denmark

Jennie Jensen: Since kindergarden I was bullied and made fun of because I was different. I had alots of suicide attemps, and first when I was in 7th grade I chanced school and now I am happy again. Bullying can ruin life so think about that the next time you bully or make fun of someone else just so you can belong. -

Cleo Hadel: LIFES TOO SHORT TO WAKE UP IN THE MORNING WITH REGRETS,SO,LOVE THE PEOPLE WHO TREAT YOU RIGHT,FORGIVE THE ONES WHO DONT AND BELIVE THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.IF YOU GET A CHANCE,TAKE IT.IF IT CHANGES YOU LIFE,LET IT.NOBODY SAID IT WOULD BE EASY THEY JUST PROMISED IT WOULD BE WORTH IT - ks

Cleo Hadel: I pledge to not home crying because of one certain person and keep my head high nobody is worth your tears and the ones who are wont make you cry -

Lizzy: I'm so sorry, if I've ever said anything mean or made you cry. it's just sometimes it makes me feel better to retaliate even if its not against the person who said something to me. I don't mean to hurt you and I want you to know that I hope you'll forgive me and that you understand. It's not even your fault and I know you did nothing wrong and I hope you know that everything I've ever said that was mean is a lie. Your wonderful and beautiful and intelligent and i should've know better than to ever say otherwise.. - Girls in General

Becca: My "friend" spread a rumor to my "best friend" that i had called her a selfish bitch while at my house. This was NOT true. The next day at school, I sat down at our usual table, just to see my group of friends stop, shoot me a dirty look, and then sit down a few tables away. I started to cry and ran off to the bathroom until a teacher came and took me to the counciler's office. I stayed home for about the next 2 weeks because i said i had the "stomach flu", when really, it was because i had no friends and was depressed. By the end of that year (7th grade) i had made a whole ton of new "friends" in the popular crowd, and i was happier than ever before. I was getting invited to parties and shopping for stylish, expensive clothes.But then during the summer, i didn't hear a word from any of my new "friends". After spending another depressing summer alone, i was glad to get to 8th grade and see everyone again. None of the girls would talk to me. They didn't even have a reason. They just stopped. So, on the first day of school i sat with one other girl, who couldn't fit into her friends' table. Then the bullying began. My former friends told me that i needed a nose job, and that my voice was too deep for me to be a girl. And when i had a crush on this guy i liked who also happened to like me back, they told him that i was a stalker and i was obsessed with him, so he never talked to me again. Now, i never get invited to the parties, i never go shopping, and i never get to hang out with anyone, all because they thought i was a popular bitch, when really i just got left by all the popular bitches in the dust. I just wish one person would ask me to hang out with them or actually talk to me when i try to talk to them. I want just ONE friend to be there for me. -

Mariah: I apologies to every one i have ever said or done to do to any girl in my school if u are read ing this and u have ever been bullied by me i am sorry - girls in my school

Nur Shaqira 9 years old: Actually I wanna have friends like others. That's why,this is the first time I've been to www.kindcampaign.com -

Katy Lund: She hates me, we've been best friends since 1st grade, and she hates me because her ex-boyfriend likes me. I didn't ask him to like me, I don't want him to like me, this isn't my fault and she's telling people that I ruin her day whenever she see's me. What did I do? How can I possibly fix this? I don't understand what I did wrong. -

demi: i pledge to be kind and ignore people who hurt me because i'm better then that. i know how to be myself without listening to the haters out there. to everyone out there who's being bullied and hurt "KEEP YOUR HEADS HIGH" - lynnwood

tiara: sorry to my bestie for say i never thought she could work becaues she is to goofy, sorry sissy - aleah

Erin: I pledge to try my best to treat others the way I want my daughter and myself treated. I accept that I am not perfect, so when I slip up, I will do my best to make ammends. - LaFayette, NY

Erin: I am an adult, mother of a young girl, PTA member and a Girl Scout leader. All through Elementary, High School and even as an adult in the workplace, I was bullied. The worst agressors were always female. One day they were your bffs, sharing secrets and braiding your hair. The next, your secrets were being whispered as you walked down the hall toward a girl who was waiting to challenge you to a fight or who would later ambush you as you walked home from school.(Or spreading rumors at work to prevent you from getting a promotion.) It is more than 20 years since the abuse began and I still have scars. I WILL NOT LET THIS HAPPEN TO MY DAUGHTER!!! I have seen girls as young as Kindergarten repeating this pattern. It is no mystery where this is learned, as I have witnessed it among the "mature" Moms of the PTA and have even had "adults" mock other mom's daughters at Girl Scout meetings. The only changes are that there are now MORE and EASIER ways to be mean. It has taken becoming a mother for me to stand up and even at first, it was only as a "Momma Bear." Standing up for myself came much later. I pray that I am a good example for my daughter and my scouts. I hope I can show them how to be good and kind. I wish that "mean girls" were only a cautionary tale and not a harsh reality. -

Arooj: I pledge 2 think of others before i say anything about them and i pledge to remember what people have taught me when i get bullied - Toronto

Arooj: Im sorry for making fun of u and never sticking up for u and i just wish i can go in the future and change that. Im really really sorry! - Amna

Arooj Naghman: ive been bullied before from a girl that i taught was my friend. She made fun of me and called me fat, ugly and also a bitch. The story started when i was in grade 6. She was my best friend but she just used me because she wanted 2 be the popular girl at school. We were in the talent show and she made a mistake and use 2 gossip that i made the mistake all the time. People use 2 call me "the embarrassment". She even told the guy i liked that i liked him and i didnt want her 2. After she told me she didn't want 2 be my friend because she taught i was an embarassment. She would lie 2 my mom saying that she hit me or she punched me in the face when i didnt do anything. My mom yelled at me and after that i wish i were dead. I would cry everyday in my room and even at school. She even lied that my other friends told her not 2 be her friend when they didnt. I was so happy when she moved back 2 Chicago. She still had my number and now she calls me a bitch everyday. I wish i taught her how cruel she can be. Now i feel like i didnt do anything. But now i think of it i dont cry and i let it go. I want her 2 nevercome back ever again and that reason is only cause of this campaign. -

Dianne: I pledge to stop saying and thinking bad things about other girls. I realize that I only do it because of my own insecurities. I worry my boyfriend is looking at prettier, skinnier, younger, more fun girls and it scares me a lot. - City

Thea: I pledge not to make fun of someone of what they look like and to never, ever judge a girl by her cover and to not bully. - Elyria

Taylor Chanes: My close friend went after the guy I liked. In return, I convinced him to break up with her and then not even a day later, I hooked up with him. I did everything in my power to get him from her, and in the end neither of us got him, but I was the one with the broken heart, while she had a broken trust. I feel horrible for doing that to her behind her back while EVERYONE around her knew what was going on. - Corissa Burdette

Taylor Chanes: I have not been the best person, but I do not deserve to be judged by my appearance. In middle school, there were alot of asian kids. They discriminated because I am mexican. They made me feel like I was not good enough. They were very hurtful. When I finally went to a school counselor, I was after made fun of because I told. It wasn't until I lost my mom, that they started to be nice to me. after 3 years of hatred from them, I was afraid to even talk to them when they were "being nice". It wasn't until 4 years had gone by that I finally DIDN'T CARE about them anymore and I was able to recover from that traumatic experience. -

Asher Herrmann: During the seventh grade (now) I have been called pimple face and zit face and many things similar to that and sometimes even by my own best friend. It makes me feel like everyone would be better if i just left. I have also been called the same things by many boys and that ,makes me feel like i'll never get married or get my first kiss. I know God says that he loves us and we shouldn't care what others think but I doubt that a lot. -

Adina B.: I Pledge To Forever and Always Be Kind To Every Girl In Sight of My Kind Eyes Even If They Aren't Kind Back To ME - Cupertino

Camille tonkin: For a couple years a girl named edan has said mean things behind my back so one day I walked up to her and just gave her the truth. I just eishi could have a couple of seconds withoit being bullyed. -

sammy: i pledge never to start any rumors and to be kind - City

Fiona N.: I use to always be picked on for the way I feel, I never really had true friends,but I was blind folded by lies. Out of all 4 of my best friends, 2 of them would always talk behind my back and pick on me, They thought it was okay, a few days before my friends confronted one of my best friends for throwing basketballs at me, all she had to reply was " So? I've done that since grade 4 and we're still friends." They'd call me drama queen and emo for trying to kill myself or cry over something that they've done. Now I can fully see who's my true friend, and who's just there to use you. -

Fiona N.: I use to always be picked on for the way I feel, I never really had true friends,but I was blind folded by lies. Out of all 4 of my best friends, 2 of them would always talk behind my back and pick on me, They thought it was okay, a few days before my friends confronted one of my best friends for throwing basketballs at me, all she had to reply was " So? I've done that since grade 4 and we're still friends." They'd call me drama queen and emo for trying to kill myself or cry over something that they've done. Now I can fully see who's my true friend, and who's just there to use you. -

katie: when i have a bad day at school with freinds, i will try to not be moody with my family.. it just makes the day worse - City

katie: im sorry if i have done anything wrong to make you not be a close to me now. i wish we could be bestfreinds again - gen and rachel

Katie: a few weeks ago i found out my bestfeinds have been talking about me behinde my back and im heartbrocken i thought i could trust them. but also recently they have been leaving me out.(because there is three of us its always awkward) but now they are being all of a sudden bestfriends with this girl and i feel she has replaced me. and they keep on meeting up withought me. i was playing out one day with my sister and all three of them walked past me and completetly ignoreed me. they are a great laugh when im with them but when im not with them they talked about me? i dont want bestfriends who act like that? are they worth the upset? -

Mariah: My best friend left me because I'm not popular the other popular girls make me look like a complete fool they call me ugly fat loser loner I have felt like I should be dead to make them happy but to have my best friend be taken away do popularity I would come home and cry and cry every night . They would look at me and laugh at me and my teachers wouldent do any thing -

Caroline Williams: I pledge to unite kindness in an effort to end female bullying! - Baltimore

demi: i've been bullied verbally and emotionally since sixth grade. socially ostacized until seventh. now i am dedicated to finding a way to be kind to everyone -

Sara: im a brat i admit it i talk about people i comment on everything they do I call them names i tell them what to do i tell them there are nothing im a Bitch i admit it but i know in a couple years i will be the one to pay for it im a horrible person. I made a girls life half hell because shes dating a guy i love. So in a couple years she can put me down!!! -

Smile: i pledge to be kind - City

t.: as a teacher, I plan to implement kindness. to make up for the hurt in my past through the future of my students. - oakville

Julia: I wish, I wish, I wish I could have a chance. A chance to be discovered. -

Sara: OK i admit it i talk behind peoples back i tell secrets and i put people down. But when someone came to my school and said to stop bullying OH MY GOD i realized what a brat i am and i'm still like that. Im A Terrible Person i hate being like this because in a couple years everyone is going to hate me and i know that. its to late to go back to people i was horrible to AND THEY WERE MY BEST FRIENDS i always criticized everyone and commented on every little thing they do. I was such a brat to a girl who was dating the guy i liked i ruined half her life but after that stop bullying girl came i fixed it!!! I'm A Brat I Admit It!!! -

Sad Phoebe: I pledge to stop. Stop hating others. Just stop. No one deserves to feel how I feel. Only me. I did something to deserve this pain but no one else. - Green Bay

Phoebe: In fifth grade when you were in our forth fifth class mix and I was popular I let it get to my head. I called you a follwer and other things. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. Please don't hate me. I hate myself too much. - Gayle

Phoebe: After all these years the truth is now being drilled into my mind. I'm fat. I'm ugly. I'm stupid. I stopped eating for a while. A girl came up to me in the hallway and she said, "I'm doing a project on famines. Could I interveiw you?" No matter what I do I'm not perfect. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. But not the right kind. I know the Barbie doll is supposed to be bad but I want to be like Barbie. She's perfect. We all have scars. I just wear mine on the inside. To protect my family. They don't know half of my life. I hate sports and my dad wants me to do them. I like acting. I wish I could tell him. My friends do sports and want me to join but I don't want to. I HATE SPORTS! I HATE MY FAT, UGLY SELF! I just want to cry sometimes. I do all the time. But then I get made fun of because I'm not wearing mascara or make up. I hate life sometimes. I look at our medicine cabinet sometimes and wonder how long it would take for me to die after putting the pills in my mouth. -

Phoebe Olderman: I was bullied a lot. I like to express myself through clothes and hair and some people make fun of me. I remember the in the third week of middle school I bought new clothes and wore the outfit. My BEST FRIEND asked if I would change into my gym clothes. It was a sparkly T-shirt and skinny white jeans. I wore a pink velvet bow in my hair. By fourth hour kids were shouting "Hey look it's project runway! I see her outfit, now I want to run-away!" It really hurt. Soon my friend asked if I would change MY LAUGH. She had a problem with THE WAY I LAUGHED. I spent my third hour in the girl's bathroom crying. Now I still haven't toId my friends. I wish I could. I want to. But I'm too scared. -

Phoebe: I'm sorry to a girl who is now a close friend. She is a year younger than me and was in my fifth fourth grade class mix. I was a popular fifth grader and it went to my head. I called her a follwer behind her back. I'm so sorry Gayle. I hope this won't hurt our friendship. -

A Broken Heart: I pledge to always stand up for those who have been or who are being bullied so that they can feel the feeling of a strong friendship the way i have. - City

A Broken Heart: i have been bullied for 6 years. I have been slappedand people have wrote mean notes about me. I have had people crush my dreams. To this day i feel scared and shy and i feel like i can't trust people. Others actions have changed me completely. My mom said i used to be all smiles. Now I feel like im wearing a mask. As time passes i can feel the mask slowly coming off. Kids giggle while i do things and I immediately believe i have done something wrong. i have received notes saying things like "You suck at everything." or "Stop trying to be a know it all." . I once tried to audition for a play and right after my audition a girl asked me "Are you sure you want to do this? I mean there is singing and it doesn't seem like you handle stage fright very well." . I am actress and im not gonna let anyone tell me otherwise. I have amazing friends now who are always there if i need to cry. Even though i feel somewhat worthless i know im a shining pearl in my friends eyes. To everyone else how has been bullied~ Please dont go off killing or cutting yourself! I know how you feel you are NOT alone! there are people who love you. You just gotta find the right person -

A.Crystal: People make fun of me just because I look different. They say everytime I jump the whole world shakes, they say Im not pretty enough too be a girl. I have a lot of bad things to say everytime they make fun of me but I don't because thats not who I am. My best friends don't stick up for me instead they just laugh along. It really hurts when they do that but I don't show it because I don't want the bullies to know Im scared. I feel sorry for the bullies because they have nothing to do but make fun of pretty girls like me. -

daisy: i pledge to try not to hurt anyones feelings - middlesbrough

daisy: i am so sorry for saying monster pie to a monster high fan - tamzin

daisy cooper: i got bullied because i am ginger and i like harry potter very much but then i told the headteacher and she old them off and i accept im ginger and i like harry potter -

Katelyn Marie Shawan: My foutth grade year at Langford in Austin, Texas was good in the begining upuntil we got two new students in our class and they mainly ran it bucause they were "so cool" people said. Well that year i lost all my friends no one liked me the two new girls started rumers that made me uncomfortable and cry. And what i hated the mot is my best friends listened to them and not me i heard them say, " so is Katie really going out with Nick" they woudent even go up to me they just asked one of the girls. i still don't know what i did i know that when they frist came is was really nice some people say i was too nice and they too advantage of me so thats why they did that. But i don't know i just don't want it to happen to me again! So after that year we moved to Michigan and of chore i did get some bulling cause in the new kid with weird parents and i talk different. But now that has lessend and im in middle school where i have pretty good friends amoung my clasmates now maybe not all like me but if i can deal they can deal too!! -

Emma Joy Balllard: I had spred a rumor about my friend. She did not like it she had felt scared and upset. I had told her who had did it and she understood why. She said thank you for telling me. She had understood why i had started it in the first place. I now knew that what they had said hurt her. So i had the guts n started a new rumor about me. To get the old one about her out. I felt good about it. She was happy and so was i. What they had said about me i did not care. Because i knew that it was a good reason why it had gotten started. -

KatieBeth: I get bullied a LOT. Some people think i am gross, and some think i am mean. This is not true about me, but I cry. I think they are just doing that to suck out my self esteem. -

Maddie Erickson: I will try to be nice to people, even if they're not my friend and to always be considerate of other people's feelings. - Pacific Grove

Sydney: I'm so tired of being told I'm nothing; people have told me that since I was old enough to be in school. I was always the weird girl. After a few years; I just got tired of trying to prove them wrong; and I accepted everything they were saying. I still do. I believe I'm ugly, and fat, and just once; I wish I could be beautiful. -

11 years old: I dress driffrent than outher people and get made fun of it because of it yea they wear pink and stuff and i wear black but that doesnt mean they should think what they want just by looking at how i dress. They see me wear my jacket ALL day i NEVER take it off and it's their fault, they made me so mad and sad and more feelings that i couldn't take it so I have these cuts on my arm, they are from trying to take the feelings away or just trying to kill myself. Yes it's true I have pulled a gun to my head yes i want to die i don't know why i didn't pull the trigger. -

Ayla: I Pledge to help who ever in need of help of lost in the dark of bullying I pledge to STOP gossiping I pledge to stop the pain i sent to others with my bullying to other kids in my class and anyone else I have hurt. - Abbotsford

Anne Marie: I promise to stick up for my friends and never to talk behind someones back - chicago

Anne Marie: I am always afraid to stand up for myself. I never want to be mean or mad but i get hurt and feel like i cant do anything about it. -

anon: i am so sorry. for anything i have ever said or done that has ever affect anyone negativly, i am so so sorry. - anyone

a: Try being bullied by 60+ kids, I had two whole classes of children bully me the same year, PLUS rumors spreading from GUYS--yes, guys--I refused to sleep with or date and girls who made up in their mind I was trying to steal their 'boyfriends'. Assumptions lead nowhere good, I'll tell you...if they would've talked to me, instead of attempting to spread rumors and do mean things to me, there wouldn't have been a problem. Ladies, for us to be the sex who talks the MOST, we sure do suck at using communication for what it's meant to be used for. -

Gabriela: i am so sorry for hurting some of my friends, i hope that you will frogive me -

Gabriela Age: 8: When my parents got divorced i fell into depression and thought fo suicide but Kind camipghn helped me. -

Kathrina: my mom asked me does any one bully me at school i kinda got nerves cous some people do i was gonna say yes but then suddenly i said no she askes me every month i wanna say yes but i cant cous in my class kids dont like tatlers and they might treat me worse like they did with one of my friends she was bullyed so she told her mom and her mom told our techer after that every one (exepet her friends) bullied her even more. -

kathrina: i just wanna say sorry to every one how i been mean to on purpese or acsedent - to the ones i hurt

Kathrina: sometimes after school i go in to the bath room and cry,for 30 minuets,less or more. -

Your Name: Your Pledge - City

Elyse: I'm sorry for being so upset at you I didn't even want to speak to you. I was just mad, I really just wanted to talk things over. - Melissa

Shannon : I pledge to stop bullying anytime is see it. I pledge to help anyone in need of a friend who has been bullied. I pledge to not take part in female bullying. And most important, I pledge to spread the word about the kind campaign and about the harms of bullying. Be kind, Make a friend(: - Monroe

Lexii: I pledge to make a difference! - Salisbury

Anon: I pledge to stop using terms like stupid, slut, whore, fat, ugly, and bitch to my friends, me, and my other peers. They are extremely rude. - Toronto

Anon: I'm sorry I've called you stupid and that I've made you cry so many times. I really want to restart, you are my best-friend and I love you more then you can imagine. - Laura

Anon: My bestfriend in grade 6 would only talk to me when her 'popular' friends weren't looking. It used to kill me inside. All my true friends used to tell me to give up everytime I would finally decide too, she would catch on and call me up and ask to hang out. We had been best-friends since grade 2 and I didn't want to lose her. I don't understand why I had to go through that, she was supposed to be my best-friend. After when we went to different schools, by choice, we drifted. Now despite how I felt in Grade 6, I treat my best-friend like that. I trick her, and I call her names like stupid. I've made her cry too many times. It makes me feel really bad, but I don't know why I don't stop. -

Savanna: I'm so sorry I made fun of you and laughed at you just because everyone else did. It's not your fault you have a deformity. Your beautiful inside and out. I'm so sorry. - Lauren

bethany martin: I'm bullied because I'm short and skinny I'm beat up, yelled at ,insulted and its only because I'm not pretty -

Ashlee: I am sorry I stopped being your only friend because of what others thought of you. - Lindsay

S: I appologize for the way I ended our friendship, you did so much for me. - K

Soo Kyong: I am so sorry for leaving you in 7th grade, even though you were always by my side. I left you because you were not popular and many people told me I should stop being friends with you. Stupidly, I agreed. You tried to make our friendship last, but I cut it off. Now we're juniors in high school and I regret so much. I tried to rekindle our friendship, but you obviously do not want to do that. I completely understand because I know how hurt and angry you are. I wouldn't want to be friends with me either after I left you high and dry. Also, you gave me so many chances before but I never took them. I am so sorry I left you for a group of people who are not even my friends. I really admire you because you were still able to pull it through and now you are even more beautiful than you were before. Comparing myself to you, I feel so embarrassed because you were always the great best friend while I wasn't even a friend. Now, you have tons of friends while I feel so alone and stupid.You are happy (and you deserve to be happy) while I am so miserable right now. I tried to apologize to you before, but because of my pride and fear of rejection, I never was able to do it. I know posting my apology on the web isn't the same thing as telling you in person, but I just need to get it out there. It's really hard to find a true friend, let alone a great true friend. I was stupid to not see that I had one before. Please forgive me. I am not asking you to be my friend immediately. Please let me earn your friendship and trust. I really miss you. - Olivia

Alex: The Kind campaign came to my school today and it was life changing. A couple years back, in middle school there was this girls I knew. She was fairly popular, well she had friends and Im not sure exactly what happened but her friends turned on her. I tried to really hard to be friends with her, but i we didn't have any classes together so it was difficult. I simply thought that her and her friend had gotten into a little bit of a fight, so I didn't think that much of it. After we watched the documentary Finding Kind she told me, in detail how she was affected by what happened between her and her friends. She told me how they would plan all they ways to embarrass her and how physically hurt her. She was never in any physical pain that i know of, but the things she told me were crazy. I didn't even realize how she was getting bullied, i was right there and apparently the things they said to her were very hurtful. i didn't realize how much words could hurt, i've never been bullied or if people say mean things to me I just laugh it off, because really i don't care what people think. I wish that i could've been there for her because by the end of middle school she had barley one friends, me. i wish that i could've tried hard to be there for her cause she really is a great person. THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH FOR DOING THIS!!!! It really opened my eyes to so many things. - Nicole

Courtney: i used to have this friend and she was reeeeealy funny and kind. we used to go shopping together. one day i went to her house to hang out and we talked about stuff in her room. she said that she had to go to the bathroom so she went out and i waited for her. but when she came back, her mum was with her looking really mad. i was going to ask what was wrong when her mum asked why i said mean stuff to my friend and punched her and kicked her. i had no idea what was going on but i didn't have the courage to say that i didn't do those things to my friend. then, my friend's mum called my mum and told her what happened. my mum was so angry that she picked my up early and she told me not to do it again. the next day, my firend spread around so many rumours about me and no-one wanted to be my friend. then, all the other kids made fun of every single detail about me and pushed me around in the playground. they even wrote bad things about mee that wern't true in the girls' bathroom. i stayed home for 1 week and my friend kept saying rude stuff to me on the computer. i cired alot and spent all my spare days in my bedroom. my mum asked what was wrong and i told her all about the teasing and the punching at school. i then got trasported to anoher school and i have really nice friends now. i still don't know why my friend told so many lies about me. -

Luisa: a few months ago a rumor was spread around my class that i liked this guy who no-one liked much. my class thought that because he liked me even though i didn't like him and he used to talk to me in class and try to get my attention and hang out with me in sport-time. then, the day i found out that rumour, one of my friends came up to me at lunch and asked: "Hey, do you have like, a partner in your class?" from then on, i wanted to keep away from the guy because he was getting annoying. once, me and the guy were walking to the lunch area and he was just talking and talking and talking and i was just trying to get away from him and then one of my friends saw and she came in between us and said: "Oh, you're having a nice chat, are you? So, when's your date?" then all her friends started laughing and i just wanted to run away and cry. i told the teacher about it and she talked about it to the class. she didn't say any names, just saying the situation. then, my class stopped saying the rumour and the guy kind of didn't like me anymore. i'm glad i had the courage to say that to the teacher. i kinda feel proud of myself :) -

Kathryn : Renate, I know that it has been over 10 years since I wrote that horrible note, and that I have already apologized for the unkind things that I said to you...but sometimes I still think about it and I feel so sad and heartbroken that I was unkind and immature enough to think that something like that note was acceptable. I have searched for you on Facebook to add you as a friend and see how you are doing after all of these years, but it looks like you don't have one. I remember in high school, right before you moved, that you had a notebook for people's contact info. so that you could stay in touch with your friends. I was really happy that you had forgiven me for all of my unkind acts in middle school and Jr. High and that you asked me for my email address and phone number. But then, you were gone. I haven't heard anything about you or your family, and I hope that by posting this online that somehow, some way, you will know that you are still thought of and loved by one of the girls who used to be so horrible to you. Are you doing alright? Are you happy? I truly hope that you are. I am so sorry for how I treated you. I am so happy that we parted on good terms. http://youtu.be/CQJaZO2nfGg If you ever find this, please find me and let me know how you're doing. I'm on Facebook and I would love to hear from you - Renate

Samantha: Im in seventh grade and it is torture to me. This year someone physically hit me. What did I do to them to make them do that to me? I get called fat, ugly, and nobody wants to see my face. The counsler at my school just says to ignore the bullies. I cant ignore somebody if they're physically hitting me. I always sit alone at lunch while everybody else has friends. Apparently, the people in my grade see me as the "weird kid." -

Jannie: One time I got my period and some stupid slut made fun of me :( -

Nekisa: I pledge in your honor. I pledge that I will never stand by and watch someone else become a victim. I will never allow myself to be a victim or turn this on another friend. I will be a friend to everyone - no matter their story. I want everyone I ever meet to know that I will always be there for them, even if they just want to say hello. I pledge to be your friend. - Newport Beach

Nekisa: I wish I could tell you this in person, but because of what happened I will never be able to. You left this world before I had a chance to become the person I am today, the friend I could have been for you. I am so sorry that I wasn't there for you, that I was so oblivious to the world around me and to someone in need. I wish that things could have gone differently and even though it's not much I hope this is a start. I am sorry I didn't tell you any of this any sooner, before it was too late. I'm sorry. But never forget that you were always loved, no matter what. - Stephanie

Nekisa: Despite being a victim of bullying myself, I wasn't strong enough to stand up and speak out against the mean comments and actions of others towards other girls that were in the same situation myself. It got to the point that I found that all of a sudden I was the bully. I took the same words and actions that hurt me in the past and turned this same attitude on another girl. I didn't realize what had happened - who I had become - until it was too late. -

PurplegoonSwagZ: I kindly pledge, to help girls in my high school that go through bullying. To keep them strong, and help them out of it. because i dont want others to go through what my bestfriend and I wen through, it hurts more than anything. - Toronto

-unknownZ: I am going through so much in highschool right now, and its not funny to see my life break down because of 5 girls, that are just straight bitches to me. They bully me emotionally, and exclude me because they think i'm too good for them:( I cut myself, because I cant take the pressure. I get pressure from every way, from school, to being the eldest in the family. i cant take it. The self-confidence I had is slowly fading away, but I'm trying to get it back, but I lost hope. i don't know what to do, sometimes I wish that i was never truly me:( -

Kate: Hey :-) I am almost 50 and i cry still every time I think of my pain in middle school. I don't know if I will ever understand how I became a target. There is no rational, single "reason". Then I went to a very poor, third-world country. I saw big problems. Disease. No sanitation. No food. No education. Death from all sorts of manageable issues. Pain and suffering not limited by age, gender, or quality of character. I knew that the tormentors back home were so SMALL! They did not understand that they could CHOOSE to be kind, instead of causing more pain. The world has too much pain and I choose kindness! I have not always succeeded. But I strive for that mark. I have yet to either confront or forgive my tormentors. It makes me less and I pray someday to be strong enough to shine the light on what they did to me. it will release me. Thank you for letting me share this... Healing comes in steps -

Shea: I pledge to not bully, and to be kind to others! - Las Cruces, NM

Shea: I pledge to not bully, and to be kind to others! -

Ayla: Im sorry about me talking behind your back on facebook I didnt mean for you to take it that way I didnt meen for it to hurt you and I know it still hurts you tell this day every time I see you I know. - Jessa

Mollie: I thought I had a best friend until I began 6th grade and she decided I wasn't cool enough for her. But instead of just growing apart, she decided to make my life a living hell for 2 years. I was constantly bullied at school and online; told I was hated, a loser, annoying, etc. I believed it for 2 years until I got fed up. I realized that I had other friends but I wasn't utilizing them because I thought I needed to be part of the "cool group." I cut myself off from the girls who bullied me and made friends with girls who WANTED to be my friend. I've never looked back since. I hope younger girls can see the light at the end of the tunnel. If you don't like your situation--change it. You have the power to make your life better. -

April: I pledge to never bully,hurt, or beat a girl ever! And pledge to everyone around me will do the same too - Hallsville

April: I was bullied for being short. I had a bff that turned on me and used me as her puppet to show off her friends. She said things to me like midget or an elf, gnome. I moved to a different school a year later and i found greater friends than I ever did. Thank you Mommy and Daddy! Then a new girl also moved in and she....she made dumb rumors about me thinking she was going to be the queen on the school. I simply walked away to hide my tears. Her dad was a business man and moves to places,so the girl moved far far away. After I heard those rumors I didnt say anything because I remembered the Kind Campaign. You helped me, Thank you -

Lilly: I''m sorry Krystal that we have separated as friends so much. I'm sorry that in middle school and now in high school I told personal information and embarrassing things about you and you're family. I did have my reasons at the time though; my own life and family was falling apart at the time and you're life seemed to be going perfect and I was jealous. I wish we could go back to the way we used to be. I pledge to be KIND. - Krystal

Chloe Billingsley: I pledge to not bully anymore people because i have changed - Charlotte,NC

Chloe Billingsley: im sorry for putting you through a tough time and making you feel worthless i didnt think about it like that - Triniti Clark

Chloe Billingsley: i have bullied plenty of people and i know that it was wrong and i stopped it myself because i have been on both sides -

Experienced bullying: I pledge to never ignore anyone - City

Theresa : I pledge not to betray my friend's secrets. I will be a loyal friend and try not to be a bitch. - Sewell,Nj

Theresa: My so called best friend betrayed me and told my secrets and told rumors about me in the 3rd grade. She turned the school against me. i became suicidal and a cutter. I was cutting on and off. I recently got help this past year and I've finally started to heal -

Kate: Me and my sister never get along. she bullies me constantly and has my whole life. she uses her depression as an excuse for everything, but its been years and she is better now. i just want to have a normal family. my parents love her more, she gets everything she wants. i just wish that maybe once someone would notice that IM upset and crying alone in the bathroom. but no one ever does, because im just the stupid little sister. -

Gwyneth Chelsea Anne: Cousin Viel I'm sorry for being mean to you I realized that i wasn't kind to you not you not being kind to me after I heard a story from my mom about you doing things for me as me only a single child you were like a sister. Sorry again - Viel Mylene

Gwyneth Chelsea Anne: I am in grade 5 after an incident that I embaressed myself infront of my classmates, they start teasing saying poor,stupid, planking girl those really hurt me its like me trap in a sphere of teasing and bad, I was empty no kindness found, at lunch when I go in they already laugh at me I cant take it anymore. I just make lunch at home and eat it at a private section. But I was crying cant stop the emotion.Then after I watch a video here at www.Kindcampaign.com I realized that I just need to be myself and with my family with my side I can just fight the bad fearsome of my classmates teasing me. After the next semester I talk to them that even tough you tease me I dont Care I just need to be myself after that they want them to let me eat with them at lunch I was happy to have them back. So some girls out there be yourself. -

Anonymous: Dear little curly brown-haired girl in grade one, I sincerely apologize for pulling your hair, insulting you and taking away your freedom and childhood happiness for a period of time. Even the little mean things that I did when we were kids. I'm sorry, I truly am sorry for hurting you and I hope with entirety that you are a happy girl right now and you are living the life you always wanted to live. I don't know where you are right now, but if it were possible, I would go back in time to redo the things I've done and said to you that were hurtful. I am sorry. You may not even remember it at all, but I still want to apologize for my behavior towards you. Love, older me now. - Her Name

Sierra: I was in grade 4 and i was bullyed by a bunch of people and they would call me ugly and fat andi would have no friends. but that all changed when i went into grade 5 and i got a group of friends and they were my friends until they turned on me and said that i had lied to them when i dident say anything but than i was told that one of the girls i hang out with was making fun of me behined my back...... -

Ashley Lynn: When i was 10 years old this girl would make fun of me. She would say i had a disease and for everyone to keep away from me..... It made me sad that people would do that to me even when i thought she was a good friend. It affected me in a major way. So i hope people would stop the bullying! -

Sierra: I pledge to be kind to all people and not to judge a book by its cover - Toronto

Sierra: i apoligise for what i have done in the past to anyone but i understand now making fun of people does not make you cool it just makes me a mean! - Any one i have made fun of

Sierra: I have made fun of people in my past but i am really sorry for what i have done! -

Someone who was greatly touched and inspired by Lauren and Molly : I kindly pledge to be kind to all girls . I kindly pledge to stand up for anyone and everyone getting bullied. I kindly pledge to treat others with love and respect, just the way i would like to be treated. :) - Mississauga, ON , CANADA

...: I can't say I have been bullied but I know how it feels,just the same. People would pick on me, sometimes tease me or call me names. It wasn't major because most of the time, it came in the course of a friendly conversation. But it hurts... Just because I am not the BEST ATHLETE in town, doesn't mean you have to laugh at me! My old school was like that....kind of like there was no one I could trust. My own BFF would talk about me behind my back but I was so desperate and when she apoligized, I just laughed and forgot it. But it hurts............. My friend was in her garden (3 houses away from mine) with a whole bunch of people there. They were laying some sort of game and she told them all to hurry before I came, not knowing that I was in my own garden, picking roses with my back turned to her. Another day, when I cried so badly because of everything that happened to me that day (insecurity) on her front porch. I was supposed to go into her house for the evening till my mom came back from work. She told me that she did care and she was my friend. I laughed and dried my eyes saying that I was acting. She grinned and rushed ahead inside, while I was left behind, still whimpering. I know it gets worse and I should be thankful and I surely am. I have now moved and am in a different place. Here, even when someone doesn't get along, NO ONE BULLIES THE OTHER. Absolutely no one that I have seen. I am glad to be here and not to face the pressure of middle school and high school in my older school. Bullying is bad, feels bad and ruins lives... Just hang on- KINDness Campaign is going to stop everything! 3 cheers for them! -

Zainab: I am usually last to have the latest things in clothing and in technology. I also happen to be overweight. I try to not be around the other girls who are slim and have everything they want. A lot of girls get pushed out of the 'in' group for not having cool thing or to not be slim as a stick. That's just how it goes in my school. But now I'm trying to not think of the worst. And I'm gonna try to lose weight so I have more self esteem. Thank You Kind Campaign -

Lexi: I pledge to treat all my friends equally! - chicago

Lexi: I am sorry for not paying as much attention to you as I do to my other friends! I will fix it! :( - Allie

Your Name: I am sorry - Her Name

Lexi: I am sorry for not being as nice to you at school with my other friends! I would never do anything to hurt you.....:( I realized I do it and must fix it! I LOVE YOU! - Annie

azriel: im sorry for calling you fat and ugly im just so sorry i feel what you feel - annada

Gina: I pledge to stop judging people by their looks, to stop making comments about other girls, and to be kind and open-hearted to everyone I meet. I pledge to be a more beautiful person by inspiring others to do the same. - Los Angeles

G: Freshman year of high school I gained a lot of weight. I don't know if it was from puberty or depression or both but I was not a "skinny" girl. A lot of people made fun of me for it. I remember getting questions on my formspring saying "you shouldn't have your belly button pierced because you're too fat." I also remember one guy told me, "you're really pretty and I would date you if you lost 20 pounds." Junior year, my best friend found a new best friend and together they would make fun of me for being a "fat, ugly, slut." Girl use weight against each other for simple reasons. It's easy to target, and it hurts. The thing is, I've lost 30 pounds since then. I can change my body, but they can't change the fact that the things they did and said made them ugly. They have no idea that all of the hateful things they said are the reason that I now have an eating disorder. I know that my weight loss won't stop the gossip though. They've found other ways to hurt me. I had a rumor about me spread through multiple schools about me having gonorrhea. I know that now that I'm thin, I'll be more of a target for jealous girls. The thing is, when you're being bullied, you never feel good enough. Suicidal thoughts come from feeling hopeless. The bullying needs to stop. -

souths kind klub<3: every girl knows it hurts. we promise not to talk about girls behind their backs. treat girls the way you want to be treated. i promise to always stick up for my friends. i will try my best to prevent getting the bully back, and stick up for the victium. i wont let the words get to me. im worth it. walk away because what she said ISN'T TRUE! - chicago

liz: I wanted to apologize to my friends for cling them fake and bitches -

melissa balyk: i am so sorry for starting a rumor about you stating that you were pregnant when you werent please forgive me - sarah clark

melissa balyk: i am so sorry for starting a rumor about you stating that you were pregnant when you werent please forgive me - sarah clark

melissa balyk: i am so sorry for starting a rumor about you stating that you were pregnant when you werent please forgive me - sarah clark

melissa balyk: i started a rumor about my friend saying that she was pregnant, i am very soory sarah for doing that -

idabelle : i have been hit, kick, push into lockers, but the worst is when they may fun of me for have a dead dad (my dad dead was 9 and know i am 13 i still get made for of for it) i am the littlest in my family and so my mom has to deal with my sister i still have not told my mom i tryed to kill myself and i used to slit my wrist. i have something called Dyslexia and i had ADD i suck have this but it dose not help have to be made fun of all day -

Tyler: i was bullied since the 2nd grade and im in 6th now.People gave me nicknames that will stick with me forevever!They called me rat,b****,and a s***.I sometimes really dont get people one minute they are nice to you and the next they're trashing you behind your back because of a rumor,boy,or plain nothing.They threatened me in so many ways and on the bus they would throw notes to me saying"go kill yourself","your s***",and "your family is going to die",but ive learned that every time i've cried over what the have said to me,had no sleep over notes they have written me and how many times i said i wish i was dead they kids just want that from you! when people call you fat,tall,skinny,or short dont listen to them they're so stupid.to all those people those people that have hurt me for life your fake -

matylda sieja: im sorry for everything all the things i always said to you i didn't really meen if you don't want to be my friend the thats ok but just please accept my apology. Thanx for reading this - chloe tysoe

Jessica: I was bullied for not having the latest things; but to me i was happy as long as i had my family by my side. A girl picked on me when i was in drama class just because i didn't look my best but when your fourteen you shouldn't care about what you wear just as long as you have close on your back; she didnt really know me so i dont know why she was mean to me. -

Jessica: I pledge to be kind and treat the people that i am around the way i want to be treated - Flatwoods

Jessica: I was bullied for not having the latest things; but to me i was happy as long as i had my family by my side. A girl picked on me when i was in drama class just because i didn't look my best but when your fourteen you shouldn't care about what you wear just as long as you have close on your back; she didnt really know me so i dont know why she was mean to me. -

MAry Dannielle: hey sis Lenny!!! so sorry for being bad at you at times and especially the time when I act like i'm mad but no,,, i wasn't, when I saw ur face while holding my hand, i was ashamed.... I'm really sorry..... Thank you for being a Big sis. for me!!! - Lenny Mae

Izzy: I'm sorry to everyone I've hurt. we all do it sometimes and its so hard not to talk behind peoples backs or embarress them, but if we all try and realize what we're doing then we can fight hate together. we have to realize we are all on the same level and that if we want to make it through our lives happily, we have to unite and love one another. we can find kind. - everyone I\'ve hurt ever

Izzy Weinberg: i pledge to always think that there will be a better tomorrow. - Summerset

Izzy weinberg: i have a cousin who I've always been there for, and this year she has become such a different person. she makes me cry more than anything else and all i want is so to be free of the torture. i never thought i would be the kind of person to ever think of dying, but i did one day, just wondered if she's even change. i always live in constant fear of her making fun of me or bullying me. this site has really helped me. thank you so much. -

Isabelle : Sorry calling you fat and being mean to you i don't really say that to you i wish i can say this to you. -

alison: I am sorry for hitting you and being mean. I never really meant it. Please stay my friend - andrew

Roxanne: I'm sorry for yelling and freaking out when I'm stressed - everyone

Alison: I pledge to ignore the comments of others and to just be myself. - Monticello

Alison: I'm not popular. I'm a skinny short kid who is smart and wears lots of dark colors. I know I'm not Goth or emo but it hurts when someone talks about you and says that you are. It really hurt my feelings. I'm not okay with it but what could I do. But I am not Goth or Emo I am me. -

Hannah: I'm just being me, but not everyone likes that. I don't know what I'm doing differently, but some girls on Youtube are really nice to the prettier and more successful people and really rude to me. I've gotten so hurt that I wanted to fire back at them, and I've even wasted time crying over the mean things that they said, but I remind myself that I am God's child and that I can be one fewer mean girl in the world. After all, other girls are looking up to me. I can't let them down by behaving poorly. -

brittany: i pledge to be kind to my friends and others - new york

Lea: I go to the school that Molly and Lauren visited today. This is my truth: At the beginning of this year there was a girl I thought I was friends with. Earlier today she turned on me. She called me a di** and a bi*** and it hurts. So if you read this you who said it to me dont in the future. Remember the golden rule. -

Daphne: Back in Junior High, the girls always call me names like Rikishi (the biggest wrestler in WWE) just because I was bigger and heavier than all the average Junior school girls and the other school mates would just laugh at me. I used to cry alone at my desk and always hopping that one of them would at least understand how hurtful it is to be called names. Until now, I remember clearly every moment they called me names and it gave me bad memories of my Junior high. I never liked my childhood/school days. I often try to forget and forgive but it is so hard. -

Mikayla: Last year (and this year, but more so last year) a girl in my class bullied me and bullied me, but I was never stong enough to speak up. so she would taunt me and tel me things would come out of my cuboard, scared me to to death and scarred my life. I would sit in a corner at school and cry all lunch. I have never explained everything to anyonebecause I was too scared. so now I am brave enough, this is basically what happened. She was my bestie, my BFF, my best bud for life. and then, one day she came to school and said something mean to me. I simply thought she was having a bad day but no. she kept going on about me being the worst person in the world and she started taunting me about scary things. I had a boyfriend at the time and she was jealous so she tried to steal him (she didn't like him, she just wanted to upset me). She took him away and told him lies and bad things about me (I knew this because I was close by when she did this) He eventually rejected me due to all these lies, and became BF and GF with her. Yet, behind his back, she didn't like him at all. She was bossy, mean and a plain bully. i spoke to my teacher about this (I didn't spill EVERYTHING but I told her enough so she would understand) and guess what? she fixed it!.......... sort of. This year I am in a different class to her, but she still bullies me on the bus. Now listen up Olivia. You ruined my life by taunting me and stealing my guy and much more. You bullied me and cheated off me and lied. You were not nice and you still aren't. This is my life story, a sad story that may or may not work out in the end, but if you read this Olivia, remember everything you did, and think, "was that the right thing to do?" -

Isabella: I'm sorry I judged you before I met you - Annabelle

Meg: I'm sorry, Grace. I know we're, like, best friends now. But I'm sorry I talked about you in sixth grade. I was jealous because you're beautiful and sweet and popular. I know that sounds cliche but it's true. And even though we're close now, I'm still sorry that I called you a bitch, because it wasn't true. And it didn't make me look good, despite what I'd thought. - Grace

Meg: I'm one of those girls who always reaches out to my friends. I'm the one to email them, the one to tell them they're beautiful, the one to check up on them and remember birthdays. I'm the one who invites them over or comforts them when they're down. I'm the one who makes an effort towards my friends. I have so many close friends, and one best friend, and they're all amazing. But someday, I'd like one person to ask ME if I'd like to hang out with them that weekend, instead of the other way around. -

Marie: That fight that happend in 6th grade, im sorry i was mean to you please forgive me i know we are bffls and bffls should NEVER treat eachother that way.... - Zhanna

Nathalie Campos : I've been bullied before. I never liked how that felt. It felt horrible. I always wanted ti be dead in this world. I was in 6th grade when the bullied started. I thought i could trust my friend, but that was a lie. I told my friend a screct which was who i liked. My friend told everyone in the school. Everyone started to make fun. Like i wasnt pretty for him, or he would never like me. after I've been wanting to leave and killmyself. But i know that wouldnt ever help. -

Daisy: I pledge to be nice to everyone and not to become a bully. - City

fatimah: My truth is I am nice -

fatimah: well my school youst to be so kind,but now they are min. -

Linda: Back in my old school, girls hated each other. They fought over boys.I worried if they were going to spread rumors about me. The fights got bad.The teachers soon found out.My friend was pushed to the floor because she used to date a boy and most girls got mad at her because those girls liked him. I tried to stop it, until I thoght that they would get mad at me. so i stayed away, thinking if they would hit ,kick,orpunch each other.But now im in a different school and they are still fighting! -

Cindy: Being unkind to one another is not a new thing. 20 years a girl my own age thought because she was twice my size she could punch me in the face. The worst part is everyone who saw it did nothing to help me. -

Sammy: I always try to be good person and be there for others and most times this means i dont take care of myself, it feels like no one listens to me or cares to hear what i have to say. sometimes i say mean things but i truly dont mean them, i say mean things because im hurt and feel stranded. I wish i was perfict that i didnt feel hurt or lost so i can always suport and protect my friends but sadly i am human and have feelings. But with you girls at my side i will and can be the best me i can be. To my soul sisters Alex, Carmen, Elys and Marissa. so much more then the power of three - To my soul sisters Alex, Carmen, Elys and Marissa. so much more then the power of three

Sammy: I pledge to never let anyones cruelty hurt me, and if i see bulling i will do my best to stop it. - Melbourne, FL

Sammy: When i was in Jr high i had a crush on this guy nothing to big but this "friend" of mine told me she had talked to the guy and he said that he really liked me back, well being a brave girl i walked up to him and sat next to him and asked him out. He laughed in my face, i ran out of class and into the girls bathroom and cried a few moments later i heard my "friend" and another girl walk in they where laughing so loudly and i heard my "friend" say "wow how stupid did she look? i can not believe she fell for that." i was crushed i walked out and looked at her her friend looked at me wide eyed, my "friend" looked at me like i was going to kill her honestly i wanted to. but i just told her how mean she was and i walk out. -

veronica: I talk about ppl behind there backs sometimes and im sorry -

Veronica: im sorry i talked about u behind ur back - Samantha

D: I will not be like my evil friend! I will stop using my bffl! - nh

D: Im so so so sorry that sometimes im mean to u - M

D: My Best friend's friend is always bossing her around, using her, and threatning her. I used to b better then that, but she pushed me over the edge and im starting 2 b just like her :( -

Carson: I pledge to stop bullying, against me and by me. Stop it, and find kind. - Baltimore

Carson: I'm sorry for being mean. I love everyone. Well, not everyone, but I will try. - Everyone

Carson: I have been mean. I have been nice. It depends. Sometimes I don't know what to do. People are mean to me. They don't want to work with me. Why? Am I mean all the time? -

AURORA: I CAN FIND KIND. - AUDREY

no name please: i can be a little sexist, im sorry! -

Claudia: Sometimes i feel the new girl Alexis is taking my best friend away. -

Kellly: I am really sorry to my friend Chauntae after getting in an argument. -

Abbey: I guess lots of girls get bullied in school, but I don't think anyone would have been bullied quite like me. It all started on my first day back at school, when Channelle had told rumors about me again. I was prepared for that though, she always did it. Then even my bestie started believing her! Lianna just randomly turned around and asked me "Did you really do that?" and I replyed "How could you believe that? You know me more than anyone!". She just moved away from my seat. Then when nearly everyone believed Channelle, she sent her friend, Maddison, to pretend they had a fight and I had been there for more than Channelle. I believed her because that's what I was like, naive. I ended up becoming Maddy's best friend. But the next day she put white-out in my hair. And told everyone I had a bad case of dandruff. A few weeks later she told everyone I called her a lesbian, and that she was from hell. I wouldn't do that, I refused to stoop to her level. But when the teacher heard that I may have done that, she told my mum. When my mum heard, she didn't let me go to school for the rest of the week. I never felt more ashamed. When the concert time came, I was over-excited. I had practiced my song over and over again. But when the big night came i had never expected to be sabotaged by Channelle again. When I was ready to sing, she whispered something to Maddy, and then Maddy tripped me over. Well, if I went back in time, I'd know not to introduce myself to Channelle. That's my story. -

Your Name: I'm so sorry! I'm sorry ihave thoughts of suicde. I'm the hardest person i critisize, but it's only cause of what happened to my grandmother, the only person who truly understood me. i'm crying as I write this because this reminds me of my grandmother, how hard I am on myself, me being a bully to my sisters, and most importantly, what i said or thought of others. I'm so sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope we can stop bulling to everyone - Her Name

Sarah: I pledge to unite in kindness in an effort to end female bullying. - Live oak

Kelsey: I am so sorry for all the things I did to you .I am so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so sorry for being so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so mean to you Shayne.I am really really really really sorry to you Shayne.I am really sorryand I mean it.I am not lying to you Shayne. - Shayne

Abbey : I am sorry to my best friend Jessica, I have treated her like dirt and I have no idea what had come over me. I can only hope that she forgives me. I miss her like crazy, but I'm not the only one who went sour. But I want us to put our differences behind and be like we used to. - Jess

Sarah: I'm sorry for always saying the wrong thing. I don't mean to but it just comes out and if you are upset I take full responsibility and will do everything in my power to make it up to you - Many people

Sarah: I think I am a very kind person but I have a habit of putting my footing my month a lot and I usually end up hurting people's feelings on accident but my problem is that I am sometimes to proud to apologize. -

Shayne: I pledge to be nicer to my sisters, lower my temper, and spread kindess to everyone I see, No matter what! - Columbus,NJ

Shayne: I'm sorry ive been so rude to you and hurt you all of your life. I'm so sorry and I hope you can forgive me! i have something you don't :( - Kelsey

Madi Mc: im sry i was mean to my friends iv hurt them when people hurt me but thats no excuse so im soooooooo sry the people iv hurt - Brittsny,jesse,asia and others iv hurt

megan: i'm sorry to the people that i hurt there feels -

jessey: sorry i became a bully to you -

Brittny: Im sorry i punched u :( - Seirra

Alicia Phantomhive: I pledge to be kind, truthful, a good listener to friends and everyone. - California

Alicia and Rin Phantomhive: When we were little we told our best friends that they were the ugliest thing in the world, because I thought it would make people like us more but they don't. We hope u the best Vastion, Michelle, Tyler, Keith, Bill, Kimiko, and Vampy........were truly sorry..... -

Andy: I´m so sorry of hurting you, I didn´t want to hurt my best friend. - Mary

rachel: i was never a very mean girl, but i do admit i would spread gossip and secrets here and there. so i want to apologize to anyone i've ever hurt verbally. - everyone

Rachel: my bestfriend is a backstabber. i used to be too, but that was a long time ago and my motto has been for awhile "if you wouldn't say it in their presence don't say it at all." i thought my bestfriend had changed too, but i was wrong. she's constantly telling my secrets and telling people that no one likes me and whenever someone insults me, instead of standing up for me, she agrees. if she hates me that much, why does she pretend that she loves me so much? she doesn't understand how badly it hurts to know your bestfriend since 5th grade (we are in high school now) does that to you. and then she has the nerve to tell everyone that IM a bad friend, when really i keep her secrets and i dont say bad things about her. sure every once and awhile i will spill a secret or say something bad about someone so im not saying she's the only guilty one here. but i just wish she knew how it felt. -

Lauren: I'm sorry for every girl and boy I hurt. I only do that because I'm bullied a lot. -

EG: I am truly sorry for anything that I may have done to hurt others when I was younger. I am sorry that I was not strong enough to say no and I am sorry that I let others hurt me as well. I will try as hard as I can to make sure that my daughter has better experiences. It doesn't feel good to be on either side and I have been on both (hurting others and getting hurt). - Girls I have hurt and my younger self

Your Name: im sorry to everyone i have talked about in a horrible way - Her Name

Julie: To lead by example and be a source of encouragement for my daughter. - City

Oli: I'm soooo sorry if I ever made you feel like you didn't matter to me - Aimee

Samantha - calgary: I am sorry to all the boys I was mean to -

Hannah: I Want to apologize to my best friend because when we were in fifth grade she was like sometimes sort of mean to me so i started being mean to her but i realised what i did now i just want to say im sorry ghoul - Luna

Ailish: Sorry for the times I haven't been the nicest friend to you when I know you are just trying your best to fit it. But you don't need to thats what gets to me, you are perfect how you are:) - Renae

Ailish: We had a little group of friends and we had like a code of honour in some way. One of the rules was everyone has to agree. Three of us wanted to have a new member but the other girl didn't want to. She started to become really mean and we didn't know what to do. We decided to scrap the group and she asked why. We almost lost the friend we wanted in the group because of the other girl. But we sorted it out and we have forgiven her. She NEVER talks to us anymore and we don't know why. -

laure: to be kind - ln

Isabelle: i pledge to be kinder to people, think about people's feeling and to stop female bullying - California

Isabelle: i'm sorry for being mean to you, maybe if you change you attitude a little bit, we could be friends again - Patricia

Isabelle: i had a childhood friend in school, at first we liked each other , but the next day, she started being mean to everyone, including me, but now we are in 6th grade, we still don't like each other, were kind of friendly rivals but she's still being mean to everyone, i mean it's not that i hate her, it's just that, maybe if she changed her attitude, maybe i would like her better -

J from Colorado: Dear Becky, I'm sorry for teasing you. I thought it would make me cooler by belittling you. 20 years later and it still haunts me that I did that to you. I can't imagine how it must haunt you. Again, I'm sorry. -

Alexa: I pledge to never become a mean girl as a woman, I pledge to never let my daughters become mean girls, and I pledge to protect them from mean girls, being exposed to that is the worst thing that ever happened to me, if I were to willingly throw my daughters to the wolves I'd be sending them on a road to suicide that I was on too, and more importantly I pledge to never let my daughters become mean girls and send someone ELSE on a road to suicide, I will never let them see either side of that coin, I will teach them what I was taught, I will show them what can happen if they say even one mean thing to someone else, and I will raise them to be better than the people who put me down, that is my pledge - Woodstock

Your Name: I'm proud to say I was never a mean girl, I had been put down so much by them that I couldn't stand up for myself much less bite back, but that anger and frustration did build up, and I did take it out on someone undeserving, I apologise to my mom who put up with me during that time, I yelled at her alot and said alot of things I didn't mean because I was trying to be "cool" or because I was so frustrated with never being able to scream a defense at the girls that beat me down that everytime anything upset me I absolutely tore my mom's head off, and I am so sorry for that, if I could, I'd go back and time and yell into a pillow, my mom is my best freind, and at some times my only freind, and I love her - Darla

Alexa: I've been bullied since I first got in school, on TV I always say stories about how boys bully and never saw anything about girls being the bad guys, almost only the victums, so it confused me when girls were bullying ME, as I got older and my interests matured I noticed that girl bullying was becoming more common in the media, but I still felt like I was doing something wrong, I never heard stories about bullying from my favirote stories, American Girl, Magic Treehouse, Disney Princesses, none of them ever said that they were bullied, there were evil stepmothers and mean older sisters but.. that's it... I thought for a long time that it was my fault, that for some reason I just wasn't.. NORMAL... at night I used to try to come up with causes for not being "normal", that I was actually from a race of vampires or something, but the older I got the less I could comfort myself with that kind of fantasy, it was so bad that from fifth through seventh grade I contemplated suicide, guidance counslers didn't even talk to me and teachers were half of the problum, every day I went home crying because of the girls and what they did to me, it wasn't all calling names either, I had my things stolen, broken, stepped on,I'm lucky enough to say no one ever punched me or anything but I was terrified that they eventually would, mean girls never went down in numbers, I remember when I was little I was only bullied by one or two girls, but it seemed like each year in school that number doubled or trippled, by the time I was in seventh grade I had so many enemies that I felt very alone, even my former "freinds" had gone to the dark side and left me all alone, my one true freind was at another school, so I felt like I had no one, the worst part though wasn't the name calling, it was making me try to be who I wasn't so I would blend in, I tried to do things I didn't like and I tried to like them too, girls at my school were into cooking and sewing, so I bought cookbooks and tons of fabric but I wasn't interested enough in either to be good, I tried photography and was even in band even though that was miserable, anything that I overheard the mean girls talking about I tried to pretend I liked but still it didn't seem to help, eventually I accepted that no one would like me and was atleast me, the bullying got so bad that I had to be pulled out of school, homeschooling though is the best thing that's ever happened to me, since I left the mean girls scene I've become a writer, I have an online fanbase in the thousands, I'm even preparing my first book for publication, the thing I've always been teased about most is the fact that I'm a nerd, I read books during recess and was always talking about "strange" things, mermaids, vampires, faeries, and Japanese anime is the absolute best, but now I'm proud of my nerdiness, I go to anime conventions twice a year and make tons of freinds, there are no mean girls at anime conventions, atleast none that I've ever met, I'm proud of being a nerd, I'm proud of studying werewolves instead of studying reality TV stars, I'm proud that my best freind is my mom, and I'm finally proud of who I am, my mom and I joke that the people I meet now are so nice, that everyone should watch anime so they wouldn't be so mean, but the important thing is that I went from the brink of suicide, crying my eyes out everyday, to never crying anymore and having so much to live for, all by escaping mean girls and finding my own purpous, my own path, just imagine, if there were no mean girls to begin with, what could people REALLY accomplish? -

Calypso: I was allways bullied and pushed aruond at my after program by a girl named Kassy I allways told her that she was so unkind and unfair and that she was the most rude person in the world im in fith grade now im home scholled im ten and lonly please help me see the light I wish could be like you guys -

Rebecca: I'm sorry I ignored you. I know I don't know you and all and you were just being friendly but I was rude. I'm sorry, I'm even sorrier that I'll probably do it again. I'm sorry I have to take out my want for loneliness on you. - Leah

sofy: i dont have any girl friends most of my friends are male, i guess girl dont like me because im shy and i like things that girls dont like anime or videogames -

Ashley: I'm sorry for bullying you all through elementary school and saying we would be friends the end of the year and never calling -

Kati: I'm sorry for being mean to you and teasing you all through elementary school and Jr. High. I know this is years later, but I hope you can forgive me. - Tara

Meaghan: be mindful of other's daily struggles and remind them of how beautiful they are. - Boston

Christina: Dear Raleigh, I am so sorry that I ever talked about you behind your back. I'm so glad that we are still best friends and I love you so much! -

Mary: I pledge to not be judgmental over people wither other think your "fat, stupid, anorexic, ugly, a nerd, etc" since I have been called some of those. If I were to agree with any of them for some reason I'd keep it to myself. :) - Facotryville

Mary: Yeah I'm sorry I dreamed of your being eaten by tigers. At least I didn't say "Last night I had a dream about nice, cute tigers. Oh yeah in it they ate you!" to your face unlike the things you said to my face. I can't wait until I attend your High School Graduation and you find out who that girl is. That girl being me and you hopefully apologize to me too. I am truly sorry since I got over you two. The only thing I could ask if to hear "I am sorry" from your lips. Anyway thanks to you, I am nowhere near as judgmental over people nowadays. Sorry, I promise the tiger won't eat you ever again, like they haven't for 2 years. - Sarah and Rachael

Mary: My experiences with female bullying made me skip school some days and have a one on one with the principal to try to remove them from my school life. Even though the next year I had peace at school with some more girls, most of my friends were guys since they're less judgmental. I moved away the year after that. This new place had more people respect me last year until the end. I dropped out of some stupid show and everyone after that just looked at me in a funny way. Some people got over that this year thankfully. However I now am being attacked here in minor ways. Just simple ostracizing which I've had since 1st grade so I am used to it. People say I'm nice, but if I am why am I not treated nicely? I hear there's a bunch of mean people here, I avoid the ones said to be mean since I want nothing to do with it, and had to find out some more of them on my own. Two of the ones I found don't want me to be with the people I like. I only really have one or two people I actually can trust this year. High School can suck I guess, but it shouldn't have to be over a bunch of jerks who want to make you feel bad. I personally want more understanding in this world. If people knew everyone's backgrounds they'd be treated differently. I am all for the the Kind Campaign, Lady Gaga wanting the president to make an anti-bullying law, and everyone like it. :) It needs to stop, and stop soon! I and I think everyone should be able to accept they're all weird and different in their own ways, good ways. -

Earlier me: Dearest self, I am sorry that I listened to what the other girls had to say. I am sorry that I tried cutting your wrists, tried to develop an eating disorder, and tried to take your life. I am sorry that it was so important to me to fit it and pull you away from your real friends and family. - Me now

Mary: I have never made anyone upset but for the time when I was little and I didn't want to play with a girl -

Natalia: I Pledge to be kind to people who are having a hard time, or need someone by their side, or just plain kindness. I Want to make a difference in people. - Miami

lauren: i love my friends -

Maggie: I kindly pledge to give as many compliments I can without overdoing it and to put on a happy face even when I've had the worst day because as my friend Lauren says " mags ur good mood is contagious " :) - Chicago

Maggie: Two of my friends are huge supporters o kind campaign but over te past weekend one of them has decided to disclude and ignore me and today she pushed me so hard I actually started crying at lunch. Now I only feel like I have a few friends that are actually there for me since some o the others joined in on the bullying ik there are alot of stories worse than mine but it still hurts. I love you Brianna, Lauren, Katy, and Faye I couldn't live without you guys your always there for me -

amy: I want to be liked -

brooke: To be kind - los angeles

Lauren: I pledge to practice what I preach. - Santa Monica

Kindly, Lauren Parsekian: I’m sorry for leaving that message on your answering machine when we were kids. It's my one regret in life and I wish I could take it back. - Dear Krista Baker,

Kindly: I am so sorry about the bad things I have done to you. I hope you could find some place in your heart to forgive me. - Dear Amanda,

Kindly, Helena: I’m sorry for starting a roomer about you. - Dear Lynett,

Kindly, Lynette: I’m sorry for betraying you and I’m sorry for saying a rumor about you. - Dear Helena,

Kindly, Alyssa: Sorry that I called you bad names and I really feel bad about that. I hope we can still be friends. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly: I’m sorry that I said mean things to you. - Dear Emily,

Kindly, Andrea: Even though you have been mean to me too, I’m sorry that I called you things and I feel really really bad. Please forgive me. - Dear Jordin,

Kindly, Kiri: I'm sorry for judging you before even trying to get to know you. - Dear Emily,

Kindly: I'm sorry for ruining your senior year of high school and I think you're sorry for ruining mine. I hope that you are ready to forgive me. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Me: I can't imagine what our lives would be like now if we could have stayed friends. I think it would have made the difference that we both needed in middle school and high school - Dear Jen,

Kindly, abigail: I’m sorry tiffany I didn’t mean to flip u off its just that..... you piss me off somtimes and you have no right to to make rude comments about my mother and my father - Dear tiffany,

Kindly, Maggie: I’m sorry for the whole Hayes thing and letting that guy get between our friendship. lol. - Dear Megan,

Kindly, Alyssa: I would just like to say that I am really sorry from the bottom of my heart for the things I have done. I can get so caught up in wanting to be "in" but I am done with it because all it does it hurt people. My friends and I don't want to be like that or have people think we are all mean. - Dear everyone,

Kindly, Terra Lynn: I am sincerely sorry for hurting you in every way I have. It will stick with me forever and I am so sorry! - Dear everyone I have hurt,

Kindly, Miriam Awarez: I’m sorry for being mean to you. - Dear Estrella,

Kindly, Caiden H.: Sorry for hurting you and calling you names. I wish I never said those thing! I will never forgive myself. - Dear Terra,

Kindly, sarah riggs: I’m sorry for ever making you mad. and I’m sorry for saying the things I did to you at school. Like telling Blaine that you liked him when you told me not to. Sorry!!!! - Dear ashley,

Kindly, jjtremblers: I’m sorry for being mean to you just because my friends dont like u I hope we can still b frndz k ........um I hope you forgive me !!!!! - Dear Laura,

Kindly, you know who: I am sorry for hitting you. I realize that my anger toward you and other girls is a result of my own insecurities. I will never hurt you like that again. I’m sorry. - Dear Jessica,

Kindly, Older, Wiser, Self: I am sorry for not knowing better then. I am sorry that you were formed in a culture where it was more Important to fit in then be KIND to others. I am sorry for allowing other people to get you down when nothing they said should have mattered. I am sorry you still have trouble forgiving those "friends" in sixth grade who stole your shoes because the weren't a name-brand and then played keep-a-way with them, leaving you shoeless during recess. I am sorry that judging others feels like an automatic response. I am sorry you have struggled with eating disorders for 10+ years because your self esteem is lacking too much to feel you are worth healing. I am sorry you have spent so many hours alone, feeling sad, and yearning for closer relationships with others, but not knowing how to form friendships because during your formative years "girls were just being girls" and "kids are cruel". I am sorry suicide has been considered as a coping option too many times to count. I am sorry for not being tougher and finding inspiration sooner. But I promise I will continue trying to live better and spread this KINDness Campaign. - Dear Younger Self,,

Kindly, Audie: I’m sorry for talking about you behind your back, and not coming directly to you to get the whole story. - Dear Julia,

Kindly, Alex: Sorry for being so mean to you when you didn't deserve it. - Dear Josh,

Kindly, Rae: I don't know if you will ever see this, but I am so sorry for not sticking up for you in elementary school. I tried so hard to fit in with the people who made my life miserable, that I did not stick up for my one true friend. - Dear Patty,

Kindly, Natasha: Sorry for telling you off sophomore year of high school. It was just mean and unnecessary. I take back everything I said and hope you can accept my apology. - Dear Amber,

Kindly, Kristina: I'm sorry. - Dear Everyone I\'ve hurt befor,

Kindly,: I'm sorry for my friends cruel acts towards you in middle school calling you a slut and cutting your hair. you did not deserve those things. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Natalie: I dont know why I tell you you're fat. You're not. You're beautiful and I’m sorry for making you feel otherwise. - Dear Emily,

Kindly, Jasmine-Marie: If in any way have I hurt your feelings, I truly apologize and most likely I didn't mean it if I did. - Dear whomever,

Kindly, Amber Brown: I apologize for the wrong and hurtful things I've done to you, based off of what others told me that you said about me and what you did to me. - Dear Chris,

Kindly, Brittany: I’m sorry for dissing you in front of those girls. I’m really sorry because I feel sad about that. - Dear Kamie,

Kindly, Dominique Loyd: I am sorry for lying to you. I know it's going to be some time for you to trust me again but I know together you and I could get past this. - Dear Keenan,

Kindly, Jeanell: I apologize if I have done or said anything to make you feel bad about yourself. I’m sorry if I have given a bad look, but it's just a sign of protection. I don't want to feel the way I used to and I simply apologize. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, mayrali: sorry for saying stuff behind your back (mean stuff) - Dear lynette,

Kindly, jennifer connell: I’m sorry for not trying my best in school. - Dear mom,

Kindly, Taniesha D.: I’m sorry I kept on telling him those things you say you wanted to do and say. - Dear Khadija,

Kindly, Naomi: I am so sorry that I turned on you and made you feel bad about yourself. I was a friend that turned. - Dear Aubrey,

Kindly, Jayla Ancrum: I am very sorry for what I did to you in the past. I hope you forgive me because it is a new me. - Dear old friend,

Kindly, You x bestfriend, Haley: I’m sorry for everything I have said or did to you. I love you and miss you - Dear Kaylen,

Kindly, Miracle: I'm sorry for telling you what I said yesterday at lunch time. - Dear All my friends,

Kindly, Morgan Janson: I am sorry that I called you all those mean things and made everyone hate you. I do not know why I did that I am so sorry. - Dear Miranda,

Kindly, Blythe: Sorry I got angry while I was doing homework. Love you! - Dear Riley,

Kindly, Courtney Still: I am sorry for calling you names and mean things. Please forgive me. - Dear Francie,

Kindly, graciegreyson: just wanted to say whats up to everybody in the forums. name is bryan from LA. cant wait to meet all you interesting people. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Jamia: i am sorry that I nagged you, and hurt your feelings. There really wasn't a reason but I am sorry and I hope you can forgive me. - Dear Timbolyn,

Kindly, Alexandra Celestin: I apologize for judging people and talking about them by making jokes that could be hurtful or lowering. - Dear Classmates,

Kindly, Taylor: I am sorry for telling everyone when you ripped your pants and for beating you up in the baseball field. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Dolce Harrison: I apologize for taking the ones you love. I am sorry for acting carelessly towards your feelings and thinking of myself and I’m sorry for doing all this in front of you. - Dear Girls,

Kindly, Your Friend Sade: I am sorry I laughed at the hair dye on your shirt. I love you friend. - Dear Cierran Wilson,

Kindly, Kiera: I apologize for calling you fat and calling you names. I also apologize for being so aggressive about the fact that I thought you were talking about be behind my back. - Dear Ciara,

Kindly, Tieffa Roberts: I am so sorry for embarrassing you in front of my peers. I am also sorry for defaming your name. I sincerely apologize for disrupting the learning environment. - Dear Tech High Administrators,

Kindly, Carlmesia Gladden: I am apologize for being mad at you when we was at lunch. - Dear Jasmine,

Kindly: I am sorry for being a hater. I love you!! - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly: I am so sorry for yelling at you for no reason and I love you - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, BS: I am so sorry for teasing you and calling you names. I had no right and no reason for such behavior. I hope you can forgive me, nine years later, for any suffering or hardship I caused you. - Dear CCC,

Kindly, BS: Please forgive me. I didn't realize how my actions effected you. You should have told me sooner, I would have stopped Immediately. - Dear TG,

Kindly, BS: I'm sorry I didn't tell you about "Peter." It was idiotic, we were stupid and Immature, and I didn't mean to hurt you. Please know that I’m sorry. - Dear LM,

Kindly: I am sorry that I call you fat and ugly. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Deundria Smith: I'm truly sorry for hitting you. Hopefully you accept my apology. - Dear Everyone I have hit,

Kindly, Shirley Jones: I would like to apologize for hurting you in so many ways. I would like you to forgive me for putting you down and making you feel bad. - Dear Shirley S.,

Kindly, Donisha Lard: I should have never said anything about you. Every though you teased me, I should have never tried to hurt you. - Dear Brandaeia,

Kindly, Kniya Matthews: I'm sorry you had to get in it with me. - Dear Mellisa,

Kindly, Alexis: I apologize for talking about you behind your back. - Dear Melissa,

Kindly, Kniya Matthews: I'm sorry for hitting you for no reason. I'm sorry for not inviting you to my birthday party. I’m sorry for putting you out of my group. - Dear Alexis,

Kindly, Jaliciia Lake: I apologize for being rude to you on the bus. I wouldn't have been stuck up, so I hope that you can find it in your heart to forgive me. - Dear Brianna,

Kindly, Jarmine: I'm sorry for calling you names but you be making me mad. I’m so sorry. - Dear Karl (my brother),

Kindly, Roshell: I am so bad to you. I will not do it again. - Dear MeMe,

Kindly, Melissa: I am sorry for treating you bad and being mean to you when what you needed was help. I love you sister. - Dear Alexis,

I am sorry for treating you bad and being mean to you when what you needed was help. I love you sister.: I am sorry for treating you bad and being mean to you when what you needed was help. I love you sister. - Dear Alexis,

Kindly, Brianna Lakes: I am so sorry that I said some mean words to you in the past, so may you forgive me. xo - Dear Derek,

Kindly, Brianna Lakes: I am so sorry that I said some mean words to you in the past, so may you forgive me. xo - Dear Derek,

Kindly, Ben: I’m sorry for kicking you out of our group. - Dear Anthony,

Kindly,: Sorry I kicked you too. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Mitzi: I’m sorry I kicked you in the shin. - Dear Ben,

Kindly, Jenna: Sorry about last week with the boy - Dear Sarah,

Kindly, Beth: I'm sorry I ruined our friendship and compromised your relationship with Mike. You're beautiful and strong. - Dear Angie,

Kindly, Tess Esquivel: You are the most beautiful, most courageous and loving big sister in the world. As I have grown up, matured and gained a bit more of understanding I have come to know that I am very very blessed by your testimony. I’m sorry that I wasn't the most supportive little sister, I love you and I am looking forward to being by your side as you bring my second niece in to this world. My hope is that she is as lovely and as true as her mother. May you forgive the mistakes I've made ~ I love you Hermann. - Dear Elizabeth,

Kindly, Ava: I am so sorry that I lied to you. I just wanted you to like me and I went too far. I hope that you can forgive me because your friendship means a lot to me. - Dear Tory,

Kindly, EY: I'm so sorry for being so jealous of you and the things you have accomplished through dance. You deserve them. - Dear CA,

Kindly, Elise: I'm so sorry for excluding you when we were younger just because I thought you were better than me. - Dear Kalyssa,

Kindly, Elizabeth: I apologize to everybody who I have been mean too and I understand that you've done the same thing and I will accept your apology if you apologize to me in the future. - Dear Everybody,

Kindly, Caitlin: I'm sorry for all the drama I participated in during middle school. You deserved better friends. I’m truly sorry for everything. - Dear Taylor,

Kindly, Crystal Torres: I'm sorry Norma for everything. For going up to you and probably guiding you away from God. - Dear Norma,

Kindly, Crystal Torres: I'm sorry for everything I did from the beginning and till now. - Dear Jeanette,

Kindly, Chantell Gallegos: I am sorry we prank called you because I was the one to give them your phone number. - Dear Nancy,

Kindly, Clara: I'm sorry if I have said anything that really hurt you. Please forgive me. - Dear Anyone,

Kindly, Emeline: I'm sorry for saying you have no brain. You're really one of my best friends. Beautiful Excellent Lots of fun Awesome - Dear Bela,

Kindly, Ameera: I'm sorry for fighting with you in the past. I really shouldn't have did it. I’m sorry. - Dear Someone,

Kindly, Bela: I'm sorry I've always been mean to you. I’m going to try not to be mean to you. You are really nice. - Dear Kaitlin,

Kindly, Sarah: I'm sorry for sometimes taking my grumpiness out on you. Please forgive me. Sorry! - Dear Clara,

Kindly, Michelle Gabbert: I'm so sorry if I have done this to you: Gossip, lie, or say any hurtful thing about you. If you know I hurt you, please forgive me. - Dear anyone,

Kindly, Hannah W.: I'm so sorry for being rude to you in Volleyball. I will try to do better. Can you try too? - Dear Nicole,

Kindly, Taylor: I'm sorry that I was jealous because I liked Zach. - Dear Ellen,

Kindly, Tayloe Steele: Even though I do it jokingly and I don't really mean it, I know some of the things I saw may hurt you. I just want you to know hat you are one of my best friends. :) - Dear Shenu Shah,

Kindly, Nicole Ferriss: I'm deeply sorry for what I did, I know it hurt you and I’m truly sorry. I’m also sorry for all the things I said after. - Dear Karli S.,

Kindly, Jett Olney: I'm sorry for telling you off for making me mad, talking bad behind your back, getting in a physical fight with you, and for making you cry. - Dear Girls,

Kindly, Dolby Vincent: I am sorry for making you feel like a punching bag. I know now how much that might hurt you. I will try to be a better friend to you. I love you Shaun. You're a true friend. - Dear Shenu Shah,

Kindly, Gabby: I am sorry that sometimes I only talk to one person when you want to talk to me and you don't like that I’m leaving you out. - Dear All My Friends,

Kindly, Chinna: I remember middle school when you were "shunned" from your "group" and people at school talked about how bitchy you were and ugly and I went along with it even though I didn't know you. Now I do and I feel terrible. I’m so sorry. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Serenity: I’m sorry I have been so moody. You're my BFF! :) - Dear Kaile,

Kindly, Ameera: I'm sorry for fighting with you in the past. I really shouldn't have done it. I’m sorry. - Dear Someone,

Kindly, me: I am sorry about what happened last year and that we have not gotten back together. But you did wrong to. - Dear An old friend,

Kindly, kmb: I’m sorry for not sticking up for you when our teammates were cruel. I love you so much and hate that I let that happen to you. - Dear little sister,

Kindly, Robin: I am SOOO sorry I called you names I know how it feels and I will NEVER I repeat NEVER say mean things to you again!!! I am So SO SO sorry I did not realize you had such a hard life - Dear Alicia,

Kindly, julia: i'm sorry to those that I have or might hurt with my words and actions - Dear girls,

Kindly, Me: I'm sorry for how it all turned out. I have moved on now. You have too. This is me letting go and wishing you all the happiness in the world. I will always love you. - Dear you,

Kindly, Sarah Munsey: I am sorry for all those prank calls my friends and I made. Even if they were not mean, I know they were annoying. I apologize. - Dear Middle School girls,

Kindly, Sarah Munsey: I forgot to mention.... I know you never knew it was me but I am really sorry for TPing your houses when I was mad at you. Please forgive me. - Dear Middle School girls,

Kindly, Tassie: I'm sorry that sometimes I get mad at you and walk away. - Dear Samantha,

Kindly, stephenie: I’m sorry if I have ever put you down, or insulted you because I could not deal with my own insecurities. I’m sorry for ever talking behind your back, or just being plain mean to your face. - Dear Girls throughout my life,

Kindly, Robin PLZ forgive ME!!: I am sorry for leaving you out and spreading rumors about you! I only did it because Rhett liked you and I liked him and I wanted him to like me!!! I am sorry for being your friend one day and hating you the next! I just knew you were prettier then me so I wanted to make me look good and you look bad! SOSORRY for making you guys look bad!!! - Dear Lily & everyone!,

Kindly, icallmyselfaslut: I'm sorry for befriending your boyfriend. I’m sorry for flirting with him and falling for him. I’m sorry for sending him 'sexts'. I’m sorry for hanging out with him. I’m sorry about a lot of things I did. But I’m mostly sorry because you never found out. I had to live with regret. And you were played like a fool. I’m sorry. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Jennifer: I'm sorry I can get so jealous towards you and other girls. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I’m so sorry I put our relationship in jeopardy because of my jealousy. I know jealousy gets you nowhere, and I know I can't control your friendships with other girls and I can't try to control what you do. I’m so sorry if you feel like I am smothering you. I love you more than anything, and I never want to lose you. - Dear Brian,

Kindly, Kristin: I'm so sorry about trashing your house and leaving you out at Hayley's birthday. We were so very cruel and I’m sorry that I hurt you and embarrassed you in front of your family. I've been on the other side so I know how much it hurts. I hope you have been able to move on and see that we were just Immature girls, and even though I know asking forgiveness is too much, I do hope you will see one day that it was less about you and more about my own insecurities. - Dear Jackie,

Kindly, Kristin: I'm sorry I turned my back on you when you needed a friend the most. I’m so glad that you became what you always wanted to be, but I hate that you changed so much to get there, because you were already so great and I fear that you changed because I made you feel like you needed to. I love you very much and I am glad that you are happy. - Dear Morgan,

Kindly, Lauren K.: I am so sorry for always leaving u out I know how it feels and I am sorry - Dear Natilie,

Kindly,: i am soo sorry for doing that to you. I have no idea why I did it. I hope we can still be friends. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly,: I’m so sorry for ditching you and leaving you out. I’m so sorry for calling you names and starting roomers. I do not know why I did it. I thought I was cool. I’m so sorry though. I truthfully regret it so much - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, karina: I'm sorry for all the bad things I did to you, I really sorry... I’m not the same now - Dear Odett,

Kindly, alexis: I’m sorry for all the times I have talked behind your back and put you down. I’m sorry for the fact that we lost a friendship that we once had. please forgive me. - Dear taylor,

Kindly, MeLiNa: am so so so sorry for calling you names and for not being a good classmate to you or help you when you needed me am truly sorry - Dear claudia,

Kindly, Jacqueline: Sorry for tripping you on accident. - Dear Julia,

Kindly, Karen P.: sorry for all I did wrong in my life like being mean, but know I learned my lesson. - Dear God,

Kindly, Alexandra: I am so sorry for ever teasing you or being mean to you. I KINDly pledge to be a better friend. - Dear Rachel,

Kindly, Jenna Higgins: I am very sorry for all the drama we got in. I think that we could have gotten along much better. - Dear Mellissa,

Kindly, Malia: I’m really sorry for saying that your face gets red, but we're still BFFs! - Dear Jessie,

Kindly, Lauren: I’m sorry that I misjudged you and disagreed with you and called you names. - Dear Kyla,

Kindly, Brianna: I am sorry because I have called you names and insulted you a lot of times. - Dear Malia,

Kindly, Summer: I’m so so sorry for all the fights we have gotten in in the past that were over nothing. - Dear Shelby,

Kindly, Cassidy: I’m sorry for judging you and talking behind your back. You are so pretty and sweet and I hope we can be friends. - Dear Danica,

Kindly, Cass: I’m sorry for always giving you attitude and not being nice to you. I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings and make you cry. I love you. - Dear Mom,

Kindly, Julia.: I’m really sorry that I took my anger and pain out on you. I want to work on forgiving and accepting people. PS. This apology means a lot. - Dear Megan,

Kindly, Courtney Sherry: I'm sorry for being to harsh to you in elementary school when you never did anything to me. - Dear Brittney F,

Kindly, Sorry: I'm sorry to any girl I have ever lied to, hurt, put through any hard times because of me , or anyone I hurt without even realizing it. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Courtney Sherry: I apologize for letting our relationship slip away when I give you attitude for no reason. I love you. I’m sorry - Dear Daddy,

Kindly, Courtney Sherry: I apologize for getting mad at you for getting in my business when all you do is care. - Dear Mommy,

Kindly, Courtney Sherry: I apologize for jumping on the band wagon and leaving you out of the group when I never had a problem with you. - Dear Grace,

Kindly, Megan: I'm sorry for beating you up and getting all my friends to hate you too. I never meant to hurt you and I didn’t realize what I was doing so I am so sorry! I hope to see you guys again. I’m sorry. - Dear Kristen and Sam,

Kindly, Your best friend: I'm sorry for calling you terrible names. I shouldn't do that. You are one of the bravest people I know. - Dear Jazmin,

Kindly, Jennifer Salgado: I put you down and was part of the drama. I should of been there for you. I’m sorry - Dear Valiera,

Kindly, Cassidy: Sorry for giving you dirty looks and talking really bad about you. I dont even know you. - Dear Ashton,

Kindly, Julia Dewees: Im so sorry that as your teacher, I didn’t know what was going on. I kindly pledge to try not to let this happen in my classroom. I am so proud of you! - Dear Lauren,

Kindly, Lacey: Thank you for doing this for all of us. I think you have changed our lives. - Dear Kind Campaign,

Kindly, Jillian: Im sorry for calling u a loser and pooring water all over you I’m really sorry and I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.and I just wanted to let you know that I love u - Dear Mom,

Kindly, KF: I know I hurt you by doing why I did. It was selfish and stupid. When I look back I wish it never happened. He wasn't worth it and he never cared. I wish with all of my heart that you could apologize to me too, you hurt me so much. I am truly sorry and miss your friendship. I know you have moved on with your new friends but it is hard for me. Good luck in life. Please see that I am sorry. - Dear Ex Best Friend,

Kindly, You: I am sorry for forcing you to feel as though it was all your fault - it wasn't your fault, not at all. She was mean, she ostracized you, she made you believe the lies. You are beautiful and wonderful and intelligent. You will go far. I am truly sorry for allowing you to let those feelings follow you. I know you'll always feel the insecurities that have followed you because of her. Be strong, forgive her as much as you possible can. I’m sorry that I couldn't let you know then what you know now - you're better than that. - Dear Me,

Kindly, friends since 3rd grade: I am sorry for years of drama. It isn't entirely anyone's fault but I did contribute.. I am also sorry for telling you that it was okay and that I forgave you, I didn't and it has forced me to hold a grudge and over react at every tiny little thing you did. Although I don't act on my impulses anymore (I don't talk about you even though you think I still do) I will always have the unresolved feelings and I think it's too late to do anything about it... I am so so so so so sorry. I regret so many things and I am sure you do too. I love you and no matter what, we always will be friends because we can't live without each other! For every bad moment in our relationship there are 2 good ones. - Dear Jessica,

Kindly, NultDyervelry: I found this site using google.com And I want to thank you for your work. You have done really very good site. Great work, great site! Thank you! Sorry for offtopic - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Casey Luis: Sorry for stealing your wallet - Dear Mom,

Kindly, Violet: Im sorry for calling you gay and I know how much that hurt you. I only did it because I knew Kristin would beat me if I didnt. She gets happiness at others expense. - Dear Rafael,

Kindly, Robin \"fergy\': I know I was mean to you and was my exuse was that you were mean to be back(which you were) but I should have applogized and now we arent friends and I’m sad! I dont want to lose you after 5 years!! - Dear Lily,

Kindly, bean!: Im SOOOOOO sorry I kept the rumers going! I knew you wernt really pregnant I just wanted to have a "secret" nobody else knew! I know I hurt you and I want to stay friends! our friendship has slipped away and I intent to get it back! I love you! (in a best friend way!) - Dear bubbly,

Kindly, Bean: Im sorry for saying your a slut I know your not! I’m SOOO sorry I called you ugly and fat! You are acctually the most beutifel person I know and your skinny and I AH-DORE your hair! I was just jeluos and I am SOOO sorry! - Dear Darci,

Kindly, Bean: Sorry for spreading around you were anorexic and called you Paris Hilton! I know those things aren true and you are beautiful the way you are! - Dear Audra,

Kindly, Bean: Sorry for prank calling you and making you afraid to come to school! I ope we can be friends! I TRULY MEAN IT!!!!!! - Dear ____________,

Kindly, nene: i am sorry for all I did to u - Dear nana,

Kindly, jennifer: thanks for all your help . I’m sorry I didn’t belive you . - Dear ashly,

Kindly, Kylie.: I am sorry I kicked the soccer ball in your face. I was just trying to show off for Madi. I meant nothing by it and I am extremely remorseful for my thoughtless act. If in any way you can accept my apology I will be waiting with open arms. - Dear Nicki P.,

Kindly, Allyn: I'm sorry for calling you ugly. - Dear Amber,

Kindly, Mom...: I am so sorry I didn't know how to deal with the issues you were dealing with in school. It felt so familiar to my own experience as a teen and I was told I (they) would grow out of it. And that's the story I passed on to you. Truthfully, it does affect you for a lifetime, if you let it. But please don't. You are beautiful, gifted, talented, and intelligent young women. Don't ever believe otherwise. Anyone would be lucky to have you as friends. - Dear Tara and Sara,

Kindly, Amanda: Im really am sorry. I was so mean to you throughout school. There was no reason for it and I feel terrible. - Dear Sadie,

Kindly, Joy Roswell: I'm so sorry I stuffed your locker with heavy duty tampons after you started and everyone saw it. I’m sorry my insecurities made you quit school and go kill yourself. - Dear Lowrie Reniger,

Kindly, andrea: i am so sorry for the things I have said or the things I have watched. it wasnt right and I see it now that I am out of that circle of popular kids. I watched them bully you around and didn’t say anything so I could be popular and in a "popular" circle until I relized that they werent going to be the ones to stand up for me like my true friends would. the ones that were thier own circle. they werent popular but they were kind and I have finnaly found my "circle" - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, andrea: i am so sorry for the things I have said or the things I have watched. it wasnt right and I see it now that I am out of that circle of popular kids. I watched them bully you around and didn’t say anything so I could be popular and in a "popular" circle until I relized that they werent going to be the ones to stand up for me like my true friends would. the ones that were thier own circle. they werent popular but they were kind and I have finnaly found my "circle" - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Rachael P.: I am sorry for the things I have done to harm you. You are forever scarred for my actions. The scars on my arm and legs, aren't because I hate you. They are there because I hated myself. You aren't fat or ugly. You are beautiful and athletic. The things I heard those girls say to me didn't give me the right to harm you physically. I hope you forgive me for what I did. I can never take back the scars I gave you and I think about every day but tomorrow (January 11, 2009) will have been 6 months since I last harmed you and I don't plan on doing it again. Ever. - Dear My Body,

Kindly, Rachael P.: I am sorry for the things I have done to harm you. You are forever scarred for my actions. The scars on my arm and legs, aren't because I hate you. They are there because I hated myself. You aren't fat or ugly. You are beautiful and athletic. The things I heard those girls say to me didn't give me the right to harm you physically. I hope you forgive me for what I did. I can never take back the scars I gave you and I think about every day but tomorrow (January 11, 2009) will have been 6 months since I last harmed you and I don't plan on doing it again. Ever. - Dear My Body,

Kindly, Mary: I'm sorry I didn't cheer for you in the game. I just never get to play because you are so dominant and that sometimes makes me mad. It was nothing to get p-od about and I’m really, truly sorry - Dear Anna K.,

Kindly,: I'm sorry for ever saying or thinking anything mean about you. You are very kind and beautiful - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Ginna K: I'm sorry I called you ugly. You are my best friend and I didn't want you t think about suicide. You are precious and adorable! : ) - Dear Mary Catherine K.,

Kindly, M: I'm sorry I was angry to go to the meeting today. It turned out to be OK - Dear Mom,

Kindly, Alex S.: I am sorry for not standing up for you when you were being talked about badly. Being a bystander is just as bad as being the bully. You are such a great friend and a great person! - Dear Grace,

Kindly, maddie: i'm so sorry for putting you down-though many of you don't know it-i was just bored and uninterested in my own life, and found it fun to criticize yours. I’m no better than any of you. - Dear everyone,

Kindly, Grace: I am sorry that I did not understand what it was like to constantly be made fun of. I am sorry for doing nothing about it. I am sorry I got so fed up with being asked why I was friends with you that I distanced myself from you to stop the questions. I am especially sorry that most of my decisions to get away from you were because I thought he might like me better if I did. I am sorry for everything. I miss you. - Dear Kate,

Kindly, Shelby: I'm sorry I followed what my other friends were doing by hating you and calling you mean names. I have never had a problem with you. I pledge to start being nicer to you and to include you more. I love you and really want to become better friends despite what my other friends think. - Dear Ellie,

Kindly, Kara: I am truly sorry I talked bad about you behind your backs...to each other. I know we had that "confession session" in 4th grade and we apologized to each other, but I just need to make sure you guys know I’m sincerely sorry. I love you both so much. - Dear Michelle and Marilee,

Kindly, Carolyn: I am so sorry for saying that your face was oily and it was incredibly rude of me to say, and I was just upset that you had been talking about me behind my back even though that is no reason for me to respond with rude insults to you, and just shows how immature I can be - Dear Kimberly,

Kindly, Edward: I'm sorry for leaving you in fear and breaking your heart. I thought it was right for you to just forget all about me. I now know that it was not. I love you forever. - Dear Bella,

Kindly, Reagan R.: I am so sorry for taking yor pudding cup,making fun of your boobies and hitting you with a tennis racket when I was working on my back hand. I now know that I went to far....and crossed the line.___________ Thats the line... that I crossed. I am on a better side now because I am finally apologizing to you after 7 years of disappointment. But I am very sorry for that pudding cup, how could I resist.... it was swirl... you know how I like both flavors combined into one. Anyway I am sorry. - Dear Mary Catherine,

Kindly, Maddie: I am sorry for being mean to you in the third grade. And getting into all of those stupid fights!!!! And saying bad stuff about each other. I am so glad that we are friends now!!!!!!! - Dear Nika,

Kindly, Shadow/Cassie: I'm sorry I freaked out on you when we were testing each other. It wasn't right to say I hate you. I don't hate you. - Dear Kimmi,

Kindly, sissy: I love you and you're my sister. And I know that its not right that we fight. I love you - Dear Katie,

Kindly, Maddie: sorry for gossiping about you when I have plenty of my own insecurities. I’m no better than you and I hope you know that I know that. - Dear everyone,

Kindly, Lauren: Sorry for talking bad about you and leaving your party - Dear Amy,

Kindly, Victoria: Im sorry I didn’t invite you over in 2nd grade. - Dear Dominuique,

Kindly,: Im sorry I ran away from you when you invited me over in 4th grade. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Alex: I apologize for talking bad about you behind your back and not standing up for you when Abby yells as you. - Dear Kristy,

Kindly, Leah: Im so sorry for having all that drama in 7th grade and saying I didn't want to be your friend and letting other people influence me into saying mean things to you. I know were friends now, but I will alway be sorry for what I did. All those fights over nothing. I’m so sorry. - Dear Yoonji,

Kindly, caytlin:): im sorry that I spelled your name wrong :( cytlain I think and that I ignored you alot SOERRY:) - Dear catelain,

Kindly, Stephanie: I'm sorry if I ever did or said anything mean. I DON'T mean it, and I definitely don't mean to hurt you in anyway, you guys are what I have. I love you man - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, A: I'm really sorry about yelling at you and kicking you out of my room on New Years. It was uncalled for and not nice. I hope we can move on from that and still be friends, LOVE YOU! - Dear Gayle,

Kindly, Kayla: I am really sorry that we fought they way we did. I wish that I could have taken it all back, and that we were still the best of friends that we used to be. I still love you, and I wish nothing but the best for you! - Dear Past Best Friend,

Kindly, Myself.: I'm sorry for always feeling down. I’m sorry for constantly putting myself down. I’m sorry for constantly spending hours crying over worthless words that should have meant nothing. - Dear Myself,

Kindly, cindy huch: I'm sorry for being mean to you when you did not deserve it. I was heated with fire. My bad. Can you forgive me please that special someone? love - Dear SOMEONE,

Kindly, cindy huch: I'm sorry for being mean to you when you did not deserve it. I was heated with fire. My bad. Can you forgive me please that special someone? love - Dear SOMEONE,

Kindly, tay: I'm sorry, I didn't want you to come to the Jonas concert with me & that I was going to take my other friend. - Dear Robyn,

Kindly, Anonymous: My own insecurities has led me to hurting other girls feelings, and making their personality go away. I’m so sorry for all the people i've hurt and is willing to make up for everything, in one way or another. I know my actions are to big to forgive. But I know that I have learned a valuable lesson. Be Kind. - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, Alhia: i am sorry for all I have done to you. I do not mean to poison your mind with thoughts of the end.....i wish for help...for you but help is hard to find.....i will find help soon though I promise. - Dear myself,

Kindly, Me.: I'm sorry I haven't been here mentally to hold all the positive emotions I want to feel. I’m sorry I've been caught up in my own world of self-hate and insecurities. I’m sorry I’m not living up to my full potential. I’m sorry I’m not better at what it is you all want me to be, and that is my old confident self. I’m sorry to those who I have let down in the past, or recent past. I’m sorry to those friends whose bridge to friendship I've burned through self-pity and negative thoughts. I’m sorry to say that the puddle seething with negative emotions sometimes overflows into your beautifully sculpted fountains of positive emotions. I’m sorry I've belittled myself so that I become a person even I don't recognize. I’m sorry that even after all of this I still loathe myself. And most of all, I’m sorry that, even after realizing how much my negativity rubs off on people, I’m still not ready to change. But I am aware. And I’m sorry that this is not the final apology, but rather the apology to those whom I have outwardly hurt, and it is also my apology to myself to say that because I will no longer let my negativity effect others, I am going to have to grow up to accept the person I am and give off a positive glow I know I am capable of exuding, eventually... - Dear Friends,

Kindly, D: I'm sorry I said I didn't want to be your friend way back in High School. You were immediately devastated and I took back my statement but I imagine you never forgot. I immediately felt bad. I was an insecure twerp myself. Not to excuse my behavior but maybe to explain it. I'll never forget what I did - it's a scar on my soul and I’m so sorry. - Dear Donna,

Kindly, Jordan: im so sorry I was such a bitch. I never ment to hurt anyone. I was just going along with what all my so called friends were doing. I’m sorry I didn’t have my own mind. I’m sorry mom, that I’m not the perffect daughter you wanted. I’m sorry dad, for being to depressed to be there when you needed me. I’m sorry sister, for you to have to watch what I’m going through and have to think thats what you have to look forward to when you grow up. I’m sorry the rest of my family for having to vent to you because I had no one else. I’m sorry girls that ivve hurt. that wasnt the real me, because the real me, couldnt hurt a fly. I’m sorry everyone for talking behind backs. & I’m sorry **** for always ditching you. I’m so so sorry// - Dear everyone,

Kindly, Lola: I'm sorry you were a bear that had no hair. I love you so much Mr. Wuzzy, and I’m sorry that I made fun of your male pattern baldness. - Dear Fuzzy Wuzzy

Kindly, Linds: I'm sorry for being so mean to you in middle school. We were such good friends in sixth grade, but then once we started to like the same guy it all changed. I’m sorry for putting a guy between our friendship. I’m so glad we're friends again and I promise to never let a guy come before you again. Bros before Hoes - Dear Nicky

Kindly, Molly: I am sorry for drifting apart. I know it was my fault, that I found new friends, but I am terribly sorry. - Dear Natasha

Kindly, Lauren: I'm sorry for hurting myself and not believing that you loved me the way you all did. I wouldve never pulled through without you guys. - Dear friends,

Kindly, ex jerk friend.: im sorry for publicly making fun of your facial blemishes, and your name. when we were in middle school. I thought I was being cool and funny, but I was being a disgusting, arrogant, ignorant jerk. its been almost 10 years since then, and I still feel ashamed of myself. I wish I could take it all back, or at least go back in time and punch myself in the face. - Dear old ex friend,

Kindly, YJ & MZ: i'm very sorry that you didn't realize that the snake we put in your locker was real. I never thought you would pick it up and wear it as a necklace. I’m really sorry that you died after it bit you. we didn't know it was poisenous, either. RIP - Dear Maggie Taylor,

Kindly, Mikah Zapert: I'm sorry I was an awful teacher. I know you have a hard year ahead of you, and I did not prepare you at all. I also had no idea you all would fail TAKS. Once again, I am very sorry. - Dear Class of 2014,

Kindly, sophies friend: im sorry I was so mean on facebook. I was mad and I took it out on you. I was a meanie and I’m sorry. - Dear makena,

Kindly, megeActiste: Greetings I am new to this board I hope I will be able to help out and give something back here because I have learned a huge amount myself. Cheers web design essex - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Me: I am sorry for every unkind word that I have spoken, anything that has ever hurt your feelings or anytime, that I have put you down in order to put me up. I am trying to be better at thinking of others before myself and lifting people up instead of tearing them down. - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, Honey P: Im sorry we've drifted apart. I’m sorry ive changed and we arent friends anymore. I’m sorry I talked badly about you, and then turned around and hung out with you. I’m sorry I made fun of you one day when I was doing your makeup. I’m sorry I’m not like you. I’m sorry we dont like the same things. I’m sorry if you feel that I dont like you. I’m sorry for telling you a guy will come, when I have no idea if he will. I’m sorry. - Dear Jenna,

Kindly, AppogueQuetle: Hey I’m new on this board I hope I will be able to help and give something back here because iv learned allot myself. Thanks Learn Violin - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, K: I'm sorry my insecurities and selfishness caused me to act in a mean way. I’m sorry I gossiped and talked smack about you. - Dear Women I\'ve Worked With,,

Kindly, Anna: im sorry that I have talked bad about girls even after taking a part in this campaign. this campaign that I believe in and pray works oneday. The only way I can get that dream to work is if I too be kind - Dear everyone,

Kindly, Bobbi Young: i apologize if I said or done anything to hurt you or make you feel bad in anyway and I plan to make things better and change how Girls Treat one another - Dear Everyone,

Your Name: i apologize if I said or done anything to hurt you or make you feel bad in anyway and I plan to make things better and change how Girls Treat one another - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, Shannon: I am truly sorry if I have ever hurt you in any way at any point in time. I know I was mean at times in high school, and to those I hurt I am especially sorry. It's time to come together and put a hault to girl-on-girl bullying and spread the KINDness. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, CARMELA WILDER: I don't believe I have seen this depicted in such a way before. You actually have made this so much clearer for me. Thank you! - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, JAYLA: I'M SORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRYYYYYYYYYYYY - Dear NYHEIM,

Kindly, Me: I am sorry for everything I have done. - Dear You,

Kindly, Ashley: I am sorry for anything that I have ever done in my life that has hurt you. I love you. - Dear Family and Friends,

Kindly, E: I'm sorry I’m mean to you just to go along with the flow, you are beautiful and I love you! - Dear J,

Kindly, KBG.: I'm sorry for anything I have done to hurt you. Whether it was done purposely, or accidentally, consciously or unconsciously. I’m sorry. - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, Natalie: You are my best friend and have been since Pre-K. I am sorry I almost ruined our friendship over the stupid aspect of popularity. Thank you for forgiving me. I am so glad I still have you to lean on. - Dear Brooke,

Kindly, Courtney: i'm sorry for the way I handled the whole issue. We both made mistakes but I should've been the bigger person and either not said anything at all, or atleast have chosen my words better. I let my anger and insecurities get the best of me. I should've been stronger than that..you were just trying to be a good friend and defend yourself. - Dear you,

Kindly, Courtney: i'm sorry for the way I handled the whole issue. We both made mistakes but I should've been the bigger person and either not said anything at all, or atleast have chosen my words better. I let my anger and insecurities get the best of me. I should've been stronger than that..you were just trying to be a good friend and defend yourself. - Dear you,

Kindly, dpk: i am sorry we laughed at you and so sorry about the brick. it has haunted me since. - Dear girl in chatsworth 1978is,

Kindly, Tiffany J.: I'm sorry I flirted with and then stole your boyfriend 10 years ago in High school. It was rude and inappropriate of me to do so. I deeply regret my actions and hope you can forgive me. We've been married now for 4 years and have 2 kids. He beats them both. - Dear Hannah,

Kindly, Uni-brow: I feel small around you but I’m sorry I think mean things about you, just to make myself feel less threatened. - Dear Pretty and Skinny girls,

Kindly, kelly: im sorry for telling you I was going to kill myself. I’m not. - Dear mom,

Kindly, Lauren A: I am truly sorry for the gossip, unkind words, and mean spirited actions in school. Now that I am older I realize that I was projecting all of my insecurities and self hatred onto you. I hope that my actions caused by my own issues did not leave you with any lingering scars. If so, I pray that you will heal. I would take it all back if I could. God Bless. - Dear too many,

Kindly, me: i'm so sorry for what happened in middle school. though its been 10 years and we're friends, I know it still hurts you and probably always will. I am so sorry that I can never erase it. - Dear c,

Kindly, m: there was a day when we were 4 years old that I pretended to befriend you so that the other kids could jump out from behind a tree and scare you and chase you away. I haven't seen you in 20 years and don't know anything about you, and you may not even remember that day... but I haven't forgotten how confused and upset you were and I am so sorry. - Dear amanda,

Kindly, Gillian: I'm sorry that I said that you should just back off because I will tell the principle and maybe I'll Tell your mom. I realize that that was wrong and I’m really sorry. - Dear helana,

Kindly, Madi: I'm Sorry for calling you a bitch. I didn't mean it and hope we can be better friends in 7th grade. - Dear Tiffany,

Kindly, rachel: im sorry that something happened between us, we were soooo close and I dont know what happened. I feel whatever it was was my fault and I’m so sorry that I did something to make you feel hostile towards me - Dear michaela,

Kindly, baybie: i very sorry what I have done to you .. I will study hard and hear what teacher is teaching.. love you s0o much ..! - Dear mum,

Kindly, Manda: I'm sorry for everything that has happened. I’m sorry that it destroyed our friendship. I miss you. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Gillian: i'm sorry that I said I hate you and I wish that I didn't have a sister - Dear Madi,

Kindly, tyfani: i am sorry for calling you names and then lying about it to your face I really hope that you can forgive me one day but I just wanted to apologize for calling you shamoo. - Dear Amber,

Kindly, R: Sorry for sleeping with Bailey. - Dear V,

Kindly, sara rodriguez: im sorry for hurting you. - Dear anyone whos affected,

Kindly, H: I'm sorry that I trashed you for years because of my jealousy. - Dear L,

Kindly, latina escorts: Truly great blog to read it to my mind. BTW, why haven't you you send that article to social bookmarking sites? That might bring much traffic to this page. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Sandy: I am deeply sorry for making fun of your new glasses. - Dear Kelly,

Kindly, lp: I'm sorry we all split up. I hope I didn't say anything mean. I don't remember. I've missed you guys. - Dear All you guys,

Kindly, Sarah.: I'm so sorry I said you should never have had your long hair cut. I was just jealous of how great you looked with it short. - Dear Christine,

Kindly, A.: I am sorry for all the jokes I have made about you and to you. I’m sorry that some of my jokes may have hurt you and most of all I am sorry that I use you as vehicle to make others laugh at the expense of your self esteem. - Dear Jenna,,

Kindly, Abby.: I am sorry for every nasty word I said, every nasty thing I did, every nasty thing I let others do. I am sorry that I get too wrapped up in myself. I’m sorry. - Dear Everyone.,

Kindly, Amy: I am sorry for humiliating you and running you out of town after you fucked my boyfriend. I understand it takes two. He was my boyfriend, you were my friend. I did not know how to control my emotions or anger at the both of you. I took most my anger out on you and your belongings. When I look back now, I feel silly and childish. I was and am, far above the level the two of you were at. I should of rose above and moved on. For destroying your reputation and donating all your belonging to charity on your behalf, I am sorry. - Dear Danielle,

Kindly, laurie: i am sorry I pushed you away when all you wanted to do was help me. more importantly thank you for never leaving me. I am so lucky I love you. - Dear all my gfs,

Kindly, Camila: Sorry if I ever did or said anything that might have affected you emotionally, mentally, or physically. - Dear girl,

Kindly, Kelsey: I'm sorry for saying mean things to you Freshman year, I was upset and didn't mean it, I’m sorry. - Dear Taylor,

Kindly, Madison Chandler: I apologize for everything I've ever said about you. I know it was really wrong and I hope you can forgive me. - Dear Amanda,

Kindly, Catherine: I apologize for not being able to admit when I was wrong, to give you the feeling that you were inferior. You mean more to me than you will ever know. - Dear Matt,

Kindly, Nikki: You're my sister and I love you with all my heart and idk why I’m so mean to you sometimes. - Dear Lexie,

Kindly, Hannah Rose: I'm sorry for everything. I am sorry at times I would turn the classroom around on you. - Dear Zack G.,

Kindly, Ashley: I'm so sorry for spreading a rumor about you in middle school. I feel so horrible and can't believe how kind hearted you are to still be my best friend. You are the best person in my life. - Dear my best friend,

Kindly, Richard: I'm sorry for saying something just to be mean or clever, just because the best defense is an offense. - Dear Everyone I\'ve Ever Hurt,

Kindly, Your \"baby\": I'm sorry for everything negative I've done to you. Counseling will help us and we will rule the world like we dreamed a year and a half ago. Thank you for taking me back. I am so sorry. I love you. - Dear \"Boo\",

Kindly, Ashley: Sorry that I was always mean to you when we were kids. You got to live with both your parents and I only got to live with one, so I was jealous and angry. I understand now that it did not have anything to do with you. But I had no one to take it out on, so whenever I would come to visit I would direct my frustration of not getting to have our father in my life like you did, on you. For that, I’m sorry. - Dear my 3 younger half sisters,

Kindly, A: I am truly and deeply sorry for the pain I put you through, for the scars that show on your wrists and for the way I made you feel inferior. I am sorry that I wanted out and tried, too. I am sorry for the long stretches of time without food. I apologize for the lack of confidence I had in you. You are beautiful the way you are. - Dear body,

Kindly, A: I am so sorry I stood around and let them all hurt you. - Dear a,

Kindly, Brittany Maree: I'm sorry for everything mean that I have said. The only reason I say it is because it is easier to be mean to some one than to be nice. Once again, I’m very sorry. - Dear Everyone,,

Kindly, NBH: I did not mean it at all. And with much love I am sorry. Please forgive me. U promise it will never ever happen again. - Dear If I ever hurt you,

Kindly, Mae: You truly are my best friend in the world. I love you to bits and pieces. And that is why I’m so sorry I hit you when you told me you were cuttting. I had no idea what you were going through. And it kills me because a year later when you found out I was cutting you were the sweetest person in the world to me. I wish I had understood what you were going through,or better yet, I wish it hadn't happened to you. I will always love you. Until the end of time. - Dear Sarah,

Kindly, Anon.: Im sorry for not judging you. - Dear Ashleigh,

Kindly, A: I'm sorry for not wanting to be friends anymore because of my own insecurities - Dear E and B,

Kindly, Rose: I am sorry that I took out my frustration on you when you were just trying to do your job. I feel bad about it all the time. I contemplate calling you just to apologize. Although I haven't seen you in almost two years, I secretly wish I would run into you somewhere so I won't have any excuse for not apologizing. I hope you can forgive me one day... - Dear Kathy,

Kindly, Ashley: I am sorry I went with the crowd and made fun of you to fit in. I should have stuck up for you. I truly hate myself for not having the courage to do that. - Dear Cindy,

Kindly, April: I'm sorry that I never knew what was really going on. I’m sorry that I never stopped him. I’m sorry that I never told. - Dear Dear Beckie,

Kindly, libby: im sorry for having the bad memories implanted in your head for life. the tears, the painful thoughts, the strain on your heart. I’m sorry in the sixth grade I didn’t do anything to stop the hurt and mutilation done to your external and internal self. I’m sorry I never apologized sooner for the pain and trauma you have had to face. - Dear future self,

Kindly, Layla: Im sorry for being so rude to u, I’m sorry for embarrising u in class. I’m sorry for all the rude things I said. Plz if u read tiz, plz email me at 4LACY4@gmail.com. plz. I’m so so so sorry. I didint think that one thing kould ruin a whole friendship. I didn’t think that it would cause so much drama, and hatred. I’m sorry. :( - Dear Irene,

Kindly, Emma: I'm sorry for never being kind to you in elementry school. I have always wished I could have the strenght to apologize to you. You are such a beautiful, talented person and I wish more people could see that :) - Dear Marlisa,

Kindly, Aly: They alwasy left you out, always picked on you and told you lies. I never included you, never stood up for you and never told you the truth. Always doing wrong actions is the same as never doing right ones. I’m so sorry. I hope with every ounce of my heart high schools better for you. - Dear Caroline,

Kindly, BFF: I Will Try Never To Hurt You We Have Been Friends For Ever And I Love You Your Like The Big Sister I Never Had I Hope Theres Many More Years Of Friendship For Us!!! - Dear Best Friend,

Kindly, your BFF: I'm sorry for all the times I was unkind! I will be a kinder BFF from now on with the help of the kind campaign! - Dear Ellen,

Kindly: In elementary school, I was caught up in a fight with my three best friends. Two of them were ganging up on the third for no other reason than that she had a low self-esteem and wouldn't stand up for herself. I was much stronger than she was and could have taken that fight on for her, but I did nothing and let her drift away from us. So Jessy, I’m so sorry. I wish now I had stood up for you so and didn't let you feel like you were so alone, because you never were. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, your baby: i am sorry for the games I played. - Dear \"em\",

Kindly, Brandie Jo: I'm sorry for all the times I have ruined your day or hurt you in some way. I love you and I never want to lose you. - Dear Kathy,

Kindly, Jessica Mordan: I'm sorry for thinking bad thoughts about you because I am insecure about myself. I WILL BE BETTER! - Dear All Girls,

Kindly, Anna: Sorry for going behind your back and leaving you there!! And mixing your hair dye. - Dear Amber,

Kindly, Megan: I'm sorry for trying to fight oyu over a stupid guy, he was never worth it. Youre a good person. - Dear Krista,

Kindly, Brittany Ring: I'm sorry for anything I have EVER said to hurt you or put you down, I know how it feels and it makes me feel horrible to think about what I have done. For that I am deeply and truly sorry. - Dear Anyone I have ever hurt,

Kindly, Jody Fulmer: I'm sorry for treating you like you weren't good enough. You are. - Dear Stormie Bradshaw,

Kindly, Kristen S.: I've said some pretty nasty things about you. So, whether you know it or not, I’m sorry. - Dear Lisa,

Kindly, Sarah: Sorry for not being enough time with you, and trying to get away from you. I promisse I'll try to hang out more with yall and not all the time with my boyfriend. I’m sorry... - Dear Best Friends,

Kindly, yummy: i'm sorry you are a stone cold bitch and I told evryoe u chooked up with shep. ok. be - Dear sammy,

Kindly, Mark Prime: I am sorry for my contribution, no matter how slight, to that (noise) which would destroy you. - Dear Goodness,

Kindly, Your BFF, Kass: I am so sorry that I don't spend alot of time with you or pay attention to you as much as I do for Justin. I promise I'll make more time for you in my day. I’m SOO SORRY!!! - Dear Megan,

Kindly, Liz: I'm sorry that, in response to your actions, I changed the type of person that I am by being rude and talking behind your back. I know better. Sorry. - Dear Paige,

Kindly, s: I'm so sorry when I ever said anything negatve. I just feel like crap that when I thought about everything ive said in my head about u, even if I didn’t say it aloud. - Dear M,

Kindly, yourself: i'm sorry about everything that has happened to you in the past. leave all of it in a never visited part of your life. don't worry about what people say and do to you.us there's always someone to talk to. - Dear megan,

Kindly, Amy P: I'm sorry I left you for other friends. You were always a true friend to me, and the only one I've ever had. It was my loss, and I think about you from time to time, wishing I wasn't so stupid back then. I really hope your life is and will be amazing, because you deserve it the most. - Dear Shauna R,

Kindly, youself!: I want to apologize for everything that you went through in highschool. Nothing was yourfault and I am happy that after years of abuse and people making fun of you and being mean to you, you are as strong as you are. I love you and I love who you have become! - Dear Saamantha,

Kindly, Michelle: I know now that in high school you had an eating disorder. I apologize for spreading rumors that you were pregnant and that's why you disappeared during junior year and returned senior year. I apologize for making your life harder than it needed to be. I apologize for not understanding, or even trying to understand, what you were going through. I apologize for finding your ED blog and spreading it around school. I apologize for hurting you. - Dear Rachel,

Kindly, Nina: Sorry I blamed you. - Dear Laura,

Kindly, A.D: I have messed up. I screwed up big time. I said mean things about you, and I shouldn't have. I hated your guts because I was jealous, and I had no reason to ditch you like I did. - Dear Girl,

Kindly, b: I am sorry that your insecurities led you to not value our friendship and for you to take that out on me by way of back-handed compliments that made me feel insecure about myself for years. I forgive you for your actions and hope that you have been able to evolve. I realize now that it was never about me and luckily, have been able to find my voice and love myself. - Dear CPie,

Kindly, Patsy: Sorry we were all so mean to you when you were younger. You did nothing to deserve our meaness. - Dear Renee,

Kindly, ga: i am sorry for the way that I have treated you. I took advantage of your kindness and bullied you because you let me. now we rarely talk because you are standing up for yourself. you are a beautiful person and I’m so sorry for any grief I have caused you. you have always been kind to me and you deserve better. I love you. - Dear ss,

Kindly, Liz: I am sorry I slept with him. I am sorry I lied. You didn't deserve it, and in some ways I’m glad that you've cut us out of your life. But mostly, I miss you. I love you. - Dear Love,

Kindly, l: I'm sorry that life at home wasn't right for me. I left for me, not because of you. And Shelby- I’m sorry for taking you for granted. I’m sorry that I lost all faith in you as a friend. I admire you and all you've done. And though I know now that our friendship has long since been drained of all it was worth, I know that you'll do amazing things with the life you've been given. - Dear old friends,

Kindly, Your Friend: Sorry we all give you such a hard time. I love you and you are great! I know we talk about you a lot and judge you, but I don't realize how much it hurts you. Sorry. - Dear Sara,

Kindly, Annie: Sorry we treated you badly because you were different. Your life is so much harder than all of ours. I feel terribly about it. God bless you. - Dear Stephanie,

Kindly, stephanie: im sorry I made you feel insecure. I never thought of him as more than a friend, and I’m sorry that he let you think otherwise. when I found out what he was doing, I stopped hanging out with him, and I wish you didn't think I was that type of girl, because every time I see you I can tell you hate me, but I don't know how to tell you, I would never have done that, because I know how bad it hurts. - Dear katy,

Kindly, Molly: I'm sorry I've turned against you when I thought I could be someone else. I’m sorry I've let others ruin you & break you apart. I’m sorry I've opened up too much & let others eat you away. I’m sorry I haven't healed you yet, it takes time. I’m sorry for treating you like someone else. From now on, I'll try and understand that being yourself in a world where everyone wants you to be someone else; is true strength. I can make it. I'll fix you. - Dear My Heart,

Kindly, baby: I am sorry I played games. I am sorry I let my friends convince me you were wrong. - Dear em,

Kindly, Alice: Im sorry for never giving you a chance, for hurting you and the name calling. And more than anything- I’m osrry it affected me so little that I don't even remember your name. - Dear you,

Kindly, E: I'm sorry that sometimes I get mad at you even when your just trying to help me. - Dear M,

Kindly, Joi: I'm sorry I let people walk all over you. I’m sorry I tryed to be someone I wasn't. I’m sorry I didn't stick up for you. I will fix eveything by believing in you and sticking up for you. - Dear me,

Kindly, E: I'm sorry I told those lies and portrayed you as such a horrible person. The truth is, I envy you and would never want to hurt you. I would give anything to make things right. I wish you the best - Dear MM,

Kindly, ur fav girl: i'm sorry that I thought u were a girl when I first heard u on the radio but now I luv u - Dear justin bieber,

Kindly, Debi: I'm sorry I told your fiance about the drugs and sex. I was afraid to talk to you directly. - Dear Gay,

Kindly, from afar: I am so sorry that I was comparing myself to you. - Dear Rona,

Kindly, N: I am sorry I let you do the stuff you do that I know is going to hurt you. I am sorry your are raised by people who treat you like they do. I am sorry I do the same stuff as you instead of guiding us back on the right path. I am sorry I will not ever tell this to your face, because I do not have the courage. I am sorry I told people your secrets. I am sorry that I get jealous of you and hate you at times. - Dear L,

Kindly, N: I am sorry for telling people about your eating disorder, even though you may not know that I did yet. - Dear A,

Kindly, me: I am sorry I struggle with keeping you from making bad decisions. I am sorry I don't have the strength to be happy sometimes. I am sorry that I do stuff for attention. I am sorry you never feel confident in yourself for very long. I am sorry you lie to people. - Dear me,

Kindly, Emily: I am sorry that I ignored you for such a long time I don't know why I did it's just that you left me for the people who think that they're popular. I don't know why you did but I’m sorry that I was ever mean to you - Dear Jade,

Kindly, rach: i'm sorry for doing things that I know hurt you. I can say what I want to justify myself but there's no excuse for my actions. you are one of my best friends. I love you so much and I never want to lose you for anything. - Dear nat,

Kindly: im really sorry for doing a bad job keeping our secret last summer. I love you - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, le: i'm sorry for trying to hold you back when you had told me you wanted to be friends with your old friends. I could feel myself losing you and we had shared so much I didn't want you out of my life. I see now that you're happier with them and are still good friends with me. I’m sorry for not trusting you. - Dear mary,

Kindly, Sarah: I am sorry I called you fat, ugly, or anything else to put you down. I am sorry I thouht just because you were my friend I could say anything no matter how mean and expect you to take it as a joke. I’m sorry I saw you having a bad day and just walked away. I am sorry I ganged up on you just because my friends were doing it even though I had no right in that situation. I am sorry that I took my anger out on you because of what was happening to me. I am sorry if I caused you to have thoughts of suicide because I know what those feel like. I am sorry if I excluded you or hurt your feeling. I am sorry I was mad at you because the guy I liked you liked you more. I am sorry I turned my back on you. I am sorry I lied to you! I am sorry I got your hopes up just to laugh when you fell. I am sorry for so many things and I could just keep writing this... I wish I could take back everything I ever have done: the fighting, the rumors, the lies, the jealousy, and especially the lost friendships... I will remember you all forever and always. - Dear Anyone,

Kindly, me: I'm sorry if I ever put you down or made you feel left out. I try not to but sometimes I cant help it. I am trying to not do these things and I am getting better but I’m SORRY!!!! - Dear ANYONE,

Kindly, Cera: I'm sorry about middle school. I was a brat, and we were brats and we were really mean to you. I see that now. I hope you forgive me someday. - Dear Sarah,

Kindly, DNPOHH: i'm sorry for everything! all of the bad talk, all of the rude jokes that you may not have taken as jokes, the mean words, the judging, the ignoring, the rudeness, and many more things that would make this oh-so long. But the most important thing I am sorry for is me. I am so sorry for everything and anything I ever did to you, directly or not.I am sorry for having thoughts of suicide because I felt bad afterwords but not bad enough to apologize to your faces. I am sorry I won have the strength to do this in person. I am sorry if I never helped you when I should have. I am sorry I get jealous or angry of you. This isn't your fault, it's all mine. None of this is your fault, this is all on me, and I am sorry. I’m also sorry for everything I have ever done and I wish I could take it all back, but I know I cant. I am sorry that I can't take it back. I am sorry for hurting our friendships and making you feel bad, trust me I never intentionally thought of doing that. I am sorry for not realizing earlier I needed to apologize. Mostly I am sorry because you dont deserve any of the crap I give you, yet you still put up with me. I’m SORRY!!! - Dear Friends!,

Kindly: I am sorry. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Khadijah: I am truly sorry for causing you pain. I really hope that even if I never see you again in my life, I hope that one day you can forgive me. In middle school,I am sorry for spreading rumors and causing drama. I wish that I could re-do all of it! In elementary school, I am sorry for not being friends with everyone. I feel bad for the people that I singled out to be mean to. In high school,which I have just recently started, I am sorry for anything that I did wrong! Overall, I am sorry and hope that I will someday be forgiven by all of the people that I have affected badly - Dear the people I have hurt,

Kindly, AF: I am so sorry I doubted your friendship with her. She is so insanely nice and I promise that I will never doubt your decisions again and that I will get to know her better, as I promised a while back! - Dear ML,

Kindly, ur frend ml: i'm sorry after the memorable year of being your friend and after our trust exercises that when the new girl came into ur life I though she'd take over. the only that took over was my jealousy and it caused a lot of pain to the both of us. I never really got a chance to really tell you I’m sorry.... mostly cos we never got around to talking about the time we had our hugemongous fight. but I’m still sorry. though I’m glad it happened because I feel like we're tighter than before - Dear my frend af,

Kindly, jenny: I'm sorry that even in our mid twenty's we still face the same issues/fights as middle school girls. It's sad that our stubbornness has gotten the best of us and we still haven't talked after 10 months- over something so stupid! it hurts my heart that you won't be at my wedding.... - Dear a

Kindly, a friend: I am sorry for ever judging you in any way. I am sorry for talking about you behind your back. I’m sorry for calling you names that don't have a positive meaning at all. I am sorry for anything I ever did to make you hate me in any way. I’m hoping this year we can start fresh. - Dear \"those girls\",

Kindly, \"that\" girl: I am so sorry that I said those things about you. I truly am... and to be honest, I did have that thought in my mind that what I was saying was wrong, but I did nothing about it. I hope you can find it in your hearts to forgive me. But of course if you can't, I completely understand. Hope that one day this fresh start can turn into a new friendship(s). - Dear anyone and everyone,

Kindly, me: im sorry I spread rumors about you. I’m sorry I have been so mean. but dont u think I did it for a reason? I’m just asking for you to be nice, and I hope you do it in return. - Dear casey,

Kindly, Rumors: I'm sorry for the hate i've put you through, I’m sorry for the tears you've shed, I am sorry for the wrists having bled, Dont worry, you'll get through it, just keep pushing and pushing till you find that light, till you find that inspiration, hope, find hope. - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, MaryGrace: I am sorry that I yelled at you for stealing my food and touching it then giving it to you. - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, KN: I love you and I’m sorry for what I wrote on the truth wall. You are my best friend and thats not going to change! I shouldn't have posted that under ANY circumstances and I shouldn't have said anything to other people. You are seriously like a sister to me and I couldn't live without you in my life! I truly am completely and sincerely sorry and I hope that you don't hate me. - Dear KR,

Kindly, your current bestie :): i am so sorry how in seventh grade I was part of the group who thought you were annoying. I was so wrong and I knew it all along I just wanted to be friends with those girls that I lost sight of how much you mean to me! just remember I always love and cherish our friendship!!! - Dear ellie,

Kindly, ann-margaret: please forgive me for being mean to you when I first met you. I know we have joked around about it and everything but I've never actually apologized. you are my best friend and I love you like a sister!!! you are beautiful and SHOO freaking funny. I hope that you can forgive me for being stupid and trying to "fit in" with Italian....i'm really sorry. Sylas. - Dear greg,

Kindly, me: i am so sorry that I am hurt because of a minor detail. I hope that you will not change your views of me based on it. I am so happy for you and I want you to be aware of that. I am really concerned that you will not understand that I've wanted this for so long. please don't think you took this from me, someone else did. you deserve it. - Dear you,

Kindly, Older You: I'm sorry for not realizing how beautiful you were then. I’m sorry for all of the suicide attempts and all the tears shed over stupid things. I’m sorry for waking up every morning with a beautiful outfit in mind, then changing it to a baggy sweatshirt because I thought you were fat. I’m sorry I couldn't let you see the light that was there and for dragging you down in pain and torture. I’m sorry... - Dear Younger Me,

Kindly, ;): I'm sorry I decided to hate you for no reason. I’m sorry I deliberately tried to make your life miserable for a year. I’m sorry for the things I said to you and the things I called you. I’m sorry I hurt you. Thank you for forgiving me for my actions. Thank you for letting me be your friend. Thank you for dealing with me and all that we've been through. I know you were kidding when you mentioned this apology, but you deserve one. - Dear Julie,

Kindly, Ritty: Sorry for not eating the food you gave me when I was younger. I shouldn't ever tried to be like the other thin and rich girls... Now I know that being anorectic isn't the solution, now I know that I should love myself the way I am. - Dear Mommy,

Kindly, Erica: I am sorry that we are such vicious people. I’m sorry that we don't all always get along. And I’m sorry that we do things to each other just to be mean and to destroy each other. We're better people than that. And I hope that we can overcome this and create a new life for young girls. - Dear every girl,

Kindly, Meghan: I am very sorry that I have seemed more distant this semester. I still love you both very much and you are still my very best friends. - Dear Catie and Erin,

Kindly, Margaret: Sorry I hate you. I’m just jealous. - Dear COURTANDNIC,

Kindly, your SISTER: I am sorry for the things I do that hurt you. I know you want me to just be your sister and I haven't been too sisterly. I’m also sorry that you are going up in such a cruel world known as high school. Keep your head up. you'll get through it. - Dear blood sister,

Kindly, Elyse: I am sorry for all the times I have been rude to you. Smart remarks, name calling, picking on you. I love you two so much and I would do anything for you - Dear Sisters,,

Kindly, Shannon: You are a pretty girl. Stop holding yourself down and being depressed.Im your Sister and I care, so pleaase stop being jelous. - Dear Ally,

Kindly, Me: I am so sorry for the words I have said...i said them to make myself feel better by putting you down. I once was put down so often and I promised myself I would never do that to someone else and here I am doing it. - Dear everyone

Kindly, Lisa: I'm sorry for not always being the best friend I could have been to you. You truly are an amazing & strong person. You are beautiful, inside & out. You are my role model, I mean that. We aren't as close as we used to be but I will always consider you one of my good friends because you are, & waay more than that. Whenever I hug you I start to cry. Not because of any other reason than love. I love you more than you'll ever know. I know you won't ever see this but I don’t need you to, it's what you deserve. You are my best friend. You’ve always been there for me. & I’ll always be here for you. You've given me something to be happy about. You gave me the meaning of what it's like to know that someone actually cares & have a real friend. You mean the world to me- I love you, more than you'll ever know. I’m sorry if I haven't shown you enough or ever hurt you in any way. I love you so much. - Dear Ellie Murphy,

Kindly, Lew: I'm sorry for the rude comment I made. I’m sorry for not thinking about your feelings. I’m sorry that you were hurt. You are a good person and despite all of our disagreements, I still care about you. I still want everything to work out for you. I want you to be happy. - Dear Cal

Kindly, me :): i am SO sorry for judging you, criticizing you and speaking badly of you. I have no right to do these cruel things to you and you do not deserve it. I will work harder from now on to avoid these negative behaviors and habits and treat you with all the love, respect and KINDness that you are so worthy of. - Dear friends/sisters/strangers,

Kindly: i'm sorry - Dear riley,

Kindly, amanda: I'm sorry for something that I probably did something mean that I can't remember. - Dear abby,

Kindly, emma: Sorry for being rude and saying mean things to you. - Dear my older sister,

Kindly, burgendi: I'm sorry for sending that photo of you to everyone wish we could be friends. - Dear ashley,

Kindly, your roomies/friends: I'm sorry that you think that we're attacking you when we address your eating habits/use of diet pills. We care about you, and we don't want you to get sick again/go through it alone. We all love you, and are here for you 100% of the time. - Dear roommate,,

Kindly, Rachel: I am so sorry for all the abuse that I gave in 4th grade. I know that we made you fell miserable, and like no one liked you. I am sorry that we made fun of your weight, hair, clothes, and medical condition. I am standing where you were before, and I understand what we did to you. I feel awful, and even though you go to a different school now, and I haven't talked to you in years, I am really sorry. - Dear Emily,

Kindly, Kaleigh Lane: I am sorry for being mean to you. You are a great friend! I am so happy to have you! - Dear Jessie,

Kindly, learning to be confident: I apologize for all of the mean thoughts, the whispers shared, and the mean looks. I know they hurt, and often were only an expression my own insecurities. You are all beautiful inside and out! - Dear everyone ever judged,

Kindly, Katie M: I'm sorry for making fun of you in 4th grade. It was wrong and I know it was. I am still upset to this day for how I treated you. You didn't deserve it. Thank you for being strong and forgiving me, even though I didn't actually apologize to you. I will make it up to you. - Dear Katie U,

Kindly, me: I'm sorry for sending that photo of you around, I was just hurt and took it out on you. I was not acting like myself and I’m sorry I hope one day we can be friends and you can trust me again. - Dear you,,

Kindly, Victoria: I'm sorry, sister, that I told you that your skirt was to short, I don't think I deserved to get punched in the face for that though. I hope you're sorry too. - Dear Hailey,

Kindly, Your daughter: I'm sorry I became anorexic and couldn't even touch food. I had to have hospital care and it caused you to sell the house to pay for my care. I’m so sorry I wasn't comfortable with who I was. - Dear Mom,

Kindly, Anonymous: I'm sorry for everything I said or did to you in middle school. I know it can't change how you felt and what you did because of how you were hurt, but I hope that this apology can be the start of a path to kindness. - Dear Rachel,

Kindly, Lissie: I am extremely sorry for what I put you through in middle school. It was unacceptable, and the only reason I made fun of you was that it made me feel better about myself. That is no excuse. I have been thinking about things I have regretted in my past, and being mean was one of them. I know you may never see this, but in case you do, please forgive me. - Dear Madeline,

Kindly, Diana: i am sorry I did not let you hangout with me and my friends in Elementary school. I realize I was very cruel and I regret it with all my heart. Know I know how you felt and I am sorry. - Dear Tiffani

Kindly, Maria: We've been friends since Kindergarten and we have always gotten along we've had our ups and down's and we've had our fights but I have never talked behind your back. Your like my sister that's how close we are - Dear Tanairis,

Kindly, kyla: i am so sorry that I called you a bad word 5 years ago hope were friends - Dear rebbeca

Kindly, me: Im sorry I allowed you to go through all of this. I’m sorry for thinking the only way to keep a boy or get a boy is to do slutty things that you really regret after. I’m sorry you lost innocence before you had to. - Dear Me

Kindly, francesca: i'm sorry about the horrible things that have gone on between us over something as stupid as a boy. I’m sorry for ever making you feel the way I did and I’m sorry for all the things i've done wrong to you. - Dear alyssa,

Kindly: Dear any girl who feels hurt, I’m sorry for your pain, i've experienced it to. We need to forgive and forget and start fresh. WE ARE GIRLS. We have the power to overcome and love. Yet the power of hurtful words and violence take over. Lets replace that crap with our true powers of love. Maybe one day our daughters or grand daughters will experience what it is, to have peace in girl world - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, me: i am sorry that I am letting you get beaten up and thrown around by that mean girl. please try and talk it out with her. you are breaking yourself over it. DO SOMETHING about it. find help, because if you don't, you'll end up like the rest of them. - Dear me

Kindly, jolelinee: Thanks, nice post. Keep up the good work - Dear Anonymous

Kindly, Me: I am so sorry for writing hurtful and mean things on your form spring even though they were anonymously written. I said the meanest things to you about how you look and the way you act because I felt bad about my self and I wanted to put someone else down to feel better. - Dear Reilly

Kindly, Me: I am sorry I have been so insecure and unconfined in you. I have to know that I am pretty on the outside without all that makeup that I use everyday to cover you up. I am sorry that I have gone through numerous eating disorders to the point where I was hospitalized. I am sorry for attempting to take your life when you know your not alone. I am sorry for treating you this way. - Dear Me

Kindly, me: Im sorry I abandoned you when you told me about what happened to you, I shouldn't have. I promise to be there for any other girl who ever seeks my help. - Dear Anonymous

Kindly, j: I'm sorry I said what I did yesterday...I know this sounds cliche but I said it because I wanted to make you feel bad because I’m jealous of you. - Dear anonymous,

Kindly, me: im sorry for getting annoyed at you for the past weeks high school has really changed us and I miss the way we used to be. Hopefully one day we can renew that joy - Dear friends,

Kindly, Grace: I am sorry for whatever I have said in the past to make you feel bad. - Dear Tuesday,

Kindly, Old me: I know everything is okay now, but I still feel so embarrassed that I ditched you guys in middle. You were my first friends at a new school. And you were right: I shamelessly ditched you guys when the popular girls wanted to hang out with me. I’m sorry. - Dear Old Friends,

Kindly, Megan: I'm sorry for the hurtful email I wrote you almost 5 years ago. Although it was a long time ago and we've moved past it, I feel very sorry that I ever did that. It was immature, and I was young and stupid. I wish it never happened. - Dear Lauren,

Kindly, Megan: I'm sorry for bashing you behind your back. I realize it was long ago, and I realize you provoked the words with you lies, but I should have handled the situation with more maturity and I’m sorry for the pain it caused you. - Dear Olivia,

Kindly, Elizabeth: I'm really sorry for making fun of your drawing and talking about you, I was just jealous of how much artistic capability you have and I've been meaning to apologize for a long time I no there is no excuse for not saying anything earlier and I’m really sorry. You are a great funny beautiful girl and I hope you can forgive me. - Dear Liz,

Kindly, Erika: I am truly sorry for any girl, in my grade or in other grades, that I have trash talked about behind their back. You never know what kind of impact you can make on someone, so make it a positive one before it is too late. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, A friend who lost her way: I'm sorry for being two-faced this past semester. I said some mean things about you and chimed in with the "popular" theater girls when they talked smack, and I feel horrible about it. I’m just really insecure and wanted everyone to accept me. In reality, you've been incredibly kind to me, and I’m so grateful for your unconditional friendship to me, especially when I needed you. I hope you can forgive me and we can be even closer friends. - Dear Stephanie,

Kindly, A friend who lost her way: I'm sorry for being two-faced this past semester. I said some mean things about you and chimed in with the "popular" theater girls when they talked smack, and I feel horrible about it. I’m just really insecure and wanted everyone to accept me. In reality, you've been incredibly kind to me, and I’m so grateful for your unconditional friendship to me, especially when I needed you. I hope you can forgive me and we can be even closer friends. - Dear Stephanie,

Kindly, Elaon: I'm sorry if I've ever come across as mean, I really didn't mean (pun unintended) to. I hope you can forgive me and anyone I've hurt I’m very sorry. - Dear Everyone,

Kindly, Riley: i'm sorry I said I hated you. I’m sorry I put you down to my friends. I’m sorry I said horrible words about you and began horrible rumors. your a person,and even though I’m a student I know that things I say can hurt you. - Dear Teacher,

Kindly: I am so sorry for all the pain and tears Ive cost you I truly didn’t mean it. Ive cost you so much pain,and for what?I only did it to fit in with everyone.I am truly sorry and hope you forgive me.I regret ever calling you names. If I could go back in time I wouldn't have ever did anything to hurt you. And the last thing I am sorry for is for scaring forever. - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Erin: I'm sorry I am so hard on myself. I’m sorry I ever looked in the mirror and called myself ugly or stupid or boring. I’m sorry I ever thought I was less than I am. I am great. We all are. :) - Dear Me

Kindly, marin: sorry for talking about you behind your back - Dear soph

Kindly, L.S: I'm sorry all the times I have looked in the mirror and pointed out all your flaws and imperfections. You were right, you don't have to look good or have the best clothes to be beautiful. I’m sorry about all the tough times we had together, crying and emotions flying back and fourth. Now that I learned that true beauty comes from within, we can forget all the tough times we had together and look into the future where we can tell our kids the same and not let them suffer all the rumors and hate like we did. - Dear Self

Kindly, A: sorry for calling you a rat face - Dear marylynn

Kindly, Antonia: i'm sorry for putting you down. I am sorry if I ever, ever looked in the mirror and said "i hate you." I’m sorry I didn't stand up for you when those girls said what they said and did what they did. I’m sorry I didn't acknowledge this sooner. I’m sorry I made you suffer through the "friendly" teasing that really put u down inside. for trying to isolate you and hurt you because of stupid girls' comments. I am sorry, for all of this, but I am most sorry for not showing you who your real friends are. - Dear current self,

Kindly,: I am sorry for talking behind your back it was so wrong of me :( - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Tilly: I’m sorry for not caring about what killing I might do to other people. I’m sorry for not knowing better. I’m sorry for not caring about what anybody else thought about what I should have done. I’m sorry for not admitting to my mom that I wanted to take my life till now, 4 years later. I’m sorry for everything bad I’ve done in my life. I’m thankful for what I’ve done well. I’m sorry that I thought I could hide from all the solutions, family, friends, and emotions. I’m sorry for lying. And I’m sorry for not admitting this sooner, making someone hear what I have to say, making a difference in someone else’s life in between life and death. - Dear self and friends,

Kindly, Ishani: I am sorry for pushing other friendships away because I always thought I was going to lose them (like my friendships before). I am sorry for being grumpy and rude all the time. I am sorry for letting you down constantly. I am sorry for all of my wrong actions. - Dear current self,

Emma: be nice to people in the hall and smile to them - City

Justine: view and understand each persons perspective and opinions with respect - Iowa City

Haley: say something nice to somebody everyday. - New Orleans

Reina: say something nice to a person about something other than their clothes everyday - New Orleans

Ben: end each day without anger towards another person. - New Orleans

Jewell Gurba: give someone a thumbs up everyday. - Gretna

Madeleine B.: give a compliment to three girls, and a smile. - Metairie

Mitzi: compliment someone every day on purpose. - Nola

Erica O\'Neal: give a compliment to a girl or boy any day. - New Orleans

Jasmine: be kind and be respectful and to be responsible. - Jackson

Anonymous: smile and treat others the way I want to be treated. - City

Brianna Lakes: be kind and treat people the way they want to be treated. - City

Donisha Lard: compliment my friends, smile and laugh with everyone and show respect to everyone I talk to. - Jackson

Kindly, Bebe Lari: Ever since this campaign today at school, I really opened my eyes to how many girls all around the country have been affected by words. I mean, they’re just words. Yet, every girl gets at least a little affected by it. So, I’ve realized that as much as I’ve been hurt, so have many other girls. I’m sorry for all the pain ive caused to every girl that I disliked. I’m sorry for saying I wish she could die, or hating her for no reason. I’m sorry for misjudging any girl because everyone is kind if you look deep enough. The world needs to be a better place and I should help by not making fun of any girl. It sucks to be made fun of, and no person should be put through the pain. Girls say mean stuff, but no person should bring you down. I’m just sorry. I should of listened to the other side of the stories instead of being stubborn and decided flat out that I hated the person. Hate is a very strong word, so I’m sorry for anyone ive ever used the word hate towards. - Dear every girl I’ve ever hurt,

Roshell Adams: it is not good to be mad to people. - City

Kniya Matthews: let people talk and tell people who are talking, tell them to let people talk. - City

Shirley Jones: be loyal and wise to all my family and friends. Respect myself more and pray daily. - Jackson

Jacqueline Davis: be a better person and stop hanging around the wrong crowd. - Jackson, Mississippi

Anonymous: love the girls I don't get along with and show respect. - City

Melissa Shears: show respect and be nice to my enemies and treat people the way I want to be treated. - Jackson

Kindly, Mari.: I am so sorry for all the mean things I have said and done. I have let my jelousy get the best of me. You are my best friend and that will never change. - Dear Mariah,

Anonymous: Be nice, have faith in each other, be trustworthy, and to show respect to every person. - City

Jaliciia Lake: show respect and let people talk all they want but never let them get to me. - Jackson

Kindly, Mari.: I am so sorry for all the mean things I have said and done. I have let my jelousy get the best of me. you are my best friend and that will never change. - Dear Mariah,

Dolored Thomas: say hello to every girl. Be nice to every girl. Show respect. Don't have a temper. - Jackson, MS

Kindly, your dughter: I apologize for always getting mad at you. all my anger builds up from that day and comes out at you at home. I’m sorry. - Dear mother,

Kindly, with love sophie shaich: You have been such an amazing friend to me(: and I thank you for that. you r amazin and I need to apologize for not being there for u like how you were there for me - Dear Antonia,

Nakedra: smile at one girl each day. I will tell a girl a compliment each day. - City

Alexis Barber: stop getting so angry and also show respect to other girls. - Jackson, Mississippi

Kindly, Me : I’m sorry for judging you, for calling you unlovable, ugly, and boring. I’m sorry for holding such a high standard that it could never be met, I’m sorry for being addicted to physical perfection. I’m sorry for thinking the only way to feel better is either to have a boy in my bed or drugs in my system. I’m sorry for every cut mark you endured annd hunger pain you felt. I’m especially sorry for, after all, not changing.. I just dont think I can.. - Dear Self,

Kniya Matthews: let people talk 1 at a time - Jackson

Kindly, megan: I am sorry for all the times I have put each one of you down or hurt you in any way. I have changed now and I hope you can accept me now. - Dear friends,

Anonymous: stand up or others who are being bullied, and be kind to all - City

Kindly, Taylor e: I’m sorry if I have ever put u down or did anything they might have hurt you. I wish gossip would of not taken all of our friendship Gossip is mean - Dear All my friends,

Taylor: stop speaking negatively about others and when I see someone down, I'll try to bring them up. - Atlanta

Anonymous: be kind to other girls whether I love them or not. - City

Kindly, self: I am sorry if I ever neglected your true dreams. I am sorry if I ever doubted the love you have to give. I am sorry if I have ever put you down for the sake of others and ignored your heart when you needed love the most. - Dear self,

Starkeisha Smith: be kind and have an open heart and be nice to any and every girl no matter what they do or say to me because two wrongs dont make a right. - Atlanta

Kindly, you daughter: I am sorry if I ever was mad at you. it was only a reflection of my own fear and insecurity and I didn't understand at the time. Thank you for raising me into a sweet girl with all the heart I have to give, I could not have done it without you. - Dear my beautiful mom,

Anonymous: step forward and take a stand and help those who are being bullied. It is time to put bullying to rest. - City

Taahirah Abdul: never hold a grudge against someone, be honest, caring and support anyone in need and always remain kind. - Atlanta

Kindly, Lorena: For any of the times that I was not caring, helpful or in some way acted in a condesending manner making you feel judged and hurt, I am sorry. I know how that feels and I apologize for anytime I made you feel that way. - Dear Friends,,

Quadulyn: be kind, loving and a wonderful person to everyone. - Atlanta

Kindly,: I'm sorry we told you we wanted you to die, really I was just jealous of you, you we popular and I lost my friends, but we still shouldn't have said that. Sorry - Dear Anonymous,

Kindly, Someone Who Cares: To friends and people I have hurt, I am sorry for every mean thing I have ever said or done. I take it all back. I don't know why I said any of it, mostly I was just trying to make myself feel better. Usually I am the shoulder to cry on. People tell me everything, and I don't tell anyone their secrets. But I have a few of my own. I just wish that someone would talk to me and care about me. But most of all, I want to apologize to me. I’m sorry I told you that you were horrible. I’m sorry I insisted you were ugly and stupid. I’m sorry for everything. - Dear A Few Poeple,

Kindly, L.: I know this isn't an apology but I just need to say something. Moonie you really need to take a look at what you have done. You like when people call you a slut or whore and that is not good. Than, when someone isn't as "perfect" as you, you go and judge them and make them feel so insecure. You really just need to be like No I’m Not Going To Be Mean. I heard you saying the assembly was stupid. You know what this changed everyones lives but yours. You need to realize what you have done and become a Kind Girl because I can't stand you anymore. - Dear Moonie,

Kindly,: I love you. I am sorry I agreed with E and said we shouldn't tell you about our plans. I probably just did that because I have been left out and it was stupid of me. I know that you are a true friend and I love you so much so I will always love you and be honest. Don't change! - Dear Anonymous,

Sonjomer: smile at a girl every day. - City

Anonymous: speak to those whom I don't know or like and who are fake. - City

Kindly, Grace c: I'm sorry. You don't deserve that. I should have never called you a name, gossiped behind your back, gave you dirty looks, or wished bad things for you. If anything, karma should kick me right back in the butt for that. And it eventually will. But know that I am sorry. I don't know what I was thinking, why I did it, or even what drove me to do it. You are beautiful, and don't you dare change anything about you because one person doesn't like it. I’m sorry. I love you. - Dear Anyone I\'ve hurt,,

Jeanace: smile every day and compliment someone I don't know daily! - Atlanta

Kindly, Unique, and Special: I am sorry that I have done so much to you to achieve what I thought as perfection. What is perfection? I ask you it every day. Everyone is perfect in their own way and I have to know that. I have been so harmful to you to try to be "perfect" Skinny, smart, healthy, athletic, pretty, I can’t change myself to become all of those things, I have to accept who I am and how I was chosen to be. - Dear Self,

Nay Tasha T.: be kind and watch what I say to other females and also be careful of other females feelings and emotions. - Atlanta Ga

Kindly, Elyse: I'm sorry we're not friends anymore. Somedays I wish we still talked. I’m sorry for not being the best friend I could be. - Dear Kayla,

Tierra: keep negative comments to myself and say the positive ones. - Atlanta

Kindly, your ex bff ..: I'm sorry that our friendship unraveled in high school. I should have put more time and effort into it before things got ugly. We don't talk but I will always love you. - Dear Jamie,

Kindly, Filled with Guilt: I'm sorry I turned my back on you when I was your only friend. I’m sorry I didn't trust you when you needed me to most. I’m sorry that I told everyone one of your deepest, darkest secrets. I’m just really sorry that you almost went to take your life because of me. I want to make things right between us...can you ever forgive me? - Dear Mara,

ShanQuarious: not let any female bring me down and I promise to smile or compliment a female each and every day. - Atlanta

Kindly, Abbie: I am so sorry, you don't even understand for messing up our friendship. And then waiting for YOU to come and fix it when I should have been there and fixed it as soon as possible. Now, I miss you sososososososo much. There is not a day I dont think about our amazing times. - Dear Friend I Miss,

Amy Smith: be kind to others, never be mean, and promise to be nice. - Atlanta

Kindly, Justine: I am so sorry for whatever I have done to hurt you...even thoguh half the stuff was rumors I still feel really bad you were my best friend, I am so happy that we are good friends again I really did miss you! I love you forever and always -taylor swift ;) - Dear ,

Alisa Strickland: do my best in not talking about anyone. I pledge to say nice things only and if not, then just be quiet. - Atlanta

Kindly, Me: I'm sorry for ever hurting you at school - Dear Ex-Friends,

Letecia Sheets: be nice to others. - Atlanta

Kindly, Kate: I'm sorry that I was cruel to you in middle school. I felt like I had to lash out to make the hurt I was feeling on the inside go away. You are an amazing woman and I admire you. - Dear Devon,

Tiffany Miller: respect the disrespectful, even though it may be hard to avoid violence. - Atlanta

Kindly, L: I am sorry I thought for one second you weren't good enough. I am sorry I told you that your ugly or that you look fat in those jeans. I am sorry I hae never been kind to you! You are perfect just way you are....You will show them what you're made of! - Dear me :( ,

Jamia Charles: not judge a girl before I see or know her! - Atlanta

Anonymous: be nice no matter the situation. - City

Kindly, g: Sorry we dont get along, we just keep arguing, so stop getting mad at me because of your idiotic ways. Sorry I said that. - Dear HM,

Dolce Harrison: send kind looks instead of a dirty or mean look toward other girls. - City

Kindly, Lauren: I'm sorry I talked about you behind your back. I know now to accept people for who they are and that everyone is different. - Dear Some people,

Ashley Murphy: give somebody a kind smile or wave every day. - Atlanta, GA

Jonise Battle: always be honest and confront my problems. - Atlanta

Kindly, Emily C.: I'm sorry if I said anything about you behind you back. It was not right of me and I realize how hurtful it is. I love you and care so much about you and I will think about what I’m saying from now. I don't even know why I would say such things. - Dear Friend,

Bianca: be kind to every girl I see throughout the day. - Atlanta

Kindly, D: I'm sorry for not being there for you in your darkest moments. I should have stuck up for you. I should have led, not followed. I should have been a friend. Thank you for forgiving me...and becoming the greatest friend I could ever ask for. - Dear K,

KaBrea Jones: speak (say hello) to everyone/every girl that I see and possibly have a conversation with those people. - Atlanta, GA

Kindly, D: I'm sorry for not being there for you in your darkest moments. I should have stuck up for you. I should have led, not followed. I should have been a friend. Thank you for forgiving me...and becoming the greatest friend I could ever ask for. - Dear K,

Carlmesia Gladden: say "hey" to people in the hall that I do not know. - Atlanta

Kindly, Bethh: I'm sorry for anything I've ever done. I've been a jerk, a snob, an egotist...but things will change. You can count on me from now on. I will be here. - Dear everybody I\'ve ever hurt,

Tieffan R.: do at least 8 "good" deeds to random people in society each week and 3 "GREAT" things each month. - Atlanta

Kindly, Elizabeth: I'm sorry I was so horrible to you and said all those nasty things behind your back. You're beautiful the way you are and I had no right to bring doubt into your mind. - Dear Jess,

Jessica: speak to everyone I pass on the street, instead of looking the other day. - Atlanta

Kindly, Chloe: I'm sorry. And I’m sorry it took me this long to apologize. I was immature. I just needed to grow up to see it. - Dear G,

Alexandria Celestin: turn my comments into constructive feedback and compliments. - Atlanta

Lashanda Evans: acknowledge every female I come across with a smile. Also, once out of a week, give encouraging words. - Atlanta

Kindly, myself: I’m sorry for not viewing you as beautiful and comparing you to every other girl. its hard to see the beauty within yourself when youre surrounded by so many other girls. I can finally say that I love you. I’m sorry for putting you down. ill try not to - Dear myself,

Kiera Rush: speak my feelings about females on how they talk behind each others backs and tell what a female done mean to me and I want to express my feelings. - Atlanta

Anonymous: Be kind to other girls, whether I love them or not. - City

Denise: challenge myself to be the best example I can be to younger girls and show them that it is possible to be kind to one another. - Virginia Beach, Virg

Kindly, Your old bff: I am not going to say I am sorry for our friendship breaking up because I really do believe that it was for the better....but I am sorry for the way things went. We didn't have to have such a huge fight over a stupid boy that you broke up with a week later! We both said some things to hurt each other and neither of us was big enough to apologize to the other. But I want to say that I am sorry that things got so badly so quickly. - Dear C,

Rachel Simmons: be confident in myself and not to let a person get to me. If you are not what that person is calling you, then you don't need to worry. - City

Kindly, Megan: I'm so sorry that I abandoned you due to rummors that I wasn't even sure were true. I’m sorry I was a bad friend when you probably needed me. I've lived with that guilt for two years now... And I truly think its time for an apology. Maybe I was jealous or maybe I was scared, all in all I was wrong. sooo, I’m SORRY! - Dear Katie,

Miracle: be very nice to other girls - City

Kindly, am. : I'm sorry I told kyle you waddled in the ninth grade, I know you still carry that comment in your heart because it hurt you very deeply. You are beautiful, and I love you so much. Please forgive me best friend and may your heart feel comfort in our unbreakable friendship knowing that I will always be a trusted mouth when you aren't around. - Dear Aubrey,

Lanett Washington: try my hardest to be nice and helpful to others as I would want to be treated. - Charleston, SC

Erica Hogkins: respect others and treat them the way I want to be treated. - Charleston

Kindly, Kelly and her friends: I’m so sorry how I treated you this year... you didn’t deserve it.... but I also didn’t deserve how you treated me. I can’t stand that way my friends treat u at lunch time how they all point and laugh... so I am also sorry on their parts I’m SOOOOOO SORRY - Dear Carly,

Nadia Hammonds: not judge people by the way they look. You shouldn't be jealous of someone. Stay confident in yourself. - Charleston, South Ca

Kindly, Teresa: I’m so sorry for talking badly about you behind your back. I love you and you are one of my best friends and I’m never going to talk badly of you ever againw - Dear Emma,

Ebony Washington: be as kind as possible to make a change in the world. - Charleston

Kindly, Melissa: I am so sorry for the way things our friendship ended. I am sorry for talking about you behind your back and not supporting you. We were both in the wrong, and I’m sorry for not taking more responsibility. I’m sorry our friendship is lost because it was a great one and I’m sorry we dont even talk anymore. - Dear Tierney,

Blythe Boyd: be kind to my peers and other people - Charleston

Kindly, Zoë: I am so sorry that I am nice to your face but never stick up for you when you aren't there. You deserve so much more, and I promise to help you. - Dear Amanda,

Grace Wilgus: not make fun of people and to help other people get through their hard times. - Charleston, SC

Kindly, Your older sister.: We are sisters and I love you with all my heart and I know I have a temper and have said mean and cruel things to you in the past. But I have changed and hope you see that. I love you and nothing with never change that. - Dear Dava,

Haley Gallagher: no hold a grudge against other girls. - Charleston, SC

Kindly, Jessica: I'm sorry I made you feel like you couldn't trust me. My intentions weren't to spread rumors about you or to steal your boyfriend. I wish you would have told me how you felt before you decided to ignore me and talk about me behind my back. You hurt me too and I didn't even know I had hurt you. But I’m still sorry for how I made you feel. - Dear Erin,

Jayla Ancrum: stop bullying and be grateful and don't betray my friends and don't spread rumors that aren't true. - Charleston, SC

Kindly, Alia Mourali: I'm sorry for everything I put you through.. I’m sorry for making you wear all this makeup to feel beautiful. I’m sorry for telling you lies because I didn’t wanna admit the truth. I’m sorry for hurting you physically. I’m sorry for putting thoughts in your head. I’m sorry for making you cry. I’m sorry for making you hurt emotionally. I’m sorry for getting you mad. I’m sorry for doing stupid things. I’m sorry for trying to be cool. I’m sorry for talking shit about people I never thought I would have said anything about. I’m sorry for wearing push up bras. I’m sorry for showing off your body for the wrong reasons. I’m sorry for letting people touch you even when you were uncomfortable. I’m sorry for forcing you to do things. I’m sorry for letting you think that crying or death is the only option out? I’m not saying it'll never happen again, but it wont happen as much this time. I’m sorry for letting you fall in love again ? BUT you’re welcome for allowing you too expertise it.. - Dear Anonymous,

Luz: not be jealous about other girls and love me for who I am. - Charleston, SC

Taniesha Donahue: not be mean to my friends and to compliment my family once a day. - City

Kindly,: I’m sorry for betraying your trust and over reacting to something you said. I should have talked to you about it, but bitched about it. Sorry. - Dear Anonymous,

Mayrali: i kindly pledge to stop bullying in the whole world - Watsonville

Kindly, Anonymous: Megan, I am so so sorry for being rude and mean to you. I made snap judgments, judged your looks, cut out your flaws, I was a monster. - Dear Megan,

Ashley Hastings: to treat others as I would want to be treated. I KINDLY pledge to spread the message! - Wake Forest, NC

Kindly, Grace c: I’m sorry I said mean things about you behind your back. I was mad at you for being mean to me, but that doesn’t mean I can be mean back. - Dear Kali/ Jensen/ Grace b,

Reese Kathryn Hastin: be a good girl to everyone. I love you Cousin Molly! - Wake Forest, NC

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Jenna: accept people for who they are and respect everyone's differences. - Iowa City, IA

Kindly, Lena: I am sorry for saying things behind your back that weren't very nice and for gossiping about you. I was jealous that you were the one that got to hang out with the pooular girls that everybody like. Hayden and Jul. I wanted to be the one to get to be in their group and I was sad that it wasn't me. I guess that by saying that it made me feel better and get all the hurt off my shoulders. I feel really bad about it and I don't know why I should do that. It was wrong and I want to be friends again like we were in 4th grade! It was really fun hanging out with you all the time and you are a great friend to me and other people. You are kinda crazy but I like that about you! - Dear Sabrina,

Charlotte Hamilton: stop judging other girls and spread the word about Kind Campaign and get the movement going in my community. - Barrington, Illinois

Kindly, Amanda: I am sorry for fighting in third grade. - Dear Sabrina,

Jeanell Pankey: be kind to everyone because I wouldn't want anyone to treat me any less than the treatment I give to them. - Philadelphia, PA

Kindly, Carla: I am so sorry that I hurt your feelings when I chose to be friends with Amy over you. You were the true, authentic friend and I learned that the hard way. I am so lucky to have another chance with you. Thanks for your compassion and forgiveness. - Dear Julie,

Anonymous: be patient and nice with other females on a daily basis and respect their personality. - Philadelphia

Kindly, Morgan: I’m sorry for being mean I really think you are agreat brother - Dear Mason,

Anonymous: not be insecure of myself and not worry what others think. Not to make others feel insecure of themselves too. - Philadelphia

Kindly, Elinor: I’m sorry for spreading lies about in the 5th grade I didn’t want to hurt you. You didn’t deserve my meanness. Now that I look back on what I did I feel horrible. And I’m also sorry about all the gossip. I hope to be a friend to you and not pull you down - Dear Lena,

Tiana Bryant: make sure that I don't have anymore hatred toward females and give them a chance! - Philadelphia

Samantha Lopez: smile to at least one female everyday, to not prejudge and respect them for who they are. - Philadelphia

Nicole: to not down people (females) to make myself feel good. To this I pledge. - Philadelphia, PA

Kindly, Your new BFF: I am sorry for being so mean to you. You are actually a great friend. When you told me that I was "awesome" because of the one day that I sat by you,(It was the only place left to sit, which I dreaded because I did not appreciate you) I knew that you really appreciated me. I thought that I should treat you nicer and not talk behind your back. It is hard for me to admit this, but I called you really mean names that I shouldn't have behind your back. I thought that I would be made fun of if people found out that I was your friend. I would like to say I’m sorry and I would like to be your friend- in public:) - Dear Michaela Y.,

Kindly, Your best friend!!: I'm sorry for being a bad person I should have been more nice and not negative about you. you are actually a great friend to me and I always thought that you hated me and so I was very rood when I should of asked you to be my friend, now we are very good friends and I wish that I could of known you better and known that you where a great friend I’m sorry I called you things for hanging out with the people that you did and I was wrong about that. I hope you know that what I said was wrong about you and that who you hang out with and what you do is not bad!!! now I’m your beat friend and I hope you can say the same about me. - Dear Kenzie,

Kindly,: I am deeply sorry about how I was cruel and a jerk to you. I only thought about myself and I just wanted to be noticed like all my other friends. I am taking time to write this because I am ashamed for my wrong doings. I hope that you forgive me - Dear Anonymous,

Siani Robinson: be kind to one another. I will try to get along with anyone and not be picky. - Philadelphia

Mallory: accept people as they are and don't talk about a person's image, character or traits in a negative way. - Philadelphia

Kindly, B.: I am sorry for dating your X boyfriend. I honestly couldn't help myself he was so sweet and nice to me. He made me feel like I was floating on a cloud. I had to say yes to him. I am sorry I didn’t relized it hurt you so bad. You made fun of me and him together I thought you didn’t mind it but now since you told me. I feel really bad. Your my best friend. I love you. ....... And I’m sorry I left your nerd glasses and Regans. I will be strong and not to date him again. - Dear Breanna,

Anonymous: let go all of my anger that my supposed to be friends do to me. Also, give respect to every possible female. - Philadelphia

Kindly,: I am so sorry for hurting you and starting rumors about you as of now you are the only person in that "group" who really is a good friend to me now. I did accuse you of many things that you didn't do and i am truly sorry. Thank you for still sticking by me. - Dear Anonymous,

Amber Brown: be respectful to any females that I am surrounded by. Also, to only speak positive words to encourage others. - Philadelphia, PA

Tiffany Jenkins: compliment, respect, and greet someone with a smile on a daily basis. - Philadelphia

Kindly, Ellie: I’m sorry i was so mean to you don’t deserve my meanness i was rude. I spread rumors about you and gossiped. I hurt you and will never do this again. I’m sorry - Dear Lena,

Jasmine Morie: Acknowledge my flaws and not judge anyone by theirs. - Philadelphia

Shanyce: be polite to people and become more friendly with females. And stop gossiping. - Philadelphia

Nandira Felder: respect all females and don't let the little things cause drama. Also, to not judge and to make females feel secure because you never know what they are going through. - Philadelphia

Angel: treat another person, especially a female, with the utmost respect and not prejudge. - Philadelphia

Kindly, Katie: You are my best friend and though i said things that i didnt mean im sorry. You have been there forever for me and i dont want it to change now. Im sorry. - Dear Alexis,

Paige Hannigan: try to mediate conflicts I see with other females, and resolve the situation by communication. - Philadelphia

Maja: be nice and friendly to a girl who could really use some kindness. - Chicago

Natasha Polanski: be a vessel of kindness - Dana Point, CA

Rae: be a friend to any girl that wants one, and not to talk bad about any other person. - Chicago

Audie: reach out to other girls and just be a friend - Berkeley

Anonymous: make an effort to get along with girls, rather than just the guys - Chicago

Sarah Kohler: live by the motto: To Treat Others How I want to be Treated, and I want to be treated KIND - Glen Ellyn, IL

Joy: think KIND thoughts FIRST! - Agoura Hills, CA

Lily: never make a mean comment again - Gordon

Andrea: spread love and kindness - Chicago

ANONYMOUS2233: BE TRUTHFUL , KIND , AND LOYAL TO ALL MY Friendz - CA

Anonymous: Love, Like, Live, Life - City

Anonymous: be kind to my principle, no matter how angry she makes me. She really isn't a bad person. - City

Anonymous: say something nice to someone looking sad. - City

Nicole: not talk bad about other girls and to be nice to everyone. I will help anyone if they have a problem. - Crawford, Nebraska

Alyssa: try and be more accepting and if there is someone that isn't like my best friend be a friend to them. - Crawford, NE

Terra: be kind, not fight and start drama and compliment my friends every day. - Crawford, NE

Caiden: compliment a girl every day. - Crawford, Nebraska

Laura: be nice to people and help one another. - Watsonville

Yesenia: never tell others mean stuff. I will never say bad stuff and be helpful. - Watsonville

Noemi: pledge to people that hate me - Wastsonville

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Kimie: be kind to and respect everyone I meet! - Oxford, UK

Anonymous: say hello to all females. Also to treat all people well. - City

Khristal: be kind to every female every day - Watsonville

Amanda Muckelroy: inspire kindness in others and encourage women/girls to have a positive self image - Houston,TX

Shannon Stone: Always respect other people and respect myself ! - Beaverton

Lori B: to treat others the way i DESIRE to be treated an to stand up for what i belie in an no matter what to be someone who CARES an who will listen with an OPEN mind AN open heart!!! - WALLA WALLA

Danielle P.: have an open heart and mind towards all women. Not to judge but to engage and befriend. Most importantly teaching my children what kindness truly means. - Indio, CA

Isabella jordan: treat everyone the way i want to be treated and be nice to everyone no matter what the wear or how they look:) - Portland

Denise Alvarez: IM SO SORRY FOR Everything - Watsonville

Jamie: treat everyone the way I would hope and expect them to treat me - Iowa City

Abagail Sojka: Only speak kindly of others and encourage my peers to do the same. - Iowa City

Lauren: be kind to everyone and greet them with a smile. I pledge to do my part to stop girl-on-girl violence. - Iowa City

Jeannie: Be kind to everyone I come in contact with. They have their own problems just like I do. - Abilene

Hannah: be the friend I want to have. To stand up for the downtrodden. To refuse to accept girl-on-girl violence as a way of life, and to do my part to change it. - Abilene, TX

Florencia: be patient with everyone, but above all, with myself. - Tucson, AZ.

Taisia Mungia: inspire and encourage - Dallas

Renee Gomez: treat girls with the same respect i would want to be treated! - Costa Mesa

Lauren Caldwell: love without limitations - Dallas, TX

Stephanie: To be kind to everyone who surrounds me. - Canada

Charli: be nice to everyone around me :) even tho its difficult. - Barstow,Ca

Danica: be welcoming to all. - Cypress, TX

Lyndsey: greet everyone with a smile, and to be patient and kind to both strangers and friends because a little positive energy can go a long way. - Barcelona, SP

Laura: remember that all it can take is a little bit of love to change someone's entire day. - St. Louis

Jennifer: greet others with a genuine smile and realize they are each very special human beings. - Dalas, Tx

Tetia stroud: try to smile and show kindness and love to all!!! - Dallas

Lori: be patient with others. - Toronto

Amanda: be kind to the people I encounter on a daily basis. - Trenton, NJ

Kristen: accept people for who they are inside and out & to show everyone the love they deserve. - Scottsdale

Krystal Gilde: be a true friend and treat others with kindness and respect - South Pasadena

Danielle: be respectful to my friends and peers even when its not the easiest thing to do. - Dallas, TX

Debra Parsekian: give love and support to friends and strangers, knowing that what goes around, comes around. - Laguna Niguel, CA

Natalie: be kind and respectful to all men & women. - Toronto, ON

Merilyne: give a kind smile to someone that needs one. - Dallas, Texas

Krista: Carry others' hearts carefully in my hands and their intrinsic beauty on my shoulders! - Dallas, Texas

Talor pickering: help others and make people feel better about themselves i will never judge i pledge to spread love and happiness and to be kind - England,liverpool

Claudia: be a good friend and treat others with kindness, just as I like to be treated - New York

Alexa: Stand up to those who are being closed minded, rude or discriminating to others, greet everyone with a smile and spread the word about this awesome campaign! - Waterloo, ON

Katherine: remember that everyone has a story before I cast judgement. (So proud of you Lauren!) - Irvine, California

Maria Lauren Alberic: continue my path in teaching better well-being in body, mind and spirit and strive to walk the talk with the help of God. - West Hills, CA

Debbi: spread the word about this wonderful organization and documentary! - Laguna Beach, Califo

Molly Stroud: smile at every person I meet, and compliment as many people as possible during each day. - CA

Taylor: be kinder to those who are outside of my "circle." - Seattle, Washington

Olivia: help others in need and be the best friend I could possibly think of. - City

Samantha Pollmann: Help other girls, to the best of my ability, in any way i can. - Steubenville

Julie Caldwell: fill a strangers bucket on a daily basis - St. Helen,Michigan

Nicola byrne: be the friend that i would want others to be to me - St.charles, missouri

Anonymous: stop bullying and be kind - City

Bri: stop bullying my friends and treat them like a true friend should. - Phoenix, Arizona

Mandy: Treat others the way I would like to be treated - Sarasota, Florida

Patti Grandidge: Be a loyal, supportive, positive and genuine friend - from people whom I've known forever to people who I've just recently met... - Malibu, CA